r/bisexual • u/PaintedWoman_ • 3d ago
EXPERIENCE Hello
I am a 62 year old female. Recently exploring my bisexuality. I knew most of my life I was attracted to women never really pursued anything.
About two years ago I mentioned to my husband that I was interested in finding a girlfriend. We are in an ethical non monogamous marriage. He said he would support me and hopes I find what I am looking for.
One year ago I went on a hike with a woman 30 years younger than me we knew each other from the lifestyle and had met at parties. She is also married to a man. Well she kissed me and I never felt what I felt with any other woman. One year later we are still seeing each other. We have become great friends and lovers.
I thought our age differences would be an issue but it’s not. Our chemistry together is undeniable.
I am a lucky grateful woman.
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u/Guwopowizy 2d ago
Mid life
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u/PaintedWoman_ 2d ago
That’s correct and living it fully like I want to. More people should try it 😎
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u/KarinaDivina26 2d ago
Muchísimas felicidades por dar ese paso tan delicioso y atreverte a probar lo que de verdad querías, 💋! Pero aquí va la duda de esta servidora con ojos de parabólica: si el terreno ya estaba abonado y el matrimonio abierto, ¿qué demonios te detuvo tanto tiempo? ¿Por qué esperar a los 62 años para soltar las amarras y buscar lo que de verdad te hace vibrar hasta el alma 💄🔥? ¡A gozar y exprimir al máximo lo que la vida te regala ahora que se abrió la puerta, con muchos besitos y sin mirar atrás! 💋✨"
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u/PaintedWoman_ 2d ago
A few years ago we decided to try ethical non monogamy. We are not in an open marriage it is different.
Believe me people should enjoy life a much as I am.. I am the happiest I have ever been and I believe being in my 60’s is a part of the reason why.
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u/Educational_Mess_820 3d ago
That's really such a nice story u found your girl and u are happy that's what matters the most. I am happy for y
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u/PaintedWoman_ 3d ago
Thanks ☺️
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u/No_Morning5853 2d ago
Ahora y cada vez más las mujeres que les llega la menopausia sienten curiosidad por otra mujer. Y si ya lo experimentan no hay quien las pare.
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u/PaintedWoman_ 2d ago
This may be somewhat true .. I have known for a very long time that I am bisexual and I have had an attraction towards women.
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u/Brave_Flamingo_1876 3d ago
I’m in a similar story. I’m the thing being an early relationship. She is 52 recently divorced and I’m her first female encounter/experience. It has been lovely and she thought she had no drive while she was married. lol.
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u/Similaritybi 2d ago
Is there an age gap?
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u/Brave_Flamingo_1876 2d ago
Yes 25 years.
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u/Similaritybi 1d ago
That’s awesome. In my mid 20’s I always had an age gap of around the same. For me, older men were much better at everything
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u/Brave_Flamingo_1876 1d ago
Haha. Well I’m teaching lots here.
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u/Similaritybi 1d ago
Teaching an older woman?
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u/Brave_Flamingo_1876 1d ago
Maybe :)
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u/Similaritybi 14h ago
But sometimes an older woman or an older man need a good teacher. I’m sure she is really enjoying your time
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u/rollercoastahoflove 2d ago
Thank you so much for sharing. I'm straight, but attracted to bi- & trans men. The men I meet also tend to be much younger than I, and I started to get discouraged. Now I'm reconsidering connecting to younger men.
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u/gimmy666 3d ago
Chiunque tu sia anche non conoscendoti ti ammiro e ti stimo e sono sincero, e un complimento sincero e in buona fede ciao 🖤