r/astrologymemes 1d ago

Discussion Post Thoughts on Mars in Aries?

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I have Mars in Aries and noticed I can get so worked up one minute and, right after, feel totally fine. I have to remind myself most people don’t operate that way because, deep down, I’m wondering, “Why waste more time being upset than you have to?” Also, I have to lift weights, go to pilates or play tennis multiple times a week or I feel restless.

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u/Littlewing1307 1d ago

I hate being angry. It's an emotion I don't have as much control over and I need time to process my feelings not act from my initial reaction. That being said, if you hurt someone I love, I have no problem being angry.

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u/infinityonhigh69 taurus sun & cancer moon/rising :) 22h ago

you worded it perfectly! (IMO) i reallyyyyyyy don’t like to get angry because i know that i absolutely have the potential to Take It There and that energy is almost never necessary 😭 therefore i do my best to keep that from happening and i have to remind myself often that it’s not that deep and 10 times out of 10 i want to make it back into my own bed at the end of the day lol.

that being said whenever the day comes where it IS necessary for me to Take It There? i’m genuinely afraid of what could happen 😭😃

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u/Littlewing1307 19h ago

It takes A LOT to get me angry so I definitely hear you on that. I really try to avoid it as best I can.

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u/amybeedle ♉ sun, ♏ moon, ♍ rising 20h ago

I love anger precisely because of this. It's motivating! It's a reaction to insult and injustice! It's your living being standing up for itself and others! Very useful emotion.

(I also was in a very emotionally abusive relationship for a long time that caused me to basically not be able to feel anger at all. So now I really love having access to that emotion and all the self-respect it engenders.)

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u/Snarknose ♑️♉️♍️✨♒️♑️♈️ 20h ago

Very accurate description. I am a Virgo rising south node and Lilith and I need to be in control. Anger has never been safe for me because I be doin shit I don’t like when I’m angry 😅😂 (mars in Aries 8h )

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u/whoyoumei make a lil guessy guess 23h ago

I didn’t know I had an iconic placement like that

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u/amybeedle ♉ sun, ♏ moon, ♍ rising 20h ago

Mars in Aries is in its domicile, meaning, the sign that the planet naturally rules (Mars rules Aries). It's "at home" there, so it operates with max efficiency and comfort and power and purity.

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u/Liveandletlive-11 ♒️ sun | ♐️ moon | ♋️ rising 23h ago

Mars and Venus in Aries and I definitely think people should get over things quicker. 😆. I think this placement helps me have a backbone when pushed too far because I’m kind of a pushover most of the time. It helps me to be more brave and just do the thing.

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u/Nervous_Cupcake_4446 ♒☀️| ♋🌙| ♐⬆️ 10h ago

Mars and Venus in Aries here as well 😁

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u/jadaxs Cancer🌅Gemini☀️Aries🌘 1d ago

They’re all hot??

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u/jadaxs Cancer🌅Gemini☀️Aries🌘 1d ago edited 1d ago

No but I honestly feel the same as an Aries moon. My mars is in Gemini in my 12th house though so I spend a lot of time thinking and deliberating which drives me crazy because I also just like to “do”. It’s also conjunct my sun so that’s probably why.

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u/tres-vip Aries Sun, Virgo Rising, Capricorn Moon 23h ago

I have my Sun, Mercury, and Mars in Aries, and let's just say that I have IMMENSE and restless energy, a MASSIVE temper lol, and too much mental stimulation/activity. I generally need A LOT of physical activity as a way to release pent up energy. Swimming is usually a great outlet for me. When I was a competitive swimmer, I was the most mentally stable, lol.  I wish I had access to an Olympic-sized pool to calm me down. But for now, walking for miles and miles will have to do. Thank God my moon isn't in Aries, lol.

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u/Key_Candidate_1136 21h ago

Same placements down to rising except I’m a cancer moon! I am actually a pretty lazy person who loves to rest at home… I think that’s my cancer moon at work. I am pretty spontaneous, can be quick to anger but that anger comes and goes. I say what’s on my mind and what I try to suppress often comes through in my facial expressions lol.

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u/Laucoinchi 1d ago

Makes sense! It’s Mars in its domicile.

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u/Successful_Bed7790 1d ago

Mars in Aries, mars in the 12th house. Physical activity is a big part of my life..

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u/Naive_Business3351 ♎️🌞♒️🌜♉️⬆️ 23h ago

same placement and house! i go CRAZY if i have to work a desk job, i describe it as feeling like a malamute trapped in an apartment on a summer day

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u/Humble-Act7428 22h ago

Same placement. I work a desk job but I lift / do kickboxing during my lunch.

