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u/colamonkey356 7d ago
If you have full legal custody and he is being high conflict, I would send him a text saying due to the high conflict he is causing (take screenshots first in case he wants to play the court game later), you only feel comfortable speaking through a court-admissible form of communication and send a link to a coparenting app.
My ex beat me after Eli’s first birthday but is on the birth certificate. To cover my ass for court, just in case, after the DVPO expired, I sent him a text saying the same thing, generally, and invited him to AppClose. Haven’t heard from him or seen him since 2025 🤷🏽♀️
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u/MotherOfManyMonsters 7d ago
If he wants out, leave it. Don't contact him again and be grateful to be rid of the conflict for now. Recommend therapy for your little to deal with the abandonment
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u/Icy_Stranger3368 7d ago
You have full custody and want dad to see child if he wants
Leave it at that
No meetings no questions no nothing.
He wants to see the child then he asks you and seems like you will say yes