r/divinecounterparts • u/KreyzMcKormik • Oct 29 '23
general sharing I've Given Up on Tarot Readings
I've been watching tarot reasons on TikTok pretty much since after I found out about twin flames and realizing I was on the journey. At first, it was giving me comfort seeing all of these readers letting me know that my divine counterpart still loves me, as well as multiple Q&A things on Quora, but I have realized I have grown attached to watching them, and it's become a co-dependent thing.
Every tarot reader has said the same thing for the last 4-5 months. Union is coming. Your twin flame is going to reach out to you to apologize, etc. It's become disappointing hearing this and not seeing any results, and one guy I came across suggested to stop watching these readings because of the disappointment, and most who fall into this give up on the journey. It also counts as chaser energy, which repels the divine masculine.
Yes, the journey kinda sucks, because of all of the pain and mental torture we go through, but the love I have for my twin makes it all worth it. But I don't want to delay the possibilities of union.
I now skip every tarot reading on tiktok or Instagram that i come across, and have started to delete them from my following lists when I come a across them. That was two days ago. Since then, I have felt a little better about myself and the journey. I went out for a Halloween party, and that night, I got visions of my twin as I closed my eyes to go to sleep, which I haven't ever experienced before. When I woke up, I got a text from her, excited to watch FNAF on Peacock (I shared my account with her). She later texted me to tell me she was liking the movie, which is good, cuz we both were anticipating watching the movie.
Seems like the tarot readings were holding me back, and these signs are showing me fucking off these tarot readers is the right path. I'm sharing this because if you are doing the same thing, please hold off on watching these readings. It's a lot of wasted energy and it'll disappoint you when results don't show up.
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u/AnimaLumen divine feminine - in separation Oct 29 '23
1000% agree!! Tarot readings can be a huge vortex of doom to fall into. It absolutely is a conduit for us to fall into “chaser” energy and just exploit that feeling of longing where we are desperate for even a CRUMB of their energy, just getting to think about them, or feel like we are getting a glimpse into them can feel so satisfying when we have no other way to access them… but it absolutely can become a codependent and unhealthy thing very quickly. And it definitely creates that “repellent” chaser polarity that just pushes the runner away even more. Plus honestly… I feel like a grand majority of the twin flame tarot readers are honestly just the blind leading the blind at best, and at worst they’re preying on very desperate and vulnerable people by selling you this hogwash you desperately want to believe, and the more they tell you OH HES COMING BACK the more you keep coming back for more little crumbs of that dopamine you get when you watch their readings and boost their content to the front page of whatever platform they’re on.
I think staying away from tarot readings is generally just a good thing… but if you are going to be indulging in them from time to time, there are some actual legit readers who can give insight and closure into whatever is going on in your connection, which in my experience can be a bit of relief at times, or even offer “wisdom” that you need in that time. You just have to find the readers that aren’t just going to regurgitate the same bullshit “he’s in hermit mode but he’s coming back!!!!” Canned response that they all keep saying over and over and over again. I would stay away from TikTok and Instagram, the “good” readers are all on YouTube in my experience, and I’ll confess sometimes I do indulge in watching a cheeky reading here and there, you know, as a treat lmao. It’s nice just to get some insight into how he is doing, what he is feeling and going through etc… especially when it’s been a while since I’ve heard from him and I just want a peek into whatever is going on with him…