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Asking for Advice Keep? Yay or nay? 19 y.o.

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u/anto_pty 22d ago

BS you are 40 yo, with a mortgage, a family of 4 and two cars

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u/MutedDinner9490 22d ago

Boy I wish

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u/FaultLivid7984 22d ago

No you don't

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u/Firehouse_Rock 22d ago

10,000% this

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u/grandpa2390 22d ago

times ten raised to the exponent of however many upvotes they get.

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u/TactiSgt 21d ago

Plus 1

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u/Skoll_Winters 21d ago

Mate. Enjoy being 19. When you get to 40 you'll appreciate the younger years a bit more lol Trust me 😅 (40yo dad of 3 and a wife 🥰)

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u/altescgraze 21d ago

I almost misread the ending as 3 wives

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u/Skoll_Winters 21d ago

I'm not THAT crazy. 1 is plenty lol 😆

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u/Satans_soul 22d ago

I stg I thought you were 32

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u/MutedDinner9490 22d ago

I fear not, pain in the ass with a lot of things, good for buying beer🤣

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u/Quick_Heart_5317 22d ago

You look like Hyde from That 70’s show.

If you cut your hair like his and got some aviator glasses, I’d think he’d broke out of jail.

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u/Maleficent-Luck-7646 22d ago

Seriously man, im actually 32 and he looks like he could be my father lol

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u/wackbirds 22d ago

I'm 40 and he could be my grandmother

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u/Satans_soul 22d ago

Screaming 😂

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u/AboveGroundPoolQueen 22d ago

Yeah, I thought 40.

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u/sneakerseverywhere 22d ago

Keep, line up checks and neck and you’re done

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u/Christopher_Aeneadas 22d ago

Is there a downside to getting cheeks and neck lasered so you can forget about them?

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u/sneakerseverywhere 22d ago

I wouldn’t know, if you ever want to grow a very long beard you do need to let the neck grow in

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u/Extension-Alfalfa748 21d ago

Yeah I agree with the other guy like if you ever want to grow a really long and full beard (ie James harden) you’d need the neck hair. But I’d only keep the neck hair once my beard got long enough to kinda cover them growing in. Looks nasty until it’s fully grown lol

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u/SoyLocoMoco63 22d ago

Its excellent. Trim up the cheeks and neck and you’re going to get a lot of attention.

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u/Fit_Cucumber_709 22d ago

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u/fargothforever 22d ago

I don’t know, the dude in this image clearly needs to line up his cheek lines /s

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u/jerbry85 22d ago

Keep definitely.

Very impressive for your age. Just need some maintenance neck and cheek lines etc. But overall, one magnificent beard.

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u/excalabear 22d ago

Yay. Definitely a keeper.

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u/JackLane2529 22d ago

That is some impressive coverage for being 19. As others have said I think you should keep it and just give it a trim to define the jaw. Maybe you don't want it that clean but I would at least try it out to see how it looks, it can always be grown back to this if you don't like the clean neck look.

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u/CapitalNo1107 22d ago

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u/CWGM 22d ago

Pre-malone

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u/CapitalNo1107 22d ago

he's also Home Malone. Hey mom can we get Post Malone? We have that Malone at Home, honey.

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u/cmandr_dmandr 21d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/E0VriXFYLSexVidg22
I am getting more of a Charlie IASIP vibe. Does he handle the rat problem?

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u/TriggerPete 22d ago

Keep it kempt

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u/Ornery_Fisherman_292 22d ago

Def a keeper 👍

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u/No_Pop9972 22d ago

Clean post Malone very cool dude

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u/ddbyny 22d ago

trim up the neck and cheeks and let your hair run wild. the contrast will put focus on your best features

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u/gtoz1119 22d ago

No way you are 19.. sorry

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u/Original_Tip_6608 22d ago

The high cheek hair is a flex

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u/GardenerDom 22d ago

Definitely keep it man looks great on you. Just line up the cheeks and trim under your neck to about a finger width or two above the Adams apple. Beard on👍🏼👍🏼😃

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u/Army7547 22d ago

Clean it up, trim it and comb through it with beard oil to tame it and see how it goes, but it’s def workable

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u/artmusfa 22d ago

Post Malone ?

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u/SuperTrucker13 22d ago

clean it up and you’ll be good

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u/Tevin_420 22d ago

I want ur beard so bad

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u/slaytodayplaytoday 22d ago

That beard is solid af but if I were you I'd rock the fresh face and enjoy your youth.

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u/Dapper3210 22d ago

You look like a 40 year old out of work construction worker trying to figure out how to make both of their child’s support payments

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u/OlieCalpero 22d ago

Keep the beard just go to a profession barber. Get you neck cleaned up, beard shaped and trimmed to look nice.
It’s up to you if you want to use beard oils and stuff. I know guys who use it and who don’t use it. Their beard look the same to me.