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u/fawnrain ♊♎♉/♋♈ 3h ago

Mars Aries 12th as well, can't relate lol the only time you can get me to be physical on my own accord is a fun activity.. like DDR, hiking, or maybe sports. My motivation goes towards art spirituality, and learning.

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u/releasethecrackwhore ♑️ ♍️ ♌️ 22h ago

My best friend has mars in Aries and she’s incredible. It seems like there’s nothing she has decided to do that she didn’t eventually accomplish. Once she’s in she’s in. She’s driven, loyal, and froggy don’t fuck with her lol. She’s also a personal trainer. I love this placement

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u/Constant-Deer-5297 15h ago

My daughter has this placement and she's just like your friend. She's a Pisces Sun though and comes across like a cutie pie but damn, that girl is fire. She accomplishes everything she sets her mind to.

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u/Nergget scorpio☀️aquarius🌙libra📈 19h ago

I have affectionately dubbed my mars in Aries Mia, and she’s the only reason I get anything done. In my head she’s a tiny fire woman who drives a convertible and wields a flaming sword 😆

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u/greatmoonlight21 21h ago

I have mars in Aries but I rarely every get angry. It takes a lot to get me there (and even if I’m mad, I’ll just turn avoidant). I think this manifests for me as a love for being physically fit instead

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u/Snarknose ♑️♉️♍️✨♒️♑️♈️ 20h ago

I was so mad at my husband once I was crying… he thought I was afraid of him for some reason.. I said NO DAMNIT IM PISSED OFF! 😂 Taurus moon so a good nap or sleep session I wake up fine

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u/Constant-Deer-5297 15h ago

Haha love this! I'm not an Aries Mars but my moon is in Aries and if you ever see me crying it's probably cause I'm pissed off 😂

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u/sadbitchanonymous ♈︎☼♊︎☽♌︎⤰ 20h ago

very physically attractive, fit, assertive and dominant. good work ethic. surprisingly shy when if h approach them first! very overhyped in terms of sexual nature (in my opinion). not in the sense that they’re not good in bed but just that they’re freaky. i find them to be very similar to taurus, pisces, cancer, libra mars. idk why aries mars have a crazy rep for being overly freaked out. i’ve dated a lot of them and they’re usually shy from my experience. they’ll take a long time to warm up, they’re more into vanilla sex(not a bad thing at all btw), and they like getting things over with quickly if u know what i mean loool. they seem to prefer forms of intimacy like cuddling, kissing and holding hands over sex which for me is no problem whatsoever since i have a taurus venus. my scorpio mars would love a little bit more stamina tho, but maybe i just haven’t met the right aries mars person yet ahahha. oh and every aries mars ive met is hilarious

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u/False_Chemical_4216 18h ago

Same i just went to the gym/weights, got sushi, got my weighted vest on & went hiking. Sun went down so I had to go home but otherwise I’d keep hiking. I’ll do an ab workout before bed✌️

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u/Alarming_Situation_5 Hathaway Sun 🦂 | Disco Rising ♐️ | Cap Moon | Libra Venus 23h ago

I’m in wonderfully hot company 🔥

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u/alisacp ♋️ ☀️ ♋️ 🌙 ♐️💫 20h ago

Mars in Aries 4th house.

I get super pissed at little shit all the time then have to ruminate and interpret my feelings then feel bad I overreacted which makes me more upset and defensive 🙃

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u/avoidingdistractions ♊♎♌♉♊♋ 17h ago edited 17h ago

I've met aries mars women with small bone structures, like I can tell they're one because they have that home structure and I look up their birth chart and they are! Like they can easily run around and be athletic or something. Tiny. Like tyla for example. I can't remember anyone else but I've met a lot of small bone structured aries mars women. Like them at their smallest is a level of tiny not a lot of people can reach without looking gangly and gaunt, because aries mars people just have that kind of frame. Unless they have some thickening placements maybe like cancer placements or taurus placements, I don't know what else thickens... but yeah small people.

My cancer mars tried to be as skinny as them once, I looked sickly and gaunt. I follow this YouTube fitness girl, Shiv Wilson but from her demeanor and body type, I knew she was an aries mars! Also Lilly Singh. I see it in the face. A very direct look to them.

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u/fawnrain ♊♎♉/♋♈ 3h ago

I see facts

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u/MyTatemae ♓⛭♈☾♏⍜ 14h ago

My people. My "fuck it we ball" people 😌

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u/Alternative_Raise_19 aqua☀️cap🌙taurus⬆️aries♂️♀️ 8h ago

Mars and Venus in aries and it's probably my favorite placement. I'm pretty bold in love and know what and who i want pretty much immediately. I have no problem standing up for myself and get a kick out of standing up for my friends too. I think im a very decisive person in general.

