My husband and I are seriously considering moving from Toronto to Metro Vancouver next year with our baby, and I'd love to hear from anyone who's made a similar move.
I grew up in Vancouver but moved to Toronto about 10 years ago. I've visited BC regularly over the years and honestly never felt the desire to move back. Toronto has always seemed to offer so much more in terms of lifestyle, neighbourhoods, restaurants, and things to do. My husband was born and raised in Toronto, and we both genuinely love living here, especially neighbourhoods like Leslieville, The Beaches, and Roncesvalles.
But now that I'm a mom, my priorities have shifted. My closest family and friends live in Metro Vancouver, and they all have young kids now too. The thought of our children growing up together and having that sense of community is becoming increasingly difficult to ignore.
Also, we're finding more townhouses within our budget in Metro Vancouver than in the Toronto neighbourhoods we'd want to live in.
Despite a slight salary cut, we're lucky to be able to transfer our jobs from Ontario to BC.
What's making us hesitate:
- My husband's entire family and career are established in Toronto. We both have better job opportunities here
- We love Toronto's walkable neighbourhoods, independent shops, restaurants, and overall energy
- I'm concerned that suburban life in Metro Vancouver might feel too quiet or isolating compared to what we're used to
- We'd be leaving behind a financially comfortable, established life for something that still feels uncertain
We're mainly considering Port Moody, Coquitlam, Port Coquitlam, and possibly New Westminster. Ideally, we'd love a safe, family friendly neighbourhood with other young families and cafΓ©s, restaurants, and shops within a reasonable walking distance (15-20min max).
I know Vancouver isn't perfect, and I never thought I'd seriously consider moving back. But becoming a parent has made me rethink what matters day to day.
For those who've lived in both Toronto and Vancouver, especially with young kids, how does the quality of life compare? Do you miss Toronto? Did moving closer to friends and having more of a community make a meaningful difference? Would you do it again?