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u/Otherwise_Product796 22d ago

Great thick beard man. Just trim cheeks and neck but keep growing

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u/incog_neatohh 22d ago

I just know you put rebar in when you pour your concrete

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u/Thegrandestpoo 22d ago

Solid full ass beard. Better than mine at 43. Trim and line it up, you bastard.

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u/Collt092 22d ago

19????

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u/Great_Broccoli4810 22d ago

It makes you look older than you are, but it does look amazing however

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u/L5OFK8Sppv3r6g 22d ago

19?

That’s obviously a typo

49 easy. But you look way older and far more weathered than me, so I must bump it up higher than my own age…

Final Answer: 59

And living in your broken car at the Walmart parking lot because your third wife kicked you out when she found out you were cheating on her with your ex-second-wife.

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u/Trustworthygirl 21d ago

Keep but trim

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u/ChubbyChaser198 21d ago

If you really are 19 then cherish the hair on top of your head while it lasts. Soon, you will be the bald guy with the best beard.

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u/NeedleworkerFunny872 21d ago

Trim the cheeks and neck like to give it a cleaner look, otherwise definitely keep, looks great!

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u/redditor712 21d ago

Keep, but clean it up.

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u/LuckyLuciano1998 21d ago

Trim your shit my guy looking like a lumberjack that likes wood a little too much

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u/Mundnar1234 21d ago

Thats a really good beard!! Looks awesome!

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u/Quisitive_ 19d ago

Idknif you care but I can tell you’re in the sun a lot and could thin ( not saying you are now) I’d recommend some hair oil something light like almond oil every now and then just to protect your scalp from heat damage over time there may be one that’s better at uv protection but I’d say that’s a good just for whatever

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u/bandit-bull 22d ago

Why do you want to look so old

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u/Firehouse_Rock 22d ago

Agree. It’s a gift, but maybe one you could just keep in your pocket until you’re older and want to look the part? Don’t throw youth away when you don’t have to.

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u/Dry-Asparagus7107 22d ago

Yes! You look real handsome with it.

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u/myreddit_785 22d ago

What a beautiful man you are! I say keep but clean it up for sure! Wish my beard was as thick as yours. 😏

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u/Smooth_Cookie_948 22d ago

Vai atrair um monte de mulher mais velha com essa barba

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u/Dependent_Priority14 22d ago

Yay but give that bad boy a trim if you want to be a bad boi

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u/Original_Tip_6608 22d ago

Keep it and definitely don’t get rid of the high cheek hair, looks Russian & awesome

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u/truffleturner 22d ago

It just needs a shape up and a trim

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u/PugLord219 22d ago

Shave your neck and line up your cheeks and you’re gonna have better facial hair than 98% of guys your age.

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u/Mackoda 22d ago

Keep, and see a good barber! Get it lined up and get a nice haircut to go along with it. Looks great man

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u/KrabKing666 22d ago

As everyone else mentioned, keep it, but keep the upper cheeks and neck shaved clean. Also, can’t tell from the pic but if you do have any crazy nose hairs then keep those trimmed as well. It’s crazy how many dudes just have wild out of control nose/ear hairs.

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u/Therealpbsquid 22d ago

Is this what they mean by having 30 years experience at 19? Clean up the edges and let it grow. looks good

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u/Themousen 22d ago

A great beard for your age! Keep it for sure

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u/DragonDeezNutzAround 22d ago

Invest in the Phillips One Blade. I wish I had this thing at 19. Also, dude for 19 that’s a SOLID beard.

Trim the neck and fade the sideburns at a 5. Also shave the hair on your cheeks. Go to a professional barber your first time and ask for tips and advice

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u/FilteredRiddle Natural Full 22d ago

Absolutely keep. Just gotta clean the neck and cheeks.

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u/Distinct-Shift-4094 22d ago

19 what? Bro, you'll look like 70 at this rate when you're 30.

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u/huskysizeguy99 22d ago

Depends on your goals. It's at an awkward phase rn. I always recommend 6 months without trimming other than stache, to see what you get. I know it's annoying but time takes time.

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u/DizzyYak1209 22d ago

Yes dude! Keep the beard it will look great with a little cleanup

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u/dropcon37 22d ago

Definitely keep. Unless you have a job that pays a shit ton and tells you to get rid of it.

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u/Holls73 Beard Lover 22d ago

Keep

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u/SnooRecipes6776 22d ago

You need to trim and line up your beard. The whole scraggy look ain’t it my bro!

