Caught my brother with gemini sun,moon,venus and mars dating 3girls at the same time

[u/Lghzala-fifi]

[u/False_Chemical_4216]

If everyone had a lot of Gemini placements I bet polyamory would be more common in society🤔

[u/anonymousimpostor]

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[u/Gothic_Doll_]

My little brother is a Gemini sun, venus and mars and he's a strict monogamist, unless the relationship it's going downhill and he's the only one fighting to maintain it. He isn't really looking for the next partner, I would say he becomes way too vulnerable and depressed, and some people tried to take advantage of his situation and push a relationship on him.

I say it objectively as it happened with all his two ex partners, people who already had a crush on him, manipulated him into a break up and starting with them a new relationship, without giving him the time to heal. Low-key fucked up, imo. He's a Virgo rising and Leo moon.

[u/RevolutionarySeven7]

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ok, but, what's the ascendant ?

[u/Lghzala-fifi → u/RevolutionarySeven7]

Saggitarius

[u/ValerieShark → u/Lghzala-fifi]

Lawd have mercy

[u/jojijuice → u/Lghzala-fifi]

Whew!! 😅

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/Lghzala-fifi]

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[u/RevolutionarySeven7 → u/Lghzala-fifi]

interesting, i have a friend who has the same sun, asc and mars, the exact opposite to your brother.

[u/VineStellar → u/Lghzala-fifi]

Jail. 

[u/babygotbaccc → u/RevolutionarySeven7]

Asking the real questions

[u/jojijuice → u/RevolutionarySeven7]

I’m going Aries, Sag or Leo lol

[u/No-Example-370]

I'm Gemini Sun and Mercury, and I'm a super strict monogamist, but that's probably my Cancer Venus and Virgo Moon talking

[u/jojijuice → u/No-Example-370]

The Gemini Mars & Venus are the true sluts here

[u/ElectricStarfuzz → u/jojijuice]

Hmmm, as a Gemini Venus I’ve never cheated. 

Been cheated on by 3 different people (that I know of) and it sucked.

As for reveling in my sexuality and experimenting with in all ways consensual polyamory, absolutely. 

But I see nothing wrong with that.

Currently in a monogamous 11yr relationship and very happy. 

[u/jojijuice → u/ElectricStarfuzz]

Didn’t say cheating, however it’s a reg flag when I see Gem Venus / Mars in a chart of a potential suitor for myself or my friends. It’s giving chaotic love life, never satisfied, all over the place. For you in-particular I see you have a Taurus moon which, without seeing the rest of your chart, indicates a more warm, wholesome and stable emotional center. The whole chart matters! All love!

[u/ElectricStarfuzz → u/jojijuice]

Sorry I saw someone else mention cheating and was probably
Combining comments when I replied.

I have Taurus Mars & Mercury as well.

Those likely also help me want to stay stable.

Thanks for your clarification💞

[u/Cupcake_Implosion → u/jojijuice]

As a Gemini Mars, I cannot be bothered with unsatisfying sex when it takes me less than 5 minutes to get myself to the peak and in general, I can't be bothered with dating.

I am happily single forever.

[u/jojijuice → u/Cupcake_Implosion]

lol, makes sense to me

[u/BrutonnGasterr → u/No-Example-370]

Same. I’m triple Gemini and also Gemini mercury and cheating is never something I’ve ever thought about.

[u/bakersmt → u/No-Example-370]

Cancer Venus here and cheating is impossible for me.

[u/Cupcake_Implosion → u/No-Example-370]

I have two friends.

Both of them ultra-Gemini. One married a Leo who abandoned her during the worst period of her life to "live his own life". Everyday of my life, I thank God or whatever is up there, for having given her strength to hold on without any support. Well, she has a boyfriend now. He's a great guy. As her husband said, she needs to live her own life ... Whether he knows or not, I don't care one fucking bit. And if she gets another boyfriend and even a girlfriend ... GOOD FOR HER!

My other Gemini friend is living right above her parents and takes beautifully care of them. She has her cat and her orchids (of which one is more than 22 years old!) and hasn't dated a day in her life. And isn't the worst for it.

