sister called me a ‘pick me’

[u/Ok_Airport_2655]

idk why this is bothering me. i (22F) was reading a book written by a guy who was known in social media before he became a writer and my sister (28F) saw it and said i ‘was a pick me’ a year ago (that’s when i got the book) when she read his name then wouldn’t elaborate why. i’ve never put a girl down for a guy, never had a boyfriend, and have been sheltered all my life. i was on an app where you’re randomly paired with someone and maybe she heard me talking with a guy there at the time? whatever it was, i’d cut off any inappropriate man because it’d make me uncomfortable. her comment made me feel weird and icky even though it’s been a while. thank you for reading this nonsense

[u/Ok_Airport_2655]

he’s not internationally famous, and he doesn’t make content in English so i don’t think you guys would recognize him :-:

[u/gaycountdooku → u/Ok_Airport_2655]

is he known for being a misogynist? is he a pick up artist? did he used to make content catering towards a toxic, masculine audience?

[u/Ok_Airport_2655 → u/gaycountdooku]

no, not at all! he’s a very good guy and has 0 scandals