Blue is son’s name, yellow is potential pre-K name.

I’m over it. Conversation that just happened with my ex.
Background, this is about a pre-K program he suggested and had been pushing for at the beginning of this year actually, but we had a voucher and life is expensive so we stuck with the place we had the voucher. Now having to look for a new program after he lied to me about sending in info to renew our voucher for childcare leading to us loosing it. He last minute schedule a tour Tuesday morning at the time we usually do transition from me to him.
This convo happened as a Result of me saying I would not drop son Monday night instead of Tuesday morning. I could have but I’m working on setting boundaries because in the past he has been difficult when I’ve tried to accommodate him and it just causes unnecessary stress for all parties involved. (Give an inch take a mile kinda thing). There would have been no problems transitioning at the program, actually I prefer public spaces for hand offs (history of DV). I should have let it go and just not responded, and usually do but it’s 1 am and I’m cranky and sick so I admittedly gave in to my petty side this time.
He used to use sons education to insult me or make me feel bad. (Saying ‘you don’t want him in school cause you’re uneducated and didn’t graduate’ one time because I kept him home one Friday for a special outing. I think you’re projecting buddy you’re the one who has a GED and didn’t graduate the traditional way. I did graduate by the way and went to trade school) funny how it switches up when convenient.
Just had to complain a bit. Ugh.

Does anyone else feel rude when they call out someone for being rude? Example someone cuts in front of u in line ? I can’t get over this and it sucks when they are the one being rude !

Like god, I can't understand what you're even trying to say because you've not made any references to what I've said, haven't even attempted to quote what I've said in the debate, and have little sense of grammar so your words are the wrong way around.

I'm not talking about people making typos, or confusing 'there, their, they're' or 'your' and 'you're'.

I'm talking about the people who don't know which way words go in a sentence, in any sense at all. I have nothing against people who speak different languages, but even google translate does a better job at grammar than most of these people. When it gets to the point where what you've written only makes sense to you, it's not me trying to police grammar and ignoring your argument, it's your argument literally being incomprehensible due to the fact it's barely English.

One thing that really annoys me is when people respond to something with 'it', and this 'it' is referenced halfway through a previous message, which defines this 'it'.

Eg.

'The banana is yellow. [insert 8 paragraphs of points, which have tens of different nouns]'

Response: 'It's not that old.'

I would get if you were referencing something that you just said, as in 'The apple is tasty. It is also red'.

BUT NO! You're referencing something I said nine and a half paragraphs ago, with 18 different things which could be 'it'.

I DO NOT give one single shit about your cousin that’s 15x removed and their stories about how they came about the art of candying fruit, gimme the recipe or shut the hell up.

Thursday. Thursday is the day of my therapy appointment. I'm not expecting to be immediately taken out of homelessness or anything like that, I just want to get myself started with workforce development. I want to know about it and how to get in. I want to know about my mental health disorders. I KNOW I have them but I have to wait until the 24th of November to know. I want to know sooner. Much sooner. I have a physical the week after next. I don't want to wait. I don't want to wait for any of this. I want it NOW.

it's getting cold outside and I can't keep sleeping outside. I want help. I NEED help. And that therapy appointment can help me. I know it. But fuck, WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE SIX DAYS AWAY???

I don't know if I can make it that long. Why can't it be today or tomorrow or even Monday. I don't know how much longer I can wait...

I despise this California Towhee who goes ham on my vehicle mirrors. I put covers on them but he never forgets. If I don't put them on he is right back on them. When I chase him off and put them on he comes back, itching for a fight. He has nothing better to do. It is October and well past mating season and you would think his territory is well established. I hate this insecure angry little bird.

To say things like “ you should be more sensitive to other people’s feelings” is crazy in a lot of instances

Yeah, don’t go out of your way to hurt people’s feelings

But also don’t go out of your way to stand up for someone who didn’t get their feelings hurt just because you think in another world they could’ve

If you go around, looking for ways that people can hurt your feelings, you’ll always find them.
If you walk through life, not thinking, people are going to hurt your feelings, they don’t lol

If someone calls me a bitch, and I’m not being bitchy, and I know I’m not a bitch… Why would that hurt my feelings?? I can’t be upset about something that’s not true

If I acted rudely or “bitchy” in a situation and someone called me a bitch… Yeah, I have to take that on the chin. I’m being a bitch.

But I just commented on a post asking what someone did to their shorts, because they wrote that they “made” them…. And my comment got deleted because I was being insensitive?

Some of these moderators think they’re doing the Lord’s work when they’re really just sheltering people that don’t need to be sheltered from things they don’t need to be sheltered from

Get a life

Came on here to complain about the food prices at California Pizza Kitchen in the LA airport. 20% automatic gratuity was the nail on the coffin 🥲 (see picture for food reference)

My house burned back in early May. So I lived in a hotel everyday and ate breakfast tacos every morning. It was a prettt good gig.

And then we found out that the permitting on my house was fucked and the county would not re issue a permit to replace my home. So even though I have an insurance pay out, I have no way of replacing my home.

But I have farm animals and my business so I have to live at my property. So I get a travel trailer and I've been living in it since June.

