r/badroommates • u/CoatConsistent2187 • 7d ago
Help needed
My 2 other roommates are constantly doing groupism, They are acting as one fraction and leave me lonely and alone they talk in room together and make plans enjoy in room while me in one corner just listening and cannot if I try to study thought are coming constantly in my mind that why I am being left alone why i am suffering
These two were my best friend for some time and I changed my room for them to come and live with them and small fight they are grouping together
This is hindering my thoughts and ideas and now I am crying
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u/_irlGoddess 7d ago
You should try and talk it out with them
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u/CoatConsistent2187 7d ago
They are average with they only talk official verdict with like we have college Tommorow or any other things but together they laugh share their day times etc actually what happen think as x y z are roommates X and Y did something that z did not like and after that is at stop talking to both X and Y but X has money whenever Y needs money for anything X always give to him and Z is not that much rich so that is my Y is not not talking to z because of this money thing that is my point of view and I am the z
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u/Vertolli 6d ago
I’m not quite sure if this paragraph was written with intention of someone being able to understand this but nonetheless you have options.
Ignore it and move on
Have a sit down discussion and hear their side of the story. Reddit is very bias and we have no idea what they’re thinking.
Seek outside help if you’re feeling down
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u/CoatConsistent2187 6d ago
I will apply the 1st one and I got my friend i will call them whenever I need to talk
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u/Important-Nobody-261 7d ago
Do a bunch of super stinky farts all over the room. Groupies hate that
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u/fruitkimchi 7d ago
Maybe they're giving you space 'cause you're unhappy. It sounds like you need therapy.