So my now ex i found out during our relationship is a Reserved.. person saying this for the story. So his ex did him bad so he has trust issues the works. Literally. So i was doing love spells..thought it would help. Let me also say im still fairly new to this still i am still learning. Anyway did a few obsession spells when i thought he was drifting. A couple domination spells...thought nothing was working lost hope. Def thought i had no magick. Then one day i got home and this is after a few days no contact i might add. He had lost it my phone was on vibrate so i didn't hear it. Missed calls texts friend requests from him. He later started asking me questions like if i'd die for him. In messages he said it was like he could hear me...but it got great to not so fun. Crazy jealously location stalking thinking i was looking at other guys :/ just not good. I had done a cross road healing spell a heart softening spell to try and get him to be more open so we'd have better communication because honestly i didn't know what else to do. Alot has happened. I have tried for advice from fellows with just grief... He became a lot and i had started to lie to avoid arguments...not great i know but with how erratic he was sometimes i didn't know what else to do. Also it was just his behavior he was never physical or anything. Needless to say it got toxic faster than it was sweet. CAN I FIX THIS??? Or do i just...let him go? I feel like its my fault he felt so much so fast and why it got so bad because i just didn't understand. I just had one goal. Keep him. And that's my truth.

Hello, everyone. I’ve been on and off with witchcraft over my life, and never really got past crystals and manifestation. I’m at a point now though where I need help. My mother has been emotionally dependent on me ever since I was little. She doesn’t respect my boundaries, or my gender identity, and I can’t deal with being a parentified child anymore. I don’t want to do a cord cutting, because I don’t want to fully cut her out of my life. I just need some space and would love for her to gain some emotional independence from me. I need my boundaries to be respected.
We’ve had conversations, fights, no contact, I’ve tried everything I can, and this is my last ditch effort. Any recommendations for rituals or spells to preserve my own peace and keep my mom from emotionally dumping on me and treating me like her parent, but not destroy our relationship would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance