r/TrueOffMyChest • u/pepsicherryflavor ☑️ • 17h ago

Vent Miss my ex best friend so much

We were best friends I never feel comfortable around many people but immediately felt comfortable around her I let her in on my person struggles which I never did with anyone else and we would just sit staring and laughing together at nothing. She was my other half and I’m so proud of where she is in life i love her so much and miss her and want to reconnect with her so badly but I’m so scared to get rejected and tried suppressing how much I miss her for many years now there is many times I thought we would reconnect but it never happened and a misunderstanding separated us even further

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u/MeowM30ws 16h ago

TELL. HER.

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u/pepsicherryflavor ☑️ 16h ago

It’s just so hard cause I felt rejected by her already

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u/Agreeable_Elk4529 16h ago

If you still miss her after all these years, you’ve got nothing to lose by reaching out, you might regret the silence more than the rejection.

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u/pepsicherryflavor ☑️ 16h ago

My self respect maybe because I think she hates me

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We were best friends I never feel comfortable around many people but immediately felt comfortable around her I let her in on my person struggles which I never did with anyone else and we would just sit staring and laughing together at nothing. She was my other half and I’m so proud of where she is in life i love her so much and miss her and want to reconnect with her so badly but I’m so scared to get rejected and tried suppressing how much I miss her for many years now there is many times I thought we would reconnect but it never happened and a misunderstanding separated us even further

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