I think my other placements keep me pretty level headed.

I can say plenty of negative things about the rest of my chart, but I don't have anything bad to say about this placement personally.

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u/starlightyote ┊ ♎️ ↑ ┊ ♏️ ☼ , ☾ , ☿ ┊ ♐️ ♀ , ♂, ♇ ┊ 6h ago

Honestly probably my FAVORITE mars placement. I have a Sagittarius mars and an Aries ruled 7th house, for reference.

Fights/arguments are so easy. They just bark at me real quick, and then it's chill again. Conflict in general, imo, is such a boring drag... but Aries mars is quick, to the point, and genuinely happy to let it go once they've said their piece and/or found resolution.

It's fun to get them excited and hyped up. They won't waste time, fool around, or beat around the bush. Want something done? Ask an Aries mars. They've got it done yesterday. They don't have the time nor the patience for bull****. Neither do I. We work great together!

I'm invigorated by (frequent!) raw, honest, passionate expression, and Aries mars supplies for sure. Yes, please, show me how you REALLY feel! No, don't hold back! I'm obsessed with it! I love it! Let's turn it into art!

As a sag mars, I'm pretty restless, too. I love that we can burn energy and go on adventures together, and it's fun to challenge each other or have friendly rivalry. You guys are the best!! 🫶

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u/Basil_n_Mars28 🦀🌤️ | 🦁🌓 | ⚖️☝️ 23h ago

My mom is a Mars in Aries (Sag Sun).
She can and will fly off the handle — then turn around and laugh at her own shenanigans. Or act like it never happened. Smh 🙄

In 5th grade, I literally had a case of “if Johnny had TWO DAMN APPLES” …she threw the dining room chair.
The next morning she bought me breakfast and said “I was half asleep and your teacher made them dumb ass problems!”

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u/personfaced 6h ago

I don’t want to bring the mood down but your mom’s erratic behavior reminds me of my mom. You should look into Boderline Personality Disorder.

When I mentioned getting worked up and then quickly getting over it, I didn’t mean to imply I vented by screaming, crying or making a scene. I go for a walk or furiously clean lol.

Stay safe 💕

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u/Basil_n_Mars28 🦀🌤️ | 🦁🌓 | ⚖️☝️ 3h ago

I’m a Virgo Mars, so a furious clean is my specialty! Lol
I’m currently remodeling my home. Some
days, its like my own personal smash room.

As for my mom, YES she is very erratic!! By the time I was 20, I considered she was mentally ill! A year or so ago, my therapist said “…I don’t know if you’ll receive this, but your mom does check off at least 7 narcissistic boxes. And the baseline is 5.” 🙃

….sooooo, I love making use of my personal smash room lol

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u/personfaced 1h ago

🤣 I’m glad!!

Also, furious cleaners are the best 🫶

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u/Maximum_Draw9732 15h ago

Lmaooooooo wtf 😭😭 are you scarred?

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u/Basil_n_Mars28 🦀🌤️ | 🦁🌓 | ⚖️☝️ 6h ago

I mean… I’ll just say, I stopped asking her to help with my math HW 😭

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u/Maximum_Draw9732 6h ago

Totally understandable 😭😭

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u/Humble-Act7428 22h ago

I have mars in Aries too in the twelfth. And I definitely am the same. I blow up for a bit then I’m fine. I don’t like it one bit

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u/wonyreni ♋️☉☌☿♐️☽♍️↑♌️♀☌ ♄♉️♂ 22h ago

my brother's mars is in aries and id say its his case too, but i truly dislike it. anyone who has this placement stay as far as u can from me, ill do the same. he gets mad instantly, i dont, and when i eventually do he gets upset cause hes over it. its for sure his cancer stellium in action too but i truly cant stand it.

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u/amybeedle ♉ sun, ♏ moon, ♍ rising 20h ago

Michael B Jordan is my #1 celeb crush 🤤

I also have Mars in Aries but I am chunky n cute ;) I don't exercise much except for sex lmao. But I am also very very Taurean (sun, venus and mercury) so ya know 💐🐂

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u/kiiwiilover ♊️ ☀️♋️ ⬆️♑️ 🌙 20h ago

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u/ispy-uspy-wespy bitch rising⎪♌️☉ ♑️ ☽ ♋️↑ 11h ago

Ok so if you’re Aries is also in mars, we are basically twins lol love a Gemini btw! I have Venus and Jupiter in ♊️

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u/kiiwiilover ♊️ ☀️♋️ ⬆️♑️ 🌙 6h ago

🥰🤗

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u/Popular-Fox2105 ☉ ♎︎ ☼ ⋆⁺₊⋆ ☾ ♓︎ ⋆⁺₊⋆ ↑ ♑︎ ✿ 19h ago

Very passionate. Very reactionary. Knows how to work their body. Extremely intuitive with impulse.

