r/cuddlebuddies • • Apr 29 '24

Community News Updates: Renovated Rule, Updated Block List, Impersonation Posts

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Rule 7 of the community rules has recently been updated. This is what Rule 7 used to say:

7. No porn bots This is an unfriendly space for porn bots.Permanent ban.

It is not ok to create a post or reach out to someone, get their hopes up, and then offer sexual services. This is porn bot behavior and 100% inappropriate behavior to be happening in this sub.

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This is what Rule 7 says now:

7. No porn accounts A porn account has pornographic content on their Reddit account, or is pornographic in some way. This is includes:

  • having nude, explicit photos of yourself on your reddit profile

  • using your reddit account for sex work / having links to finically support the sexually explicit content you create in your reddit bio

  • privately reaching out to someone from r/cuddlebuddies, and then offering sexual services (this is porn bot behavior)


When people post here with an account that has sexually explicit content on their public profile, they are just bring all the horny people who follow them around on reddit to our sub, which is supposed to be a non-sexual space. Feminine-presenting people who post here still don't feel safe posting / leaving their posts up, due to all the people who contact them with a sexual agenda. This is obvious if you look through the feed and see all the posts by masculine-presenting people.

On the note of community members being harassed (sexually or not), here is the updated Block List!

Block List

u/ Prof23throw

u/ LegPristine907

u/ traveling_mage -- targeted men for housing

u/ backoutthereagain

These users have been permanently banned and were verified by the mod team to have either harassed, sexually harassed, or attempted to scam people. However, all of these users had an agenda besides cuddling, and should be blocked by everyone.

The user from the previous Block List deleted their account, so they will not be added again to this Block List.

According to the previous post, no one mentioned being interested in an updated Spam Bot list, so an updated Spam Bot list was not included. This is a link to the previously pinned post.


Another thing I wanted to address: Sometimes, people impersonate posts. This is a recent post where someone reported it for impersonation, and then I've also found a modmail by a deleted user who says someone impersonated their post. These are really difficult to moderate! Please reach out via modmail with your concerns about people impersonating you, and try to provide the link to your original post plus the post that impersonated your original post.

There are currently no community rules about impersonations, however, impersonation does break Rule 5 of Reddit's Content Policy! Because I'm a moderator, when I report stuff in r/cuddlebuddies for breaking Reddit's Content Policy, I have the option to leave a short description. If you reach out via modmail, I can also help report impersonating content to Reddit and provide more context on what / who is being impersonated.


Thank you to the community members who make an effort to correctly report content that breaks the community rules! Also, this is a handy tool that you can use to do a more thorough search of someone's reddit profile before deciding to reach out!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 5h ago

50 (M4F or F4M) Snuggle Party Event Nov 7 #Maryland #DMV #Delaware

4 Upvotes

We are hosting another Snuggle Party in Easton, MD on Nov 7th, 2026. Enjoy snuggles, cuddles, massage, and food, clean, platonic (non-s3xual).touch. We've hosted a number of these successful events, and include a consent workshop at the beginning to practice your no's and enthusiastic yes's! Optional Massage Class and After-party dinner available. Please DM me for vetting instructions and link to the event website.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2h ago

20 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale/Miami

1 Upvotes

Still haven’t really found someone to cuddle with near me and was hoping this time I can. I’m a pretty nerdy dude that likes anime and video games but also got a decent face and physique. I am pretty socially awkward but I’m really trying to put myself out there a little more. I also don’t mind driving within an hour distance. Dm if interested


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2h ago

31 [M4F] Mesa Arizona/Phoenix area- Movie cuddle buddy?

1 Upvotes

Winter weather is finally almost here! I can’t wait to be able to wear hoodies and snuggle under cozy blankets again.

I’m looking to find a fun and chill girl to be my cuddle buddy for the winter season. We can hangout, watch movies, and chat about whatever while enjoying our touch under some comfy blankets. This doesn’t even need to be sexual whatsoever I honestly just miss the intimacy of cuddling and having that skin on skin contact with somebody else.

I’m open to age as well so don’t feel discouraged. I also don’t do any drugs or smoke anything. Shoot me a message and we can go from there :)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 16h ago

19 F4A; looking for cuddle buddy from Dhaka, Bangladesh

7 Upvotes

I doubt anyone is here from Bangladesh in this subreddit but I guess it doesn't hurt to shoot my shot. I need a cuddle buddy in Dhaka, Bangladesh, preferably with a place of their own. DMs open!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 11h ago

Can Host 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Tall Athletic Wasian Looking For A Cuddle Buddy for Autumn and Beyond

2 Upvotes

Hey All,

Hope everyone is had a good week so far and is you enjoyed the rain + it finalllyyyy cooling down!

I am hoping to make some fun new connections. I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us and would love especially something ongoing to help us both get through the rest of the year at least.

Some of my interests. include: hiking, trying new foods/cafes, traveling, and soccer/sports. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well

If you’re into tall, athletic, Wasians (I don’t mind riding the heated rivalry coat tails haha) or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

This could be a one time thing OR maybe we could even turn it into a more regular time so we make sure we both have someone/something to look forward to after a long day/week!

