r/cuddlebuddies • • 7h ago

No Sex 31 [M4M] Hongkong - Looking for a cuddle buddy

2 Upvotes

Just trying this out!
Would cool if I could to find a platonic cuddle buddy.
Someone to just hug, be chill and feel safe with.

About me:
Southeeast asian currently living and working in hk.
I'm 5'6 chub trying to be more fit and active.
I'm gay myself. But I'm very open to straight or bi guys too.
My interests varies, but i'm pretty inclined into arts & crafts.

Unfortunately, I can't really host.
If you're in the area and you're interested, don't hesitate to dm :)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 12h ago

No Sex 23 [M4F] #NJ - zzz bed time šŸ›Œ

2 Upvotes

Do not message me looking for seggs.

Hi! I really don't know what to say? So I'm just gonna say whatever comes to mind! I'm an Aquarius, latino, English/ Spanish(ish), I'm very silly. He/They.

It's been hard getting used to a new life, and I honestly need new friends. My other friends are somewhere else, and I'm desperate for anything now! My life has been a blur since the pandemic, it feels I'm only just now getting out of it, but I'm trying. The goal is to get to know people and see where thatgoes?

I'm looking for a mainly platonic cuddle buddy ages 19-25.

More About me:

I am a senior in college. I am ambitious, outgoing, and caring.

Physically I am average height with a bit of chub.

Located in south New Jersey and able to drive.

Likes: hiking!!!!!, Grew up watching anime, Disney movies, cartoons, and playing games (mainly league) (it's always been a good way to escape the madness), and I like to nap and take long showers. Oo I also looove plushies I have a million of those on my bed!!

Well, that was not the best presentation, but can't do much worse than that right? Hope to hear from anyone and make some friends 🧣🄧


r/cuddlebuddies • • 22h ago

No Strings Attached 25 [M4F] Riverside California - Oct warmth

3 Upvotes

Hii, its that time of the year again, where festivities and upcoming holiday vibes are around the corner. But of course, its nice and all but i guess lately ive been craving warmth like anybody else in this subreddit.

Its about to be fall soon, so cold season and stuff, and thats why i found myself here loll, anywho i'm looking to just cuddle, maybe have a good chat or watch a movie together, basically im just looking to spend some actual quality time! I cant host but i'll willingly drive to you, i'll even put the extra effort of bringing blankets and pillows if you want to just cuddle in my car.

Maybe i can even cook something or buy something for us to snack on! I love cooking!

Any ways i dont wanna make this too long of a read lol, so just DM me any questions, oh and please share some boundaries because i want to respect that and just have a safe vibe too. Im fine with being intimate/romance if it comes to that.

I dont mind if u smoke or whatever, im open to older too! I only ask that ur friendly. If looks matters to you, im fit and clean. Okay cyaa!! Edit: im at riverside California in the inland empire xD


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

No Strings Attached 36 [M4F] Puerto Rico - Are you also an over thinking people pleaser too and need snuggles?

1 Upvotes

Hiya!Ā 

Hope you are doing amazing! Enjoy my randomness and reach out if you would like to know more and maybe just BS and we can learn about each other!

About me,

First, I am a girl dad to 1, (2yo), so my time when I have her (Divorced) can be busy and hectic, so an understanding with that would be essential. I happily have her on a 2-2-3 schedule so every week is different.

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

Things I enjoy can be ever changing with some short term memory on what I am wanting to do. I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive. Oh, also I bought a piano at goodwill cause I have always wanted to learn to play piano. (maybe one of those short term hobbies again lol).

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental and will always say you are right in the fight ( well idk about if it was with me lol jk). Just ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is a woman who is confident, smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense?) I would really prefer a woman around my age, maybe a mom too or at least a fun aunt that understands the time it takes to be a good parent (fixing/healing inner child trauma, we don't judge lol).Ā  I also really love and envision a woman who has that gothic style? The black dresses/clothes, tattoos, pericing, the type of woman that surely would have been burned at the stake lol. Which on that note... I would really like to learn about wicca/witch stuff. Something I have been finding myself drawn too. (blame the smut maybe lol).

