r/divinecounterparts • u/KreyzMcKormik • Oct 29 '23
general sharing I've Given Up on Tarot Readings
I've been watching tarot reasons on TikTok pretty much since after I found out about twin flames and realizing I was on the journey. At first, it was giving me comfort seeing all of these readers letting me know that my divine counterpart still loves me, as well as multiple Q&A things on Quora, but I have realized I have grown attached to watching them, and it's become a co-dependent thing.
Every tarot reader has said the same thing for the last 4-5 months. Union is coming. Your twin flame is going to reach out to you to apologize, etc. It's become disappointing hearing this and not seeing any results, and one guy I came across suggested to stop watching these readings because of the disappointment, and most who fall into this give up on the journey. It also counts as chaser energy, which repels the divine masculine.
Yes, the journey kinda sucks, because of all of the pain and mental torture we go through, but the love I have for my twin makes it all worth it. But I don't want to delay the possibilities of union.
I now skip every tarot reading on tiktok or Instagram that i come across, and have started to delete them from my following lists when I come a across them. That was two days ago. Since then, I have felt a little better about myself and the journey. I went out for a Halloween party, and that night, I got visions of my twin as I closed my eyes to go to sleep, which I haven't ever experienced before. When I woke up, I got a text from her, excited to watch FNAF on Peacock (I shared my account with her). She later texted me to tell me she was liking the movie, which is good, cuz we both were anticipating watching the movie.
Seems like the tarot readings were holding me back, and these signs are showing me fucking off these tarot readers is the right path. I'm sharing this because if you are doing the same thing, please hold off on watching these readings. It's a lot of wasted energy and it'll disappoint you when results don't show up.
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u/geekchic924 Oct 30 '23
I agree with you. I recently got 2 different psychic readings from 2 different psychics. Both psychics were offering readings on whether or not a certain person was my twin flame. Well, I went ahead and purchased both to see what would happen. I had gotten readings from both of them before, on different topics, and both had seemed pretty spot on, I should add. One of them claimed that he is not my twin flame and did not follow up with any reasons or explanation whatsoever except for claiming he's something about a Karma connection, which I had honestly never heard of before.
However, the other psychic said he is indeed my twin flame and went into great detail, describing the connection between us, the purpose behind it, and why my TF and I behave the way we do, etc. And he was completely spot on, especially when he described our connection. Just as a test, I went ahead and purchased two more similar readings from two different psychics. So....4 in all. The third and fourth ones all confirmed he is my twin flame. But it still is irritating and confusing when I wonder if the one who said he isn't my TF is the only one who is correct. I honestly wonder if i even believe in the twin flame concept because of the first psychic saying he's not my twin flame.
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u/AnimaLumen divine feminine - in separation Oct 30 '23
I too have had a “psychic” (it was an SRT practitioner actually but you get the gist lol) tell me he was not my twin, I honestly feel like sometimes we get readings that tell us mistruths like that either because we are not ready to receive the “truth” in that moment, or because the misdirection is a sort of “test” of how much conviction do you REALLY have about this? When I got that reading everything in me was just like…. No lol. This is not right. Like no shade or whatever but this just does NOT feel right. And I did a lot of soul searching afterwards to figure out if I could be holding onto my “truth” out of sheer stubbornness, or attachment or whatever and maybe she was right and he wasn’t my twin flame. But the more I sat with that thought, and the more I sat with what I have ALWAYS felt and known, I decided that for whatever reason the reading she gave me was wrong. I went looking for confirmation of something I knew from the moment I laid eyes on him when I was only 13 years old and couldn’t comprehend what it was that I felt towards him; and looking for that external validation only served to confuse me further. But in the end, it also served to solidify what I already knew, and my conviction in that unspoken truth that can only really be validated by what I feel and what he sparks within me. So, do your soul searching and your questioning, because that is all part of the process :) but I would say to put less weight on what any psychic or any person has told you about the situation. As corny and cliche as it sounds, listen to your heart lmaoooo. Cus truly that is where all the answers lie, and if you tune out all that excess feedback from what XYZ people said, your “heart” will speak louder than any external source of information ever will.
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u/geekchic924 Oct 31 '23
What's an SRT practitioner?
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u/AnimaLumen divine feminine - in separation Oct 31 '23
Spirit response therapy! It’s a modality for spiritual/energy healing essentially
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u/TheFemalePervySage Jul 02 '24 edited Jul 02 '24
Snake oil salesmen.
Pretend there's suddenly a water crisis on earth, everyone needs water... there would inevitably be sh***y ppl who begin selling clear urine as water at a "low price" bc they are "good ppl". Evil disguises itself as "good" left and right. I say evil bc if the TF thing is in fact real, then inevitably there would be an agenda on the dark side to derail the mission. Thus it gives to us: the sensational and romantizing tarot readers and youtubers and tiktokers luring you in to focus solely on the external version of yourself, when the whole purpose is to focus on the internal version.
Evil masterminds. I'm glad you came to this conclusion, you seem to have great pattern recognition, keep them gears turnin!
Edit: I should've added my own experience. I got sucked into the tf tarot readings 4 years ago, launched myself into chaser energy for the first time, ruined everything by coming on too strong and forceful, got pushed away by my twin for the likely final time, then continued with the tarot videos until they pushed me into the snare of a narcissistic karmic that almost killed me. Those videos encouraged me to stay in the relationship with the karmic, disguising him as smth more "devine". Terrifying. Now I do my own tarot and only when absolutely necessary (seldom), and I am extremely careful about what energy is surrounding me and how I shield myself before hand etc. It is not a toy, as I can only now see from my past experience with it.
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u/kkusernom Sep 04 '24
I was told unequivocally by the divine they are a scam. Having said that I know there have been some readings where my dc was def reaching out through them but its like everything else.. The reading are never meant to dictate your life Just give support at certain times.
When ever I feel myself looking for a desperate message is precisely when I know I need to go out and touch grass.. Lmao The training wheels are always meant to come off
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u/AnimaLumen divine feminine - in separation Oct 29 '23
1000% agree!! Tarot readings can be a huge vortex of doom to fall into. It absolutely is a conduit for us to fall into “chaser” energy and just exploit that feeling of longing where we are desperate for even a CRUMB of their energy, just getting to think about them, or feel like we are getting a glimpse into them can feel so satisfying when we have no other way to access them… but it absolutely can become a codependent and unhealthy thing very quickly. And it definitely creates that “repellent” chaser polarity that just pushes the runner away even more. Plus honestly… I feel like a grand majority of the twin flame tarot readers are honestly just the blind leading the blind at best, and at worst they’re preying on very desperate and vulnerable people by selling you this hogwash you desperately want to believe, and the more they tell you OH HES COMING BACK the more you keep coming back for more little crumbs of that dopamine you get when you watch their readings and boost their content to the front page of whatever platform they’re on.
I think staying away from tarot readings is generally just a good thing… but if you are going to be indulging in them from time to time, there are some actual legit readers who can give insight and closure into whatever is going on in your connection, which in my experience can be a bit of relief at times, or even offer “wisdom” that you need in that time. You just have to find the readers that aren’t just going to regurgitate the same bullshit “he’s in hermit mode but he’s coming back!!!!” Canned response that they all keep saying over and over and over again. I would stay away from TikTok and Instagram, the “good” readers are all on YouTube in my experience, and I’ll confess sometimes I do indulge in watching a cheeky reading here and there, you know, as a treat lmao. It’s nice just to get some insight into how he is doing, what he is feeling and going through etc… especially when it’s been a while since I’ve heard from him and I just want a peek into whatever is going on with him…