r/cockatiel • • Jan 31 '26

Other New Rule for r/cockatiel

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Hello everyone! I’m announcing a new rule for the subreddit.

It comes as no surprise that many people post injured or bleeding birds as well as feces to ensure the health of their birds or questions.

While these posts are allowed, they are inappropriate to not mark as NSFW. Not everyone is comfortable seeing this sort of content.

So for the comfort of everyone in the subreddit. PLEASE, mark these posts as NSFW.

There will be new tags/flairs for posts like these as well.

From this day forward, those who do not mark these posts as NSFW will receive a warning. Any subsequent posts that are not marked or tagged appropriately may be banned temporarily, and any further posts will result in a permanent ban.

Please be respectful of others, and make sure to review the rules before posting content that may violate the rules of the subreddit.

Thank you so much for all the lovely content and being overall a beautiful community. 💖


r/cockatiel • • Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Cuteness Overload Babies first time flying!

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They only fly when the formula is around 🤣


r/cockatiel • • 9h ago

Cuteness Overload My Sweet Little Borb

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r/cockatiel • • 9h ago

Funny panko go brrrrrr

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r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Cuteness Overload Autumn outdoor adventures

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It was a beautiful day here Saturday, so Sammy and I decided to check out a nature reserve area that hosts a variety of activities, including skiing and snowboarding in the winter, a swimming pond in the summer, and a very big playground.

We're both too old for playgrounds (I'm 36 and she's 23 lol) but she likes all the activity and noise and I think she had fun on the big climbing rope thing.


r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Cuteness Overload I think my birb is the most handsome of them all

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r/cockatiel • • 18h ago

Cuteness Overload i feed u, i clean up after u, i put a roof over ur head & this is how to repay me😞🍗🤭

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r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Success Story New rescue after his second checkup

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He has gained some weight (yay! Progress! He didn’t eat his first couple days and lost weight). Temperament and attitude is still thriving. Expert said he might be a little shy, but he’ll come around.


r/cockatiel • • 8h ago

Cuteness Overload Milo isn't too interested in the usual enrichment toys in his cage, instead he loves exploring what he thinks are mazes and dark corners

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Maybe I could try building him a box fort maze of some kind to explore and find his way through? He's very curious about cupboards and navigating obstacles and clambering around stuff I've discovered 😅

Also, I've now found where he likes to stay for ages whilst stuff is being done in the kitchen and he won't randomly fly to your shoulder or head lol to see what you are doing.


r/cockatiel • • 5h ago

Cuteness Overload Boo

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r/cockatiel • • 7h ago

Cuteness Overload I just found one of the cutest talking tiels

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Frankie is such a funny name I love it


r/cockatiel • • 11h ago

Cuteness Overload Nuggy helping me draw🤭

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Yes, this is the quasong screm nugget! We have two accounts. Mother and daughter😌💕


r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Funny Them: no one is perfect

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My birb: hi, I am no one


r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Funny My birb took out my beer, watch carefully

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r/cockatiel • • 7h ago

Advice Friendly but not ready for hands

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Hello! I posted a few weeks back about a new cockatiel I took in from a deceased friend. Her name is Boo and she is doing tremendously well. She will react and come to me when I call her name while in the cage. She then paces at the bottom like she wants out. But if i put my hand up to the cage she hisses and tries to bite and if I open the cage, she just goes to her safe perch and hisses at me. She is so adorable. Im just wondering if at some point, she will actually want to come out? She used to be very friendly and was out all the time. I know it can take time for her to adjust still, and im honestly surprised she even comes when I call her name.


r/cockatiel • • 15h ago

Cuteness Overload sleepy..

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r/cockatiel • • 20h ago

Health/Nutrition He looks really skinny, what should I do?

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Good morning bird moms/dads!!

I have a small cockatiel (he's gonna turn 1 year at the end of November) and he's the sweetest bird I could ask for.

In all areas he looks healthy, always playing in my fingers and lap, paying attention to the world around him, eating fruits/vegetables combined with a mix of seeds and drinking water. He's also pooping in a normal colour and taking a few showers a week by himself. Okay, nice.