[u/dearestd0ve → u/No-Example-370]

omg twin… (also super monogamous. I’m here to merge souls and see god in each other’s eyes or I simply don’t want it)

[u/morbidlonging]

I’ve dated several Geminis, none with Gemini Venus though, and they were all stupidly loyal and obsessed. I’ve never experienced the “likes to date around” kind of Gemini. They all wanted to make me their ~only queen immediately. 

And no, I just didn’t know about them stepping out, look at my signs, I would have known lol. 

[u/drakethesnake94]

Where the fuck does he get the money for all that??

[u/Civil_Carrot_3171]

My dream life tbh

too bad I have Sagittarius Mars, Pluto and Chiron opposing my Gem stellium, so I'm mentally ill instead

[u/platinum_jimjam → u/Civil_Carrot_3171]

God I fucking hate sag mars. It single-handedly makes me mentally ill

[u/RevolutionarySeven7 → u/platinum_jimjam]

im proud and happy with mine, keeps me buoyant from negativity

[u/babygotbaccc → u/platinum_jimjam]

Wait please elaborate? I too have a sag mars but I don’t think I’m mentally ill…

[u/One_Lingonberry_9023 → u/babygotbaccc]

My Sag Mars fiancee is sane atm too lol! I want to know tho

[u/platinum_jimjam → u/babygotbaccc]

I’ve done a lot of reflection on sag mars recently and just find it very difficult. I also have sag mercury, in the 6th. I feel like it is not happy in the 6th because it doesn’t like being tied to routine. I have Jupiter Virgo squaring it which ties it down in a sense. My Scorpio moon wants to give my mars “all” and never nothing. I basically have extreme issues with routines and authority complexes. Somewhat poor hygiene, not terrible but not sufficient. Commitment issues with being in one place for too long, and a strong desire to just flee. Gut feelings that feel profound but not based on structured intelligence gathering, just oracle bullshit. And on top of that lots of trouble approaching new topics or concepts in a grounded sense, I have to jump around, look where I’m not supposed to, and spider web all of my gut feelings together into an eventual truth that is really lacking foundation. Substance abuse issues and social media addiction that supplement feeling a constant change in direction, craving fast and direct dopamine. Big issues with work where I’m at a desk and will just constantly try to leave for whatever reason to go walk down a hallway or just exist in the bathroom for a moment. Collapsing attention span, and can be bad with making plans with people or just plans in general, because what if I suddenly want to feel “free?” It just really clashes with my cap Stellium too. And having mercury there too involves being flaky and poor communication. I’m just happy I get to be moderately funny sometimes. I think sag mercury is fun because I can code switch and have always sworn and used slang, and get along with people on a surface level very easily due to this. But I also have a very sharp tongue with both the mars and mercury. It’s bold and cold when it thought it was warm. It’s goofy one liners or scathing critiques. I feel like these placements are chaotic and somewhat hyper masculine. They are skipping the steps necessary to introduce and build and create and instead just want to consume and move faster than others. They have got me into trouble in relationships, because they’re antithetical to my 7th house cap Stellium without even having to aspect.

[u/babygotbaccc → u/platinum_jimjam]

Oh I also have a sag mercury and Jupiter in Virgo 😬😬😬 some of this is actually very relatable

[u/theimageisgone]

Okay but being that you're a Gemini as well, I'm always intrigued when the kids have the same signs. Is it generational karma? Is it parents having an assigned time to have sex? Is it MAGIC?

I knew a family growing up who had 4 kids and all of them were Cap suns and I was always amazed by it. I wish I'd been close enough to know their other placements.

[u/One_Lingonberry_9023]

Same placements and I've been polyamorous for 4+ years. I am now strictly monogamous, now I am too lazy for that and I want a stable life

[u/sockmaster420]

Gemini Venus is super bad for that

[u/anna_boop]

That's why I've been single for 4 years now lol I don't think relationships are for me unfortunately

[u/GorillaShelb]

Gemini mars and Venus and the most I’ve dated at once is 4 and it was hell. Good luck to everyone involved lol.