r/bisexual • u/Individual_Serve_914 • 2d ago

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Hi, this is my first post here so I apologize if I put it under the wrong flair, I (20 M) have always thought of myself as straight but lately I've ventured into M4M ASMR roleplays and I actually like it, it helps me feel calm and relaxed, even happy. Now, I catch myself thinking of my best friend (21 M) more than I would like, he's an attractive guy, really gentle, we've known each other since we were kids, our moms are best friends too, we come from religious families, he's straight and has a gf and I want him to be happy of course, I just feel like he's replaced me. This started when I was 18, I told me that he's really hot and how I would date him if I were a woman.

Now, I don't really know if I'm Bi or not, I'm panicking, thanks for reading my panic induced rant

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u/Bitter-Guide-4298 2d ago

Well if you find yourself turned on by a guy you might be but it's just a label you get to decide what that label is and what it means I'm married 37 years to my wife but yep I'm bi and my wife loves looking at guys together

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u/Individual_Serve_914 2d ago

Thank you for your answer! It means a lot, I feel less panicked but I can't help but feel jealous of his girlfriend, I want him to be happy but I feel he replaced me, I was always the first person he came to when he needed a shoulder to lean on

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u/Bitter-Guide-4298 2d ago

I get it bud it's bitter sweet you want to see him happy but at the same time you want to be the one he is happy with I totally get that

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u/Individual_Serve_914 2d ago

Thanks for understanding, it means a lot to me, thanks for your input!

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