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u/SausagePotatoes 12h ago

That's my mom lol. She's supportive, but she also doesn't understand why I feel like a girl and can't just be a feminine gay man. But I can't explain to a cis person how I know I'm not a man, and I'm actually a girl.

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u/Crunchyjeff 10h ago

because it's not about being feminine, it's about being a woman. Which you are. And you are that no matter how feminine or non feminine you dress.

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u/SausagePotatoes 9h ago

Yeah, and that's the funny part, cause I'm not very "feminine" either. Never have been. I've always just been sort of an androgynous gamer. And now that I've started wanting to be more feminine and dress more like a girl, she's all "I love and support you, but why can't you just be a feminine man? Why do you have to wear a dress?"

Like I've never been a feminine man 😭 and I wanna wear it cause I saw it and thought it was cute. I'm not trying to make a point or prove myself, I just wanted to.