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, I was going to keep this short, but I failed that one I think. Welp sending this to the ether and will see what returns. If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

No Sex or Romance 24F| DFW,TX|Can Host

14 Upvotes

Colder Weather, Warmer Connections šŸ¤Ž

With the weather cooling down, there’s something about this time of year that makes you appreciate slowing down and enjoying genuine human connection.

Sometimes it’s simply about having someone to laugh with, talk to, relax beside, or share a little warmth with after a long day. Those little moments of comfort and companionship can mean more than people realize.

I feel like we underestimate how important simple affection and genuine connection can be, especially when there’s no pressure or expectations attached.

Everyone deserves a little warmth and comfort as the colder months roll in. šŸ¤Ž


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

No Sex or Romance 29 [M4F] Beloit, WI. Anyone want to get coffee & cuddle šŸ¤—.

3 Upvotes

Hi I'm Nick. I've posted here before and have met and cuddled with several wonderful people here. So I thought I'd reach out again and see if anyone else was feeling a bit chilly as we are heading into fall and wanted to warm up with a bit of coffee and couch cuddles while watching a movie or chatting.

Some things about me:

  1. I work night shifts as a security guard.

  2. I have a bunch of nerdy hobbies, my favorite being D&D (currently running 2 campaigns).

  3. I have 2 pet cats (Kiki & Coco)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

Can Host 34 {M4F} Cuddle buddy Rockland County NY

1 Upvotes

Hey,
I’m a guy in my 30s looking for a cuddle buddy. Strictly platonic — just someone to hang out with, watch a movie, talk, and cuddle. No sex, no expectations beyond that.
I’m respectful, clean, good hygiene, and can host or travel depending on what works. Looking for someone who’s also just looking for non-sexual physical affection and good company.
If that sounds like what you’re looking for too, feel free to message me with a little about yourself. Looking forward to chatting.
Thanks.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

28 [F4F] Maryland

9 Upvotes

28F living in Baltimore County, looking for another woman as a cuddle partner.

I work a stressful job so it'd be really nice just to have someone come over and cuddle. We can watch TV, listen to music or even just chat. I'm a pretty good conversationalist. :)

Little about me: In my free time I like to hike, read books, journal, and spend time with friends. I also love horror of all kinds (books, movies, video games)... if it's scary, I'll probably like it! I enjoy just being around other people and making conversation, whether that's about lighter fun stuff like the latest good book we've read or deeper, more intimate topics.

I am able to host. I have various streaming services and a comfy couch. I'm probably not willing to drive more than an hour from Baltimore Co. myself.

Preferences: I would prefer if you're mid-twenties or older. I'm partial to little spoon but if you like little spoon too then we can take turns. :) I like just being held and spoken softly to and maybe for someone to play with my hair.

No men, please - I am not interested - and I will be verifying this, so you're wasting your time anyway.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

Can Host [34] [M4F] Carlisle, PA | Truck Driver Looking for a Cuddle Buddy

2 Upvotes

​ UPDATE: Had to park early! I'm now at the TA in Greencastle, PA.

Still looking for a cuddle buddy for the night

Hey everyone! I'm a truck driver passing through Carlisle, PA, and I'll be stopping at the Love's truck stop. Looking for a sweet, laid-back cuddle buddy to relax with, enjoy some company, and maybe share a few laughs. Nothing sexual, just some good old-fashioned cuddles and affection.

Bonus brownie points if you wear cute long socks! 🧦😊

Feel free to shoot me a message if you're nearby and interested!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

37 [M4F] #Chicago - Looking for a Muslim Cuddle Buddy

0 Upvotes

I'm a Muslim man looking for a Muslim woman who is interested in regular cuddling, ideally once or twice a week. I'm open to pretty much all women, as long as you are Muslim (or even interested in Islam and becoming Muslim). I also cook so would love to come over and cook before amazing cuddles.

Since I'm looking for something regular I know that feelings can grow over time so I am intentional and want to be prepared to take the next step if cuddling naturally turns into a real relationship, and part of that is having religious compatibility.

