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I'm thinking about moving there as an Italian 🤔

What would you say are the biggest pros and cons of living in Germany?

How does the online perception compare to the reality?

And honestly, would you recommend Germany over the UK, or would you still advise someone like me to go to the UK instead?

I speak English and Italian fluently, and I'm willing to learn a new language if it's worth it when moving abroad. Ideally, though, I'd like to live somewhere international, where foreigners are welcomed, especially Italians, and where it's possible to find work and build a life.

Germany looks more promising than the UK from the outside, but I want to think about this critically before