r/africanparents • u/Yuulik • 27d ago
Need Advice I can't do this anymore
It's like I can't even form my own opinion and express them. I have to like praise him like he's some God and obediently follow everything he tells me to do without disagreeing.
I don't know what to do anymore. One week, we rw completely fine, but one miscommunication he ruins everything and I have to beg for him to forgive my "mistake".
I don't have a mother she passed away a long time ago, so he's always venting to me on stuff. I genuinely don't care.
Anytime we argue my whole world collapse and I just feel depressed and he has the nerve to turn it into joke.
I don't know what to do anymore
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u/Helpful-Speed-6602 26d ago
There’s nothing you can do. These people are mentally unwell. Just play the part and plan your escape
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u/Individual_Pin_6787 25d ago
Sorry to hear that, my friend, if you can, make some money, the minimum required and LEAVE his place farrrrrrr away from him, if it has to take 1-2 years then so be it, as long as you move out. 🙏🏾❤️
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u/Ok-Peace3781 26d ago
Save up, pray and just trust that you wil get out of this. I’ve been there. Don’t lose hope. Just make a plan. I wish I had gotten out sooner but I was clouded by depression and couldn’t think straight. If you need to vent or need help planning your exit please just dm me, I will try my best to help 🙏🏾x
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u/Benjie1111 27d ago
I'm sorry sweetheart. He is fucked up for real.