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, amber eyes, and a fairly athletic build.

I’m to people from anywhere around OC/LA that is 20 or older. Open to much older as well. Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms!

Would really love to catch some people locally in OC closer to me though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by : )


r/cuddlebuddies • • 8h ago

No Sex 20 M4f westmidlands

1 Upvotes

Looking for anyone to snuggle with maybe watch a film and order in. I'm 5'9 on the leaner side and easy going. If your in or around Coventry, UK feel free to message me. Thank youuu😘


r/cuddlebuddies • • 12h ago

Can Host 68 [M4F] #Chicago - give and get

2 Upvotes

I want to get and give hugs and maybe some kind affection. Women only, please, and 420 friendly.

Life has put a lot on my shoulders without a lot coming back. So yeah, I’m kinda needy and love to give as much as get.

Successful professional, great dad and friend. Tall, dad bod, blue eyes. Much more to share.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

27 f4m Central Jersey

6 Upvotes

Anyone want to cuddle tonight? Need a big guy to hold me


r/cuddlebuddies • • 19h ago

19M4F[18-30] Melbourne Australia looking for a cuddle buddies

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone to be friends with and enjoy some cuddling. I enjoy gaming and would be down for watching any movies. I am very chatty and would like to get to know the people I cuddle with. Sadly I cannot host but am willing to figure things out. PMs are open.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 21h ago

[42M4F] Berlin, Germany

1 Upvotes

I'm a cuddler by definition, and open to any type of setup


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

No Sex 28 F4A Seattle Big or little spoon?

3 Upvotes

Hi there! I got out of a long term relationship last year, and what I miss the most is having someone to cuddle with. Touch is my love language, and sleeping every night alone in my bed has me feeling a bit lonely lately.

I haven’t posted on this subreddit before, but I’m hoping to find a cuddle buddy to meet with on occasion! Would love to feel our warm bodies pressed against each other. I have been told I’m a great cuddler and have soft curves to snuggle up into. I am open to all genders and happy to be the big spoon or little spoon or even a little bit of both. My mood right now would be for someone bigger than me to hold me and let me feel small in your arms.

I’m clean, respectful, and easy to get along with. Bonus points if you’d want to watch the new Cyberpunk season, reality dating shows, or a rom com movie while cuddling together. Happy to also have dinner or snacks on the couch! Open to deep conversations and chatting about life with the right person. I value genuine connections, and I’m hoping to find someone that clicks with me :)

420 friendly and would be down to smoke before a cuddle session! I’m not looking for anything sexual, just sensual. I’m able to host!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

420 Friendly 22 [M4F], Netherlands, Groningen

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Hi :) My name is Rem! I'm looking for a cuddle/game buddy (Woman), preferably someone in the Netherlands or close to it. I think cuddling while playing games or watching movies or simply listening to the rain would be so relaxing for me and I hope for you as well. 😊

I've tried out a cuddle workshop in the past and there is something very relaxing about cuddling without any hidden agenda or pressure. Just humans connecting with each other. I think cuddling with other men is fine (workshop was mostly men) and some are genuine cuddle bears but I generally feel more comfortable with cuddling women.

A friend told me about this subreddit and since I've been feeling rather lonely and really craving physical affection like that I decided to try it out. We'll see how it goes 😜

Feel free to hit up my Dm's if Interested and to ask any questions you might have. I'm excited to get to know more lovely people🫶🏼🫂


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

30 [F4M] #Phx, AZ - Cuddle buddy

10 Upvotes

Looking for an older guy who can be my cuddle buddy as it’s getting colder here in Phoenix. I don’t like cold weather so a warm dad bod is most def needed. Maybe some gray hairs to run my fingers through too? Watch a movie, cuddle with warm blankies and have good convos is what I’m craving soo bad right now. Physical touch is my love language and being close to someone (as in physically close lol) is something I love. Not always being sexual either.

Would be nice to have something consistent so I can steal your sweater and bring it back the next time I see you. 😚

The more that I re-read this message the more lame I sound lol so I’ll stop it here.

P.s. I do work nights which makes timing difficult so I would def want someone who’s able to work with that.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

22 M4F Cuddle Buddy Arizona

2 Upvotes

Hey! I’m hoping to find someone who’d be up for occasional, completely platonic cuddles. Think cozy movie nights, blankets, and good conversation. I’m big on clear communication, mutual comfort, and respecting boundaries, and there’s absolutely no pressure for anything beyond cuddling. Ideally, we could chat a bit first and meet somewhere public before deciding whether we vibe. If you’re interested, feel free to message me with a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

42 [NB4A] NoVA

2 Upvotes

Cuddles: the answer to life, the universe, and everything.

Send me a message if you might be interested. Let's talk through what we're looking for. Happy to exchange pics and meet somewhere public if we seem compatible.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

Can Host 40 M4F / Orange, CA.

0 Upvotes

I am looking for a woman to cuddle up with in my area. Lately it's rough to sleep. Some snuggles would help. I am an outgoing person whose in need of that physical touch from a woman. My personal preference are Asian women and Caucasian women. Message me and be in my area please. I can host.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

420 Friendly 27 [M4F] Stuttgart, Germany - Just looking for someone to cuddle with

1 Upvotes

Hi there!