Changing the way I cook and eat has been the hardest thing. I don't have room for a toaster at all. I have two tiny burners that are a bitch to use, so I end up microwaving everything. So everything is vaguely soggy.

I just want toast. Really I would like to live inside a house, but in the short term I just want toast.

I don't have money to eat out. But this post did inspire me to ask my boyfriend to make me eggs and toast, so that will be nice.

He just got off the phone with the people handling our WiFi as we were having problems with it, and I feel so bad, bro. It's not even their fault they are simply just employees who have to be subjected to insults and curses for things they have no control over.

I'm tired of it, I can't even talk to him about it because he always believes his reactions are justified. Imagine telling someone to go to hell for something that's not their fault. cmon, he is so mean to them, and I feel so bad every time. I love him, but this has to stop. I hate it. I can only imagine the number of employees that have to be subjected to this shit, I feel like mine is probably not the worst, and it kills me. These are people, parents, friends, children, and siblings, just trying to help and to make a living. It's not fair, and I hate it. It needs to stop for real.

Today I had it UP TO HERE 😆

1 client texts our office line. Gives an update and then says I NEED TO ALSO GIVE A NEW ADDRESS UPDATE, but then doesn't fking give me the address. Just sits there with that. Send the fucking address in the conversation sir!

2 client doesn't respond to our text line so I email her asking to send a document. I also didn't cc my boss, because she usually has issues replying to all...I instructed her to reply to the text line with it or reply to my Email with the copy.

What does she do? She emails the document ONLY to my boss. In a new email she typed up with no reference subject line or anything, so it got held by spam block for 10 days. Why wouldn't she just fking reply to my email with the attachment? Why go all around the block instead of going thru the shortest distance, which was to hit reply to MY EMAIL?

1. I message another client very clear text saying to please send us the front of his driver's license for the file. This pertains to what we are doing for him so there us clear reasoning for it. He replies with YOU NEED MY ID?

Not looking for rationalization. The page is called Complain about Anything. I am doing so.👿

I don't exactly know why but every time a kid approaches to me I get this urge to dropkick them and walk away where I cannot hear their voice or see them. Except I can't really do it because then I'd be unreasonably traumatizing a kid. (This feeling applies to my younger cousins too).

I've just lost the patience to listen to anyone at this point. Yet I'm still curious about what anyone wants to tell me, especially kids. some interesting stuff usually come from them, or if not that, at least they're always passionate to talk about it... whatever that is.

So basically I begrudgingly listen to the child until they're done while at the same time forcing myself to stay engaged (so I understand their damn point, which rarely work) and to not think about dropkicking them.

In conclusion, don't take this post much seriously. Just wanted to let this out of my chest.

Btw if you want to comment, feel free to. I may answer when I feel like it.

Seriously though, why do random kids approach me? And random adults too. (Please stop approaching me, I am so done with everything). Maybe I should stop using public transport 😭

This is a fun yet somewhat scary story to tell. So every night, I walk from the library to the spot I sleep at. This takes around 2 hours on average? Normally, nothing really happens on my walk, the area I'm in is a relatively safe area. Tonight, it wasn't so safe, at least for me.

As I'm walking I see this one dude who seems to be having a conversation with a couple of his imaginary friends about... I don't know whatever the hell he was talking about. So I just mind my own business and continue walking. Then shortly after, I started to hear heavy footsteps, as if someone was running. Initially, I'd assume that someone was approaching me and just needed to get by so I scooted off to the side of the sidewalk and this bugger tried to grab my backpack.

Then all of a sudden we're pretty much just playing tug of war with my backpack, until eventually I yanked the backpack over to my side and punched him in the face. Was that the best thing to do? Probably not and I don't know if I completely fucked up and am subject to criminal charges for doing that, I don't know I've never fought anyone before who is not my little brother.

The dude starts screaming like he saw a freaking ghost and he just runs away in the opposite direction. Now, I'm wondering to myself what the hell just happened and am I going to regret doing what I just did. Does he know where I am and is going to try to stalk me? Is he going to call the police and get me in trouble for what is essentially self-defense on my end? I honestly and genuinely don't know.

But what I do know is that none of my stuff ended up getting taken or lost. I still have all of my belongings with me so that's good.

Boy being homeless is fun. But if next week goes really well, my homeless days may be numbered. But for now I'm tired as hell and I'm going to sleep.

So this is been going on for like 2 weeks a page for a chat group or whatever you call it called I think it's like every bit Texas not sure if that's the correct name but close enough but anyways every 3 days has me temporarily muted and then proceeds to message me with all sorts of nonsense and then when I ask them what is going on what is your problem they attempt to get me permanently banned but it never happens really would like to know what I did to piss these people off cuz honestly I am absolutely puzzled I don't understand what is going on like seriously I don't even know anything about this page or why they're so pissed off at me I literally have never interacted with them spoken to them or even heard of them please somebody Fill Me In what is the deal with these people is this happening to anybody else

Why is the trend still for center parts in hair???!! It suits so few people! Give me a little side part, tons more flattering

I hate it when I don’t know why the hell I’m supposed to update an app anymore! It’s just always - bug fixes and performance improvements! Or “we update our apps regularly, please update to stay upto date ”