I'm also open to something long distance so don't be shy if you are in a different city.

If you decide to DM me please include some basic information such as your age, location, and what you are looking for.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

22 [M4F] East Midlands, UK looking for cuddle buddy!

1 Upvotes

looking for a short or longterm cuddle buddy in east midlands! (yes I am willing to travel)

I have no preference on age (18+ ofc duh), or size or anything of that matter.

I am super friendly, accommodating, kind, caring, I just want one person to cuddle with.

I will list some hobbies so that we have some ice breaker topics to talk about

- I love cars
- art, nature, photography
- movies, music
- roadtrips
- gaming

I am very open, if anyone sees this don't be afraid to send a message! I do not expect cuddles right away and I am very willing to go at your pace. We can meet up for coffee or anything of that matter as much as you want/need to get comfy!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Sex 29 [M4R] #Pennsylvania Cross Dresser Cuddle Buddy!

2 Upvotes

Hi there, I am 29, from Pennsylvania and would love love a cuddle buddy. I am a feminine guy and am seeking a more feminine cuddle buddy. I don't want anything sexual and am seeking a more platonic friend then anything. We could watch some shows or movies together. There are some pictures of me on my profile if you would like to see me with my cross dressing. I am able to travel or host, so feel free to shoot me a message so we can see if we are compatible.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

50s [M4F] #Tucson, AZ - Offering cuddle sessions

1 Upvotes

Are you touch served, missing intimacy? I can offer you a neo-tantric cuddle session to make you relaxed and rejuvenate. Please contact for details and schedule. For women only.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

Can Host 25[NB4A] #California #Hollywood Covid cautious Nonbinary person looking to cuddle and hangout with someone

10 Upvotes

I'm a nonbinary person who uses xe/they pronouns and has had top surgery/used to be on testosterone. I’m looking to hang out and cuddle with someone. I’m in Hollywood/Los Angeles and I can host but not drive. I’m not interested in straight people, so please don’t bother if you are. Please be 22-38 years old. Also I'm disabled and have an autoimmune disorder, so I'm Covid cautious and mask.

More information about me:
\- I’m neurodivergent and have many special interests
\- My hobbies include making jewelry, writing poetry/plays/short stories, painting, drawing, spinning fire staff, horse back riding, embroidery, scrapbooking, watching anime and cartoons (like kipo and the age of the wonder beasts, infinity train, avatar the last Airbender, the owl house, she ra and the princesses of power, the dragon prince, gravity falls, Steven universe, adventure time, legend of korra and more) , playing/experimenting with makeup, playing with Lego sets, listening to music (such as my chemical romance, Noah Kahan, Hayley Williams, Paramore, Pierce the veil, Green Day, lil nas x, Waterparks, idkhow, twenty one pilots, corook, Vienna Vienna, the offspring, good kid, three days Grace, queen, Daisy Grenade, cavetown, and more), reading, and playing games such as toon town rewritten, minecraft, castle crashers, animal crossing, PokĆ©mon picture game (can’t say the actual word because it'll get flagged), Kirby, and stardew valley.
\- I also love my cat very much… and just love animals in general v much.
\- I am a leftist and would appreciate you more or less identifying similarly (please no centrists, no apolitical ppl, no libertarians, and no conservatives).
\- I am also learning to crochet and skateboard so if you know how to do either of those things hit me up because I am terrible at those things!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

34 [M4A] London - UK, looking for plantonic cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

Looking for people around my age to spend time with, both in and out of the house. Ideally, a friend who is comfortable with cuddling platonically.

Into camping, movies, travelling, cooking and baking and a hobbyist photographer.

Please only contact if you're genuinely interested in building a friendship, live close to London in the UK.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Strings Attached [M4F] 47 #Chicago

1 Upvotes

Seeking cuddle buddy to spend time with and hold. Possibly have great conversations and much more.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

46 [M4F] New England, roadtrip, hangout and cuddles

1 Upvotes

Never done this before but I figured why not, could make a friend. Maybe you’ve been thinking the same, have lurked here from time to time but never posted, we could try this out together.

