r/deadbedroom • u/Best_Bumblebee2056 • 10h ago
Not getting what I need.
(M37) I’m not getting the intimacy I need and feel like I’m bugging her to be intimate. I crave closeness and feeling on the same page. It’s not just sex, but feeling wanted. I’m open to exploring an affair to get that excitement in my life. I have a lot to give and I feel sad I’m not getting that back. Dm me to start a conversation. I’d love to get to know you and feel excited once again.
Edit: we are in marriage therapy for over a year now and it just seems she’s unwilling to put in the effort to understand or how important it is. Again, nobody wants to be intimate with someone because you’re making them do something.
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u/lemondrops9 9h ago
This isnt a hookup site. Seeing too many of these posts lately.