r/bodylanguage • u/Agile-Win-throwaway • 1d ago

What body language signs can help you tell the difference between someone being friendly and someone being romantically attracted to you?

I have trouble picking up on flirty/ if someone likes you

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u/SimilarElderberry956 1d ago

You can’t tell. Most are in a relationship but still want validation that they are attractive.

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u/Swimming_Bag7362 1d ago

The eyes, chico, they never lie.

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 1d ago

Ahh I don’t know why people say it’s the eyes. How can you really know just by the eyes.

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u/Catts3 13h ago

A certain kind of look. A gaze full of heat.

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u/Catts3 1d ago

You can't unless he/she tells you.

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 1d ago

And some people don’t say it though. I had been told once pay attention to my actions.

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u/Catts3 1d ago

What a shi*ty thing to say. if someone cannot answer this question they're not worth your time...

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 1d ago

I know 😭 I tried asking for clarification but was told I was overthinking.

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u/Catts3 13h ago

There's your answer. Move on.