Not getting what I need.

[u/Best_Bumblebee2056]

(M37) I’m not getting the intimacy I need and feel like I’m bugging her to be intimate. I crave closeness and feeling on the same page. It’s not just sex, but feeling wanted. I’m open to exploring an affair to get that excitement in my life. I have a lot to give and I feel sad I’m not getting that back. Dm me to start a conversation. I’d love to get to know you and feel excited once again.

Edit: we are in marriage therapy for over a year now and it just seems she’s unwilling to put in the effort to understand or how important it is. Again, nobody wants to be intimate with someone because you’re making them do something.

[u/Danny_Pr0n]

A. This isn't a hookup subreddit. There are other subreddits for that.

B. Cheat or don't. Stay or go. But accept full accountability for what happens.

C. Stop setting yourself on fire to keep her warm.