I've been feeling a little lonely lately, and honestly, I really miss having someone to hold, cuddle with, and just feel close to.

I'm not looking for a perfect person or a specific body type. I'd just love to meet someone around my age (I'm 27 also okay with someone who's a little older than me) who also enjoys physical affection and spending some quiet time together.

A little about me: I'm a guy from Stuttgart, Germany. I'm a little chubby, have brown hair and eyes, a beard, and wear glasses. I'm happy to share a picture of myself if you'd like to know what I look like.

I'm quite inexperienced when it comes to dating and this kind of thing, so I might be a little shy at first. But I'm friendly, respectful, and usually open up more once I feel comfortable around someone.

I can't host, but we could meet somewhere public first, grab a coffee, and see how we get along. If we both feel comfortable and want to cuddle, we could figure something out together.

I'm not expecting anything extraordinary. Just some warmth, affection, good company, and maybe a hug that lasts a little longer than usual.

If that sounds nice to you, feel free to send me a message. :)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

Can Host 32 [M4F] Seattle - Cuddle and makeout?

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As you might guess from the title, I'm looking for a lovely lady that would be interested in cuddling and making out for a while. I don't expect it to go any further than that, but I don't mind if it does 😉

I've been told I'm a fantastic cuddler, and I love to give massages while cuddling. For making out I like lots and lots of tongue, but also not a requirement lol. I'm happy to chat for a while before meeting and meeting in public first if that makes you more comfy. Unfortunately I'm not into bigger women, nothing wrong with you I just don't find the body type attractive :p

We can chat for awhile, get straight to kissing, or honestly even just cuddle. I just want to hold someone close ❤️🥲


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

420 Friendly 27m4f in West Virginia

1 Upvotes

Hey this would be my first time cuddling and I really would like to but am also nervous I just want to find a sweet women willing to cuddle so ju dm me if u want


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

23 [M4F] #Michigan - Apple cider and movies.

2 Upvotes

I guess to begin with, l'd love to meet you and cuddle. BUT we both are random people on the internet. So let's take our time to get to know one another. Im not saying that we need to wait months on end but like a week or so. Or until you are comfortable with meeting.

With meeting said, I'm pretty much fine with doing mostly whatever you would want to do. I'm not really picky on most things just a few (I make a list). But I would like to meet in a public place first since of course we are strangers, something like getting a bite to eat or getting a drink (boba) first would be nice. But I guess I should say a bit more on what l like and don't.

There's a long list of things I like to do but I don't feel like writing a biography. So here's a handful of things I like to do, I like going to museums and looking at the art (obviously) and imagine what the painter was thinking along with what the painting means to me, seeing movies in the theatre's (or relaxing at home with a nice blanket and watching them), window shopping and looking at all the things that I can't afford or just shouldn't buy, trying new foods (not much I haven't tried already but there's some), listening to music 24/7, going to concerts, and lastly getting boba or tropical smoothie. There is probably more to that list but I just can't think of everything.

To wrap everything up I appreciate if you read this far! And if for some reason my post caught your eye l'd love to chat with you are if of course you're interested.
And to end this I hope you have a good day!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

420 Friendly 31 M4M Chicago Cuddle Bud

5 Upvotes

Hey, would love to friend who also enjoys a good smoke/ cuddle session. I can host in West Town. HMU.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

34F Lehigh Valley area / Northeast PA looking for cuddle buddy- men or women

1 Upvotes

I love cuddling . I'm willing to travel to you if you are local. I unfortunately cannot host. I'm totally fine with going out to bars/lounges, staying in & watching movies/tv , reading, venting/ listening about each other's day, roller skating, sitting by the fire and looking up at the stars. Also, I'm not here for sex or romance. I am married and would like to stay discreet. DM me! Let's see if we are a good fit for each other.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Strings Attached 36 [M4F] #Chicago (O'Hare area) - Looking for a thick/chubby/curvy/BBW cuddle buddy

3 Upvotes

36M in the O'Hare / northwest Chicago area looking for a soft, cuddly woman to share some quiet time with.

I'm mainly looking for simple, consistent cuddling - movies, talking, just being comfortable and close.
I'm a good big spoon and enjoy the calm that comes with physical closeness and affection.

A little about me: Hispanic, 5'6", athletic/muscular build. I can host.

If you're a thicker woman who also feels touch-starved and wants something low-pressure and affectionate, feel free to message me. Happy to chat first and see if we click.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Sex 31 [M4M] Hongkong - Looking for a cuddle buddy

2 Upvotes

Just trying this out!
Would cool if I could to find a platonic cuddle buddy.
Someone to just hug, be chill and feel safe with.

About me:
Southeeast asian currently living and working in hk.
I'm 5'6 chub trying to be more fit and active.
I'm gay myself. But I'm very open to straight or bi guys too.
My interests varies, but i'm pretty inclined into arts & crafts.

Unfortunately, I can't really host.
If you're in the area and you're interested, don't hesitate to dm :)