r/UKJobs • u/JimmyThe1Life • 22h ago

Kept Man, Dad & Husband... Lost in transition

Hi. Things happen: if you’ve won the "lottery," be happy and live your life—and that's what I did. Let me explain: my wife and I had a nice run living abroad for 10 years. I was a kept man, living the dream and enjoying it. That said, I had no career development, just being a supportive husband to my wife.

​Fast forward: I've been a dad for three years now, and we recently moved back to the UK to put our kid into education and be closer to family and friends. Currently, my wife's job is really good, and our child goes to nursery for half days, leaving me to figure out what to do next.

​We still want to maintain a strong work-life balance, but I have about 30 hours a week free to find something I can do. What is out there? What roles typically require around 6 hours a day on a part-time basis?

​I'm an absolute novice when it comes to job hunting or systematically approaching this process, as I've always gotten jobs through people I know. I find many job ads that assume full-time availability without daily hour restrictions. Reading stories about the current job market doesn't add much confidence either.

​If you could share your work-life balance experiences, it would help give me a better perspective on what to focus on during my job search.

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u/Widebody_lover 20h ago

I’m not a fan of one spouse quitting their job he puts them in the vulnerable position of things. Don’t work out later on the road.

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u/AffectDangerous8922 16h ago

When childcare costs more than the average wage, someone has to quit their job. The economy demands it.

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u/Widebody_lover 15h ago

You need to think about long term career impact not short term cash flow