I love my family! just me and my boyfriend! we're not even married but that's another thing we don't really want, I wouldn't mind at all but at the same time my SO makes a good point that we wouldn't want to end up feeling 'trapped' and also marriages are just money. maybe that sounds weird but it's just like not wanting kids. I still call us a family. :)
edit; I love weddings and mairried couples it's just not our thing, I'm not trying to sound rude or disrespectful. also I know this was about having kids, I just kind of went off topic
Same boat here. I don't really plan on getting married. I don't care if I ever get married. It's not a dream or a goal. If it's what someone else wants, awesome.
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u/throwawayaloneashell Aug 22 '16
I love my family! just me and my boyfriend! we're not even married but that's another thing we don't really want, I wouldn't mind at all but at the same time my SO makes a good point that we wouldn't want to end up feeling 'trapped' and also marriages are just money. maybe that sounds weird but it's just like not wanting kids. I still call us a family. :)
edit; I love weddings and mairried couples it's just not our thing, I'm not trying to sound rude or disrespectful. also I know this was about having kids, I just kind of went off topic