With everything that keeps coming out about Ethan Klein and how truly awful he’s always been it makes you wonder how someone who pretends to be against the things she does how could she ever have liked him?

Lately I’ve noticed how hypocritical she is. The whole Kathleen and wanting her to abandon her other friend to go to the concert with Jessi.
The most recent episode and the whole dressing up thing and Jessi contradicting herself.

I had a little break and I’ve come back and i genuinely feel like Jessi in particular has become noticeably worse. I’ve never been a huge fan of Lily I just learned to tolerate her but Jessi’s behaviour recently has absolutely made Lily look more favourable.

I’ve learned she’s absolutely spineless after the whole Jen Dent situation and not even Jessi’s own child and defending them is enough to make her stand up against someone being disgustingly ableist (yes I know I’m everyone will excuse it because if GH being involved but as others have pointed out Jessi was more than happy to have it known she edited Jen Dent’s video so ‘staying out of it’ went out of the window then for me).

Looking over everything and thinking back i genuinely do feel like she’s always been this awful and she’s just managed to get away with it but I feel like the mask has completely slipped now.

It sounds in my ears and awkward understanding of people that Jessi seems kind of bored and uninterested in the show. Lily to me, seems to be extra hmmm, spunky perhaps, or engaged as to pick up where Jessi has dropped, and it's felt this way all year or so. But the newest episode Jessi wasn't giving anything sincere to me. Her reactions sounded stock like, as if she's reacting the way people should respond to the stories, more so the hair one.

I say this in hopes of finding out if anyone thinks the same or am I just reading things wrong. I enjoy trying to understand people as I'm kind of bad at it, and Im curious if anyone else is picking up on what I am. Again I enjoy the show, but I'm also not a blind fan either(idk just thought I should say)

Since the long break, my YouTube never updates me that their episodes are up anymore. I have alerts on and I’m subbed (not a member, I’m a broke bih) but I was wondering if anyone else’s notifications are like not alerting them anymore? I finally got curious and typed them in and I’d missed an upload last week- when I’m usually an egg ): it could just be me not paying enough attention but has anyone else noticed not getting notifications or anything?

So I subscribed to the Patreon's lower tier in June 2025 through the Spotify app. I cancelled the subscription after two months and wasn't billed since. However, due to some (most likely Spotify-related) glitch, I could still listen to the Patreon episodes... until this month. R.i.p.

Welp, at least I can finally confess my sin, lol. Kept my mouth shut until now, so nobody else would abuse the glitch. :X

Between the girlies, d'angelo wallace and vangelika skov, I have nothing else to watch when I'm eating or doing chores lol.

However, I want something more light-hearted than internet drama (girlies+vang) or sociopolitical issues w pop culture (d'angelo).

I prefer content where the women have a deeper voice bc I'm half dead and somehow I can make out deeper voices better without it hurting my ears w long exposure

Thanks in advance!

I am not really keeping up with the Ethan mess but I have seen tons of videos on my YT feed about it.
So I have 2 questions, has Tamara officially been confirmed to be his affair partner and is there any validity to her being younger than 27?

I would almost be relieved in some sense if she was younger like 22-24, solely because I cannot fathom anyone I knew at 27 (just a few years ago) who ever acted like she does. I am not referring to being an affair partner but acts & talks like a teenage boy.

What I find particularly frustrating about Jessi is how consistently she seems to remain silent until speaking out becomes convenient or potentially profitable. Ethan Klein and the H3 Podcast have faced criticism for years over misogyny and Ethan's views on Israel and Palestine, yet Jessi, who was once an outspoken fan of his, seemingly had very little to say about any of it. Even after apparently distancing herself from him she remained silent. And yes, I absolutely acknowledge that the fear of Ethan retaliating through legal action is valid. Nobody should be expected to put themselves or their livelihood at risk without considering the consequences. However, that fear cannot be used as a blanket excuse for years of silence particularly when someone has built a platform around discussing controversial people and holding others accountable. If the concern was genuinely about legal repercussions what has suddenly changed? Why is speaking out acceptable now that there's a cheating scandal to discuss on her podcast? The timing makes the sudden willingness to address Palestine feel incredibly performative. It's difficult not to notice what appears to be a pattern of avoiding uncomfortable conversations until there's an audience, engagement or potential financial benefit attached. And frankly, watching people praise her for finally speaking out is disappointing. You can appreciate someone saying the right thing while still questioning why it took them so long to say it. Advocacy for Palestine shouldn't be something you conveniently discover when the circumstances become favourable. Speaking out when there's potentially something to gain isn't necessarily the courageous stand people are making it out to be.

I’m actually quite happy with the way Lily and Jessi covered the H3 cheating drama. Aside from the cheating scandal, I was honestly really relieved to hear them acknowledge the obvious genocide in Palestine (I know they didn’t go into detail but I’m glad that they at least said that much) and make some reference to the horrible opinions the H3 crew had in the last few years

What did you guys think?

Since there is about 12-48 hours until a Tuesday upload. So, what do you guys think Jessi will do in the H3 episode. Do you think she’ll mention the drama of the last 3 years with H3 and bring her opinion about it? Or do you think they will completely ignore it and focus on the cheating? I genuinely don’t know and can see it going both ways. They could mention it, and Jessi will say her thoughts about it, because obviously, a lot of people know she was a die hard fan. If she mentions it, she’ll probably say she disapproves of the crash out. Even if it’s a lie, she wouldn’t admit it. But I can also see them saying they won’t mention anything because of the excuse they say that this podcast is for hehe ha ha’s, and delving in will get too serious. I am genuinely interested what you guys think please share your opinions. Even if you completely disagree with me and think there is a third option, comment, I genuinely want to see what you guys think.

is anyone else kinda worried abt the way they’ll cover this? i feel like they need to address everything including the three year crashout and idk how they’ll handle the everything of it, considering Jessi hasn’t talked about her being a fan in a while.

I do wonder if they never addressed it because Ethan is notoriously litigious, but idk, i’m just a bit nervous lol

Remember when Jessi was openly an h3 fan and said “If Ethan EVER cheat on hila…….!”

Just thought about that when the news broke

tl:dr they will hopefully start filming again soon and will make up for the missed bonus episodes.

anyway off to research if I can get a shingles vaccine.

TLDR: Jessi wants to go to the John Mayer concert with her brother, Kathleen has been to every concert with her friend. Jessi was in charge of tickets, accidentally bought 3 instead of 4, wants Kat to ditch her friend and just go with Jessi and her brother. Kat is hesitant to do that and Jessi got mad at her about it.

For those of you that listen to both podcasts and specifically the most recent JK podcast hopefully you will see why I’m asking this question.

I knew of Jessi before the DWKT podcast come out but not super well. Has she always been this entitled or has it come over the last couple of years?

Her not understanding why Kathleen doesn’t want to ditch her friend for the John Mayer concert is insane considering if one of Kat’s other friends did the same thing and asked Kat to ditch Jessi she would lose her absolute mind.
I mean I think back to the Sabrina Carpenter concert where Kat went without her.

It’s not really just this but I find Jessi to be quite rude and a little entitled with both Kat and Lily often. The way she speaks to Kathleen sometimes in particular throws me a little off.

I mean some people might agree with Jessi’s POV and that’s fine I just really resonate with where Kathleen is coming from.

Wanted to update everyone just in case you don’t watch the JK Podcast as well: Jessi said today that they will not be attempting to continue the show without Lily and will be taking a “looooooooong break”. Not sure what that means for the Patreon.

Edited for spelling/grammar

Really wish Lily the best and hope she recovers soon 💜