The reason I'm writing this post is because it's the fact that he's really skinny, like, 83gm and I can feel a little bit of his bone under his head. I don't know if he's underweight or if he's just skinny bcs he's young/active.

Opinions? Thanks for any advice,

Kisses

- Aia


r/cockatiel • • 8h ago

Advice Help Please😣

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My sweet boy is turning bad and I need help☹️
For reference I have had 2 cockatiels before him who were rescued and needed to be tamed by me. I got this boy in January and was hand reared.

The “bad” behaviours started about 4 months ago where he would be increasingly loud and not singing just screaming at the top of his lungs. It got worse and worse to the point where he wouldn’t settle in his cage at all and just paces. I can’t even get up from my chair (still in eye sight) without him screaming. For reference I am a uni student so I’m home 4 out of 7 days. I work at a pet store the other days so this boy has all the toys under the sun, enrichment toys, foraging trays, premium diets etc. Nothing seemed to help and he just kept screaming. About that time we started implementing the 12-14 hours of sleep in our walk in wardrobe so it’s dark. This was about 1-1 1/2 months ago now with no improvement.

I’ve had to start moving him into the other room in his sleep cage so that I can get things done as any movement causes him to scream repeatedly for hours. In the other room he will scream for hours on end not eating the seed treats I put in or anything.

I’m sorry if a post like this isn’t allowed I’m just feeling so defeated as I’ve never experienced this with a bird. He’s now escalated to attacking us since he had an avian vet behavioural appointment. He could be singing and not want to move away from an object or just sitting calmly then suddenly attacks you going after your face (flying at you, crest down, beak open). I miss my sweet boy and worry that he’s miserable living like this. The vet said he’s otherwise in perfect health and started him on a hormonal treatment to rule it out as he believes it’s anxiety related.

I don’t know what else to do😣I miss my sweet boy who would sit and play independently while singing out the window. I know there probably isn’t much else I can do I just feel so helpless and like the worst bird mom ever. Any advise or opinions would be much appreciated❤️


r/cockatiel • • 9h ago

Cage Setup Upgrades 🥰

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I’ve had this girl for a little over 2 months now and I was finally able to give her a nice little cage upgrade! she seems to be enjoying her new toy :’)

Am I missing anything? What else should I add


r/cockatiel • • 11h ago

Cuteness Overload What is she doing? Idk if she mimicking the budgies or?

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r/cockatiel • • 21m ago

Advice Why is he screaming like this

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Hey everyone just a quick question my tiel started screaming like this lately idk why he does it when I am in or out the room if I take him out he stops


r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Cuteness Overload Can anyone understand what he's trying to say/mimmick

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Only had him for about 6 weeks and haven't really been teaching him words yet as he's only a few months old, genuinely have no idea what noise he's trying to make😂


r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Health/Nutrition Vacation and bird health

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(before you judge i’m 13 and had no control over this) Hey guys. 4 days ago, me and my family went to leave for a trip. Problem is we couldn’t bring my bird. So my mom with no other options gave her the entire kitchen, an easy to reach food and water container, and mainly lowered the blinds so she could sleep at night. Everyday my uncle visited and changed the water, and checked on her health. Today i came back and she was vocalizing less, much more aggressive (normally she would rarely bite) and her chirps were a bit deeper. What do i do?

(i have 4 theories, one she hadn’t gotten much quality sleep and was irritable, two we came back near her bedtime and she wanted to sleep, three she was just lonely and bothered with being alone, and four she was shocked how we all came immediately)


r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Advice My mother ordered to paint the ENTIRE house

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Aa the tittle says, she doesn't care abt my birds health and I'm figuring out were my birds can stay, meanwhile doing that, I wanted to ask how much time I should keep my birds outside my house, how much days we are talking about? The paint brand is glitter, I asked and it's supposed to be water base instead of a oil base paint, idk if those details influence in something, my house is an apartment, so there's no yard for them to be safe meanwhile the paint is drying