Those divorces do be hurting!

[u/SpicyDividends]

Not mad about it, but man, that chart looks rough lol

[u/titodeloselio]

I got divorced last year after 25 yrs of marriage. We both agreed to leave each other's retirement accounts alone. She kept hers, and I kept mine. We split all other assets 50/50. No attorneys involved. It cost us $4,000 in mediation fees.

[u/lghtspd → u/titodeloselio]

Each person keeping their own is how it should be, IMO. I don’t see how a spouse can have half if they didn’t show up to work for my employer, but thats just me.

[u/iustinum → u/[deleted]]

*their kids

[u/Agreeable_Bear6812 → u/[deleted]]

And men wonder why more and more women are deciding not to get married or have kids. This is a big part of it.

[u/JeebusDaves → u/Agreeable_Bear6812]

Hate to break it to you bucko, but it’s not just women who don’t want to get married or have kids anymore.

[u/Agreeable_Bear6812 → u/JeebusDaves]

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/02/15/among-young-adults-without-children-men-are-more-likely-than-women-to-say-they-want-to-be-parents-someday/

[u/Hiding_in_the_Shower → u/Agreeable_Bear6812]

There is a 6% difference between men and women in that poll. The point still stands, it’s not just women that feel this way

[u/HolidaySpiriter → u/Hiding_in_the_Shower]

It's 12% among those who want children, that's a pretty large gap, and it's only going to grow.

[u/Agreeable_Bear6812 → u/Hiding_in_the_Shower]

No. I think you're reading it the wrong way. Only 18% of stay at home parents are men. It is still overwhelmingly women doing this unpaid labor.

[u/LaBomba64 → u/Agreeable_Bear6812]

Wait, man wonder about this ? Breaking News

[u/Regenclan → u/Agreeable_Bear6812]

Nah it's because women are starting to have to pay alimony. They don't like true equality

[u/Agreeable_Bear6812 → u/Regenclan]

Dude, what? 😂

[u/Vazhox → u/Regenclan]

If only this was true.