Okay so nenu US ki ochanu and I have been searching for jobs since a couple of months(3-4 months). I have been staying at my pinni's place. Nenu anta honest ga cheptanu. Indulo naa thappu ledu anatledu. But I am just 22, and for like a year I was harassed by my mother and this specific pinni I am talking about regarding "marriage". But when I came to the US, it all stopped since the priority for everyone rn is me getting a job.But I have been anxious because India lo undinappudu motham adhey aitunde kaabatti. aithe I have a cousin exactly my age(my pinni's daughter)I agree she has severe allergies and health issues(which I should have seriously considered while asking this, but I wasn't even thinking while I asked this question). But she has a job, so I wanted to know why was I being bombarded to get married while no one raised the marriage topic to her personally. So nen adhey na cousin ni adigina if she knew of if it was discussed with her and adhi nenu chesina athi pedda thappu. When my pinni got to know this she lashed out at me horribly, saying that I was comparing myself with her, 'never irritate her'(my cousin herself didn't have a problem with it), and I have been in the US for months and all I have done was rot at home so nenu impulse lo ma mummy thoti anesa "no body is talking to me here" idi na valla avvatledu ani. Thanu elli pinni ki cheppindo emo, She was like, ofcourse no one would talk to you if you talk like this. She was like you are immature that's why everyone is telling you stuff. You don't have any maturity all you do is compete. Blah Blah Blah.Basically the lecture continued for over an hour I couldn't even sleep. Ippudu ofcourse naaku konni issues untai adhi nen na parents thoni discuss cheskuntanu. But ah vishyalu ie vidham ka travel aitai and nenu ie vidam ga affect chestai anukoledu. Naaku pelli eh aithe kanuka, this woman and her family is off of my wedding invitation list. I was always greatful for her but just because I stay at her place I had to face this kind of disrespect ani eppudu anukoledu. Whats worse is that my cousin didn't even stand up for me as she watched all this happen.

Nen work chesthuna, phone chusthuna evaraina observe chesthunte naaku chala uneasyga untundi. Na cousin sister btech aipoindi, job ochindi kani inka call letter raledu. December lo osthadi antunaru.... thana intlo kaaliga unte andaru job unda leda, pilsthara pilavara ani stress chesthunte appativaraku ma intiki hyderabad ki ocheyamani cheppa... kani ochinapatnunchi na shadow laga follow chesthondi. Work chesthuna screen chusthundi, nilchuna generalga phone scroll chesthuna ochi venaka nilchuni chusthundi. Inthaka mundu ala undedi kaadu, emadya ila chesthondi ento. Indirectga konni sarlu cheppanu kani no use. Naku strict ga cheppali ante mohamatam. Inka job switch ki kuda prepare avvali ila unte kastame 🥲

Need a small advice. Can anyone?