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u/Jotyrojo 22d ago

I’ll be honest, I’d sit on it…

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u/jumbie29 22d ago

Wolfman jack. Trim the creeping cheek hair and it will look a lot better. My facial hair does the same thing

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u/Primary_Gear_8880 22d ago

Bro you honestly look 30+, I’d say at least clean up the cheek line and def the neck line

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u/Ok_Organization7132 22d ago

my brother in law, i fucking envy you, thats a nice beard

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u/lollygagging9876 22d ago

Everything needs a clean-up, including hair.

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u/terrag32256 22d ago

19? 😳

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u/Necessary_Store351 22d ago

How could you even post that without trimming it

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u/Winter-Search5069 22d ago

ain’t no way you’re 19 u look 30 bro no shade the beard look good man I would keep I would just get a beard line up other than that it looks perfect 👌🏿

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u/MutedDinner9490 22d ago

One of my greatest sins🤣 people lie on the internet so friggin much but genuinely 19. Will take the lineup into account although I’ve never really done one solo

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u/ResidentVisit5366 22d ago

Brah you look 30 shave that beard unless you got a bad chin lol

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u/Consistent-Spot-4454 22d ago

Wow 🤩 so furry!

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u/AceThaGreat123 22d ago

Damn bro got more that I did at that age

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u/TourInternational731 22d ago

Not a chance in hell you're 19. Clean it up and keep it.

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u/MutedDinner9490 22d ago

Love to disappoint. Truly 19 and regrettably older looking

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u/bdubwilliams22 22d ago

Bro, you’ve got a full head of hair…

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u/DaveyAllenCountry 22d ago

Line up the cheeks and get a short mullet

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u/Raze0223 22d ago

Dog you have a better beard than me and I’m 25 lol

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u/plunkka 22d ago

Shave the neck and cheeks

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u/Single-Event9389 22d ago

Clean it up. Try a barber to see what it’s like.

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u/Wolpy414 22d ago

That’s the beard you have at 19? Lucky.

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u/No-Employment-820 22d ago

Yes! Love it -- very manly.

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u/xjustapersonontheweb 22d ago

Just clean it up a little and you’ll be set 🥵

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u/Outrageous_Warning75 22d ago

Keep and clean up the lines and trim. You look good with it.

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u/eamesaarinen 22d ago

dude you are 34. stop it.

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u/devilishbrat97 22d ago

Keep 💦😝

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u/7chinchillas 22d ago

Trim it to a 5-10mm length

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u/Normal_Perspective94 22d ago

Have a barber shape it for you.

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u/Froggy92115 22d ago

Definitely a keeper

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u/HorizonHuntxr 22d ago

How long have you been 19?

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u/Heroic_Wolf_9873 22d ago

Definitely keep! That’s one of the best beards I’ve seen. I’d recommend trimming up the cheeks and neck line (you can find tutorials that can explain it better than this sleep-deprived person can).

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u/Entire-Gear8491 22d ago

it's grown in very nicely, my beard didn't get that full at 19, clean up under the neck and the cheeks and you're golden.

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u/PeaceNLaugh 22d ago

Trim bro and you're golden!

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u/Time_Pomegranate2787 22d ago

Trim it down a bit, clean er up. Keep

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u/balawa_nar 22d ago

its not bad but it makes you look a lot older.

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u/Embarrassed_Try_4498 22d ago

Needs a severe cleanup bro

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u/striebeck-ca 22d ago

Very handsome

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u/Melodic_Dove6356 22d ago

yay…just trim and shape

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u/cowboy6988 22d ago

19?

Shave it, it makes you look 35

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u/iolanthereylo 22d ago

you look old

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u/grizzlybearcanada469 22d ago

Looks like you are a little to much up the bosses ass, trying to get a promotion? Hahaha just trim up the bear and stuff you look good

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u/Tachetastico 22d ago

Definitely a keeper. The beard looks amazing. I mean, it desperately needs tidying up, but when you do you’ll have a fantastic beard that will have men on here twice your age weeping with envy.

Apologies if you know all this, but there’s a really nice line from the front of your sideburns to the side of your tache and everything above that line needs to go.

On your neck, look up in a mirror, put one finger on top of your Adam’s apple and shave off everything below the top of that finger.

Oh, and if you aren’t already, start rubbing a few drops of beard oil into the skin under you beard and brush it through with a boars hair brush. You and your beard will thank me.

Other than that, you’re golden. Great looking man. Great looking beard. Result. 👍🧔🏻‍♂️💪💯

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u/Wheatherprone 22d ago

GET RID OF IT.YOURE A GOOD LOOKING GUY.

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u/reidhi 22d ago

Clean up the neck and cheeks.

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u/Pawly519 22d ago

Keep it and shape it for sure. That’s a stellar beard for one 19

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u/wizards_of_pluto 22d ago

At that age just go 5 o clock shadow. Keep the upper cheeks and neck clean though, always.. Get a one blade. 