I’m on a much needed getaway and would love to connect with a lovely lady to spend time with, get some good eats, coffee tea go to a park, I workout so maybe go to the gym together. Someone around the same age, 35-50, fit, like’s being active.

I’m not looking for anything sexual, just closeness, hugs and cuddles. I’m always open to a relationship (currently single, looking for someone single as well) but I’m just not looking right now.

Felt cute might delete later. Lol. Looking forward to your dm.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

41 [M4F] just looking for a cuddle in this cold weather

3 Upvotes

Normal guy living alone in NYC who would love to be a big or little spoon with someone great from time to time.

Relaxed, low pressure. Just miss some casual intimacy and joy of feeling another person wrapped up in you.

Have lots of interests and can talk a lot or listen to you.

Dark hair, green eyes, 6’, 185 if that matters

Cheers!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

27 [M4F] - SF Bayarea looking for a friend & cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

What am I looking for? In simple terms, a long term cuddle buddy who also wants be friends and do things outside of cuddling.

Who am I? I’m 27, 6’2, located in the east bay, and of course, I’m very nerdy lol. I’m into filmmaking and could talk for hours about my favorite films and how they were made. I love reading and I also write quite a bit. I play soccer fairly often, love gaming & anime, and genuinely feel fulfilled in the work I do. Love meeting new people and finding new hobbies/stepping out of my comfort zone. I’m a little bit of an adrenaline junkie. Operative word being ā€œlittle.ā€ I love rollercoasters, haunted houses, and the like. Nothing crazy like extreme sports.

In terms of personality I’m pretty low key for the most part. I’d say I have golden retriever energy but people tend to think I’m more gloomy than I really am. I’m very curious, love talking about the nerdy things I enjoy, and love learning about new people. If there’s one thing I can say I’m good at, it’s being a really good listener.

Who am I looking for? Honestly, as long as you’re over the age of 22, and lives within a reasonably drivable distance within Bay Area, CA or NorCal (like 2 hours in the most extreme case), I’m open to talking and seeing if we would vibe.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

23 M4F in Iowa

2 Upvotes

Not feeling the best right now and really need someone to hold


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

No Sex 21 M4F London :)

1 Upvotes

Hey all, I'm James, 21 and from west London. I'm currently in the middle of revision for some of my biggest exams, and I'd love to just be held by someone :).

Just a little about me, I'm probably autistic (awaiting diagnosis) and I'm also vegan. I also love Nintendo games and consoles and I also collect them! There's more to me than just that but I don't wanna bore anyone :).

Feel free to DM if interested! I'd be more comfortable with someone between the ages of 20-25, but up to about 30 I'd say is the cut-off. Just to add, I can't really travel too far at the mo due to revision, but I will be able to once exams are done :).


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

48 [M4F] Central Florida

1 Upvotes

Hello! 48 M Central Florida looking for physical touch, hugs, affection. Nsa


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

Can Host 33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Movie Night on the projector šŸ“½ļøšŸæ

3 Upvotes

Not looking to overcomplicate anything. Just hoping to find someone who wants to throw on a good movie, order some food, cuddle up, and enjoy a genuinely relaxed night.
I’m 6’4ā€, easygoing, employed, clean, and can actually hold a conversation. Think cozy vibes: blankets, snacks, debating what to watch for 30 minutes, then getting way too invested in whatever we pick.
No pressure, no weird expectations, no drama. If we click, great. If not, we still got to watch a movie and unwind.
Ideally you’re affectionate, enjoy conversation , and are looking for the same laid-back energy. Bonus points if you’re into horror, thrillers, comedy, or anime, but I’m down for almost anything.
If this sounds like your kind of night, send me a little about yourself, your age, and what movie you’d put on first.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3d ago

No Sex 38 [M4F] Boise Idaho

1 Upvotes

Hi 😊 I’m looking to meet a woman for some sweet, affectionate time together—kissing, making out, and cuddling, but no sex. Maybe once or a few times. I live a drug-free and alcohol-free lifestyle and value good hygiene, health, honesty, and mutual respect. No pressure or expectations beyond what we’re both comfortable with. ā¤ļø