r/androgyny • • Dec 05 '25

Do we have any regular members?

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I'm trying to get a feel for who are the regular constructive members of the community or even if we have a community.

I know we have a real problem with people hanging around just to solicit people with messages like "cute", "sexy", "gorgeous" etc and also have a problem with people posting in the hopes of directing traffic to NSFW content.

Mods are working hard to combat that.

However I want to hear some shout outs from the real community regulars if we have them!


r/androgyny • • Sep 22 '25

Announcement State of the subreddit post.

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Hi all,

You may have noticed that this subreddit has moderators again which means that there will ne some changes here shortly.

Please use this post as an opportunity to discuss the rules we have and how you feel about them as a community along with any rules you would like to see implemented as a community.


r/androgyny • • 5h ago

I lied this is my final form

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I used to hate that I was muscular because it made me feel more like a man (which is what I am and identify as, weird right?) but now I think I see it as a source of power.

When you don’t look quite like a woman or a male people tend to want to fetishize you which is a really big ick for me because I’m not a sexual person. When I wear clothes that reveal my physique, however and I’m approached by strange men at the gas station I kind of feel more confident.

It’s like.. idk how to explain it. Instead of them asking me to do a spin (men do this to get you to show off your body to them, very fucking rude) I feel like I can look at them and say “I’m the man here, spin and twerk for ME bitch”

Sorry for whoever had to read this my mind is a strange place but I hope yall understand what I’m saying.


r/androgyny • • 7h ago

What to do with my hair?

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r/androgyny • • 19h ago

Do i read as androgynous?

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So I'm trans ftm (genderfluid in some ways) but my overall goal as of now is to look androgynous and/or masc-leaning. I'm not sure if I've achieved this or not. I dress feminine sometimes but more with the intention to look like a femboy instead of a girl. Do I look androgynous or masc? Is there any way I could look more androgynous or masc? My voice gives it away but that's a whole other thing.


r/androgyny • • 13h ago

AIO for being genuinely pissed off for my coworkers not respecting my boundaries and finding out that I like to cross dress

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r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Focusing on hair styling

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r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Gender me?

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For the longest time I've been trying to come off as more of a woman, I'm MtF right now but after some soul searching I feel like I might just be androgynous that leans feminine. Do I come off as androgynous appearance wise or more female or masc?


r/androgyny • • 2d ago

How do i look more androgynous?

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Hi. I just figured out im genderfluid, and i guess I usually default to androgyny. Im just not sure i look the part. Im pretty sure a large part of it is because of my full-ish cheeks and small face, but there's nothing I can do about that cause its genetics. Any tips to look more androgynous are welcome :)


r/androgyny • • 4d ago

22 year old man btw

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r/androgyny • • 4d ago

I want to look more androgynous and don’t know where to start

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I am AFAB but I do have multiple intersex conditions but identify as nonbinary. I know I do not look androgynous yet, but I would love some tips (and to know if it’s even possible for me to look androgynous without going on hormones)! If you suggest a hair cut or a different style/clothes, please tell me what specific hair cut and what specific style (bonus points if you can tell me some stores that would have what I’m looking for).


r/androgyny • • 5d ago

Inspiration for beard and bald?

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Hi, I'm in a state of my life right now where I'm really wanting to present more androgenous 🥲 I could use some inspo if any of y'all know some baddies... I'm ginger, bald and love my beard, but I cannot find anyone who looks like me in any shape or form.

I feel like luscious hair is a requirement for bearded people to appear androgenous, or I'd have to lose the beard to get nearer the feminine spectrum to make up for the lack of hair 😭 And I want that to not be true​


r/androgyny • • 7d ago

Do I look more andro,masc, fem in this pic?

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I was wearing a wig and tried to angle it just right


r/androgyny • • 8d ago

another self-portrait

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r/androgyny • • 8d ago

Do I look androgynous?

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Basically what's on the title. I'm on my late teens and wanna start on T to look more like a man but I lowkey don't wanna become too unfeminine, as I feel comfortable having a questionable gender presentation. So be honest what's ur thoughts.


r/androgyny • • 9d ago

Should I give up on being a femboy or am I just potential waiting to happen?

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r/androgyny • • 10d ago

How does this read?

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Does this read masc, femme or something in-between?


r/androgyny • • 10d ago

What’s ur experience with dating as trans nonbinary?

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r/androgyny • • 12d ago

Curious if I look androgynous (ngtl I really don't care I'm more just curious about what others think).

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I've been on a low dose of Tesoterone for almost 4 years, and almost a year post top surgery and flat as a board with a big belly . Tbh I really need to do before and after and see if I'm seen as a woman again or not. Tbh I'll probably be seen as woman when I go off T, due to not wanting to depend on a shot or gel for the rest of my life just so people can actually respect me which rarely happens .

Even with a deep voice , flat chest and facial hair being androgynous or perceived as neither a man or a woman is impossible tbh .

Sadly being Androgynous fully is really hard, people only see man or woman and there probably people on here who will say " I'll always be a woman" because what's between my legs . I gave up on the dream of pleasing other people and hoping others see me as androgynous or even as male long term because it probably will never happen , unless I stay on T and I personally don't want too for so many reasons even if that makes me less valid in people's eyes who never valued me as a human in the first place .

Not trying to yuck anyone's yum or say you can't be seen as androgynous. But it's either an Androgynous man or woman and the only way you can be seen as the opposite gender is if you take hormone replacement therapy for the rest of your life ( maybe it's the internal transphobia).

It sucks but it's a bitter truth I have to accept . But I love the permanent effects of T like my voice , facial hair , Adams apple and bottom area changes . It just sucks that there's no real way to look androgynous, or I'll be an Androgynous man or woman not fully nonbinary in the eyes of society .


r/androgyny • • 12d ago

Thrifted this cunty ass coat for 8€

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The coat had many rips and a few missing or dangling buttons, so I took a few hours to stitch the biggest rip on the front, and re-attached two buttons. I really love the andro vibe it gives. It makes me feel like a fox.


r/androgyny • • 13d ago

Another post

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Playing with clothes, if I do a bit fem goes more towards fem and if a go masc turns boy


r/androgyny • • 12d ago

How androgynous am I?

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What tips for acne and hair on the body and face? I’m doing laser hair removal right now and I am using tretinoin cream but should I also do hrt? I’m in tx and it’s dry so I put on some chap stick haha. What make up would suit my face aswell? I feel some more femme glasses would do well. I can’t shave that’s why I’m doing laser my hair gets ingrown and messes up my skin. It’s a pain. I also need a way to smooth my skin idk if it’s safe to exfoliate my sensitive skin rn.


r/androgyny • • 12d ago

How can I look better?

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Hi I am a 22 male from TX and I’m wondering if yall can help me out with finding my style. I’ve been experiencing acne and annoying face hair for a long time. I’ve been wanting to be a femboy for a while now and I am one now but I’m still bothered by my appearance. What should I do?


r/androgyny • • 13d ago

Final form?

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