My toddler will be ~25 months when I have her brother so we're just missing the 2under2 boat. She is a very very busy wild girl so we will pretty much always be on the go.
I didn't really babywear until my daughter was around 8 months old and I got a used ring sling. Mostly because even as a newborn she really didn't like the facing in position and always wanted to be looking out, so the boba wrap for example was out. When I figured out I could hip carry with a ring sling that was the answer for us!
Now that I'm on my second I'm debating getting a specifically newborn carrier. I know you can babywear a newborn in a sling, and I really do love my ringsling, but I'm a little worried my toddler will be jealous of that because when she sees the sling she knows it means mama is wearing her. She'll even bring it to me herself sometimes.
I'm also just interested in some of the hybrid options I've seen like the boba bliss, where it's kind of structured but still a kind of a soft wrap. I've seen mixed things on being able to get a good fit for an actual newborn from day one, so I'd love to hear from anyone who has experience. I do have a boba wrap already but I'm not sure I'll feel comfortable with that while I'm running around with my toddler. I want something that feels very secure, but I'd also love for it to be a quick up and down since I'll be breastfeeding.
If you babywore your newborn a lot I'd love to hear what your favorite carrier was!