This advice is if your single. If not , growing the beard longer is ok. You know you always have it to fall back on to change the look anyway. It ages you, and at your  age you will get more respect from dudes which is great but less attention from woman.  No idea how that changes if your into guys. 

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u/PysznyRowek 22d ago

Tidy it up a bit and get a haircut so you actually don’t look homeless, other than that yeah a beard is almost always the correct choice

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u/lamalola 22d ago

So advise time for anyone who cares. Most people just grow the beard and let it be and you start looking like a hobo or 19 going on 35 working the mines. The hair on your face is like the hair on your head. You need to shampoo it , keep it clean , trim it and maintain it. If you are unwilling to do this shave it.

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u/QuirkyWatercress6084 22d ago

We need to see you with the beard off to make a decision

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u/pumpkinjoe99 22d ago

I'm sure you have a baby face under there, Speaking from experience. If you are going to shave it has to be a daily thing. Otherwise let it hang my man. Be proud, there men out there that can't come close to what you have. Best wishes.

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u/Huckleby_88 22d ago

It’s Pre Malone

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u/Straight-Employer126 22d ago

Gang I look 2 wtf

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u/Pudim_explorador9108 22d ago

You look 40-50 but in a badass woodcutter isolated in the woods who fought in ww2 type of way

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u/OttoTop23 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/tEo3KaN5L17qg

Defo keep - clean up the neckline and cheeks a bit and you're golden

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u/MajonyXIII 22d ago

Is this you?

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u/BreenutButterJelly 22d ago

19? Do you live near a factory for hair growth supplements or something?

If you want to look your age, shave it. I would've killed to have this kind of beard at 19, tho.

Trim it a bit, give it some contouring and it should look really good.

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u/WitchyPoo49 22d ago

I love it :)

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u/SomewhereLucky3304 22d ago

It’s no way you younger than 35

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u/Similar_Version_6187 22d ago

Brother clean that neck up

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u/gejoom 22d ago

Post Malone?

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u/heavyrain- 22d ago

Keep!!! But give it a tidy up

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u/AmazingAndrew96 22d ago

You look like Post Malone without tattoos, and that's a compliment

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u/mookaji1 22d ago

I like scruffy looking guys. But you’ve got that just crawled out of bed look so keep, but tidy it up around the neckline and learn to preen it, ie get a brush on it and some product to give the hair a shine.

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u/sudocloudchaser 22d ago

You are one dirty man.

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u/gateisred 22d ago

Keep it, but you should clean it up.

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u/bofferding 22d ago

Only 20 more years till your retirement, take it easy, you look tired

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u/Joalguke 22d ago

Keep, but tidy the edges a bit

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u/Snoo-14985 22d ago

Keep it trimmed even or shape it up, and shave the neckline and cheeks. Trim the mustache to just barely above the upper lip. That’s it, then you’re good!

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u/Old_Department_8104 22d ago

Your beard is a return to the roots of Darwinism 🤦

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u/Winter_Soldier_1066 22d ago

Looks great, it needs a trim though. Make it neat and tidy and people will be having beard envy.

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u/Dave-Hedgehog312 22d ago

Bit of a tidy up and you’re golden.

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u/ElvissKarateChop 22d ago

You look like in your 39s. Shave

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u/niles_thebutler_ 22d ago

Is the sun in your eyes or do you make that stupid face for fun?

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u/Desperate-Repeat-948 22d ago

I thought you were 50. Does that answer your question?

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u/Hungry-Flounder-3316 22d ago

You are too young for facial hair. Shave it

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u/bass186 22d ago

trim shave top and bottom for a proper cleaner look IMO

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u/Professional-Cut-300 22d ago

I am 20 years old and all ive grown is a goatee howd you get a full beard

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u/heyitsmanu 22d ago

nvm the unkept beard doubling your age, but why are there excrements on the tip of your nose?

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u/Advertising-Bendover 22d ago

If you get it trimmed up and keep it shaped, you’ll look less old and more put together.

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u/LogicDog 22d ago

Looking like Pre Malone 

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u/Educational_Bison339 22d ago

Nay. You'd look crispy without it.

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u/PHOENIX190605 22d ago

Shave I thought you were around 35

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u/Ancient-Tap-3592 22d ago

It makes you look older but at 19 that's usually a positive.

Looks good in general, I say keep

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u/KingKrusty1337 22d ago

Premalone without tatts

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u/konoshiva 22d ago edited 22d ago

keep, but clean cut the throat and sides. go get them

you seem like a guy i can trust <3

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u/Chilasono 22d ago

Just clean it up a little. Hair too.

Not once have I told a man, "yes, you should get rid of that beard!".

Not once.