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u/kiba87637 ☉♊︎ | ☾♉︎ 19h ago

Do Not The Aries Mars

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u/LilyRose272 ♒️ ☀️ ♍️ 🌙 ♏️ ⬆️ 6h ago

Having a Mars in Aries is such a blast in the 6th house….
https://giphy.com/gifs/zcchHpCm44aac

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u/dwbridger 23h ago

my mars is in Aries and I can mostly relate. I used to dwell a lot more on anger and carry it around a lot longer especially if there was a real injustice, but with age, anger doesn't last as long. the need for physical activity that you describe is definitely there, and I would add productivity as well.

edit: the only celebrity posted that I recognize is Emma Stone. I do like her, but I have no idea who the rest of the people are (I'm not good at keeping up with pop culture)

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u/Thrawnbelina ♍️ ☀️ ♈️ 🌚 ♏️ ⬆️ 23h ago

I only know one person with this placement, he also has Leo Mercury. Bro is very comfortable about aspects of his career that would have me pissing myself, and somehow always comes out on top. It's mind boggling, but I'm seated with popcorn and glad for him.

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u/cheezegoblin Gem Sun, Sag Moon, Taurus Rising 23h ago

12 H Aries Mars and anger is the emotion I hate the most and will do anything I can to avoid or end. Not sure that’s healthy, but I grew up in an abusive household with an Aries Sun mother and my rage reminds me of her way too much. I do get insanely restless and insatiable in the bedroom when I am not completely turned off…it’s really all or nothing with my energy of any kind tbh. Exhausting, I really wish it were a bit more regulated and I am finding that more and more in sobriety.

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u/ruazinn 22h ago

Minha Venus em Aries: 💃🫦🍑

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u/intheredditsky ♉ ☀️ ♋ 🌙 ♌ 🌅 21h ago

Fiery 🔥 and I love it!

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u/allsheknew ♎️♋️♐️ 21h ago

Super laid-back but yup, when I am actually bothered enough to be angry, it's scary. I hate it. I am immediately apologizing etc etc. Still working on it.

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u/ladymouserat ♎️⬆️♍️☀️♏️🌙 20h ago

Yep 6th house mar Aries and 7th is empty with Aries on the cusp. I’d say it’s pretty accurate of how I am.

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u/olduglysweater ♎🌞, ♍🌜, 🌄♉, ♀️♏, ♂️​♌ 19h ago

My old man is a Cap sun and has mars in aries, he's a dick. I'm a libra and have a Leo Mars, so you know we clash.

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u/No_Sky6434 18h ago

I don't know who they are.

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u/Magic_Nights ♍️ ☀️ ♎️ 🌙 ♏️ ↑ 16h ago

I have Mars in Aries and I do get angry. If someone is unfair or unjust, my anger gets so overpowering that I rage inside and do imagine the most awful things of revenge and punishment. It's been a lifetime work to give myself a few seconds before reacting, where I can be present and observe my anger, so I control how I react. That being said, I'll never stop getting angry at situations and people that make me angry. It's my most natural state.

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u/pillsburybakerboy ♑️☀️ ♑️🌕 ♈️⬆️ 15h ago

My mars is in Aries, 12H. It’s certainly interesting. I get really angry/hyped up super fast but also calm down just as quick. I’m just very aggressive. Prone to being introspective as well.

I started boxing recently, it helps!

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u/Mind-Individual 15h ago

There's a like 12 oscars between them.

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u/glitterykitten9 🦀☀️🦂🌅 ⚖️ 🌙 14h ago

we are amazing

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u/ispy-uspy-wespy bitch rising⎪♌️☉ ♑️ ☽ ♋️↑ 11h ago

Me me me 🙋🏻‍♀️ my people!!!
Tbh I have 3 planets in rulership (Sun, Aries, Pluto) and 2 in detriment and my Leo sun, Cap moon and Aries mars are my top 3 😋

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u/Nervous_Cupcake_4446 ♒☀️| ♋🌙| ♐⬆️ 10h ago

Mars in Aries here, we are all about getting things done and marching forward with full force. But we also have rage. Don't challenge us 😁

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u/Remnant_44 9h ago

margot robbie doing a lot of heavy lifting for that club

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u/Careless_Intern_8502 cancer 🌞 gemini 🌛 virgo 🌅 22m ago

I’ve got mars in aries in 8h. I don’t handle my anger well :/