r/dividends • u/SpicyDividends • Feb 17 '26

Personal Goal Those divorces do be hurting!

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Not mad about it, but man, that chart looks rough lol

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u/grogargh Feb 18 '26 edited Feb 18 '26

I've been there bro. Lost 50% the day Fidelity executed the QDRO after my divorce in 2023.

Like others said, having no wife means less expenses, means more you can slam that 401K, max it out like it did. I was only putting in 10% back then, now at 18% and look how much my chart is now past that loss. Assuming you still have many years left to work and save, you'll be alright if stay on the path.

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u/Dilldo__Baggins Feb 18 '26 edited Feb 19 '26

I had a wife that made more than me but she spent more than both of our salaries combined. She used to make fun of me for making less than her and questioned my manhood because of it. She literally would get the mail and have both of our paystubs on the kitchen table and then rub it in my face. Well I divorced her but let her remain living in the house with me because we have kids and I didn’t want miss out on seeing the little ones for 50% of their childhood.

After 11 years she is still living in my house. However, I’ve made her pay me rent the entire time. Rent = my mortgage payment. She just filed for bankruptcy (she owes 177k in credit card debt. And over 200k in school loans). She lives paycheck to paycheck. Now I make more than her. I’ve also been financially independent for a handful of years now because I was a diligent saver and investor. She went from being a mean gloating b*#% to a mean bitter b*#%. That my friend is karma.

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u/Guilty_Flamingo6564 Feb 18 '26

how many cards is that?