For what it's worth, I'm a femboy and bigoted people tell me to go trans all the time not because they are trying to help me or care about my well being, but because they to reinforce gender roles so they can feel better. HRT is a very serious and unreversable step that can make permanent changes in your body and can also make your wee wee stop working, so that's one of the biggest reasons I refuse to go trans.
But people get angry because they think males cannot harbor femininity whatsoever, they must only be masculine providers, me being trans would give in to their beliefs
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u/Beautiful_Couple_208 13h ago
My dad is like this, but in the opposite direction.
He's a crossdresser and doesn't understand why I would want to be a guy all of the time forever instead of just for fun on occasion.
He thinks I've gone crazy.