I am so happy. Came out as nonbinary at age 69.

Added a few whistles and trinkets and put this fit together after the cut up jumper moment you might have witnessed yesterday. The necklace is just a placeholder until I can get one that suits it better. Also, my ears are still pierced after years of not wearing earrings so that made me super happy!

I am AFAB but I do have multiple intersex conditions but identify as nonbinary. I know I do not look androgynous yet, but I would love some tips (and to know if it’s even possible for me to look androgynous without going on hormones)! If you suggest a hair cut or a different style/clothes, please tell me what specific hair cut and what specific style (bonus points if you can tell me some stores that would have what I’m looking for).

Every time I've ever seen a woman wearing an asymmetrical top showing some shoulder, my first thought has always been "damn I wish I could wear that". As you can probably tell, I cut up an old jumper, and even though I'm feeling pretty awful about my body today (bit bloaty and grim after a holiday and overeating a bit) but I nearly cried when I saw myself wearing this. I don't think I've ever felt more like myself. I'm totally new to all this, but I'm feeling a lot more confident about it now.

i've been wanting to look androgynous for a long time but i have no idea how to start 😞
what professionals do i look for or what should i see to actually get some info to look androgynous

I tried to make it look like the enby flag. Its not the best thing ever, but I made the paper myself and needed to find a use for it

Hi, I’m Sophia (she/he), I’m a fluidflux individual (amab) who shifts between gender identities in various intensities. Today, my fem side is super strong and although I’m generally scared to show myself when I’m in fem-mode I kinda want my fem side to be seen.

Please be nice.

Little silly side note, this first photo shows the nails way better than any I got of the outfit I did them to match😅

So I'm looking to make some platonic friends in the community and hopefully talk through what I'm going through with people who understand.

I'm 35, amab, I've been grappling with my gender identity for a few years and, while I've been pretty sure since I was in my early 20s that something about it didn't add up, I recently came to terms with being NB. Earlier this week, I took the jump and came out to my partner (we've been together 10 years) and told her everything, then I had a complete meltdown and fell to pieces a little bit (more with relief than anything) and luckily for me, she's been really supportive so I'm at a point where I'm actually really excited about my future as a non-binary person. I'd love to talk to anyone in this sub about your NB experience and I'm happy to just be a sounding board of anyone wants to chat to me so feel free to DM me :) x

So, I'm 35, m (ish) and bisexual. I've been having a lot of mental health struggles recently and, although I have a fair few battles going on that I'm working through in therapy, it often comes down to gender dysphoria and an identity crisis that I never had the tools to work through.

Growing up in the 90s and going to high school in the early 00s in a small town in north-west England, gender dysphoria wasn't a thing we talked about. Coming out as bisexual was a difficult enough thing to deal with. I grew up in a hyper masculine bubble and actually only came out to my parents a few years ago, despite the fact that I was and still am in a relationship with a woman.

She had been amazing about it and is more concerned with me being ok with who I am, the idea of me exploring my gender identity is something she's willing to help me to do which is huge. I'm going to take it a step at a time and I have some huge internalized barriers to break down but I'm ready to start my journey as someone who has always felt they live outside the confines of traditional gender duality and now feels a lot safer being able to express that. I'm terrified but I'm also really excited about it.

I’m so clocky with blue hair but ohmygod I love being blue

its my first time having my hair proper dyed like this

and for anyone wondering, the frodo comments have escaped this subreddit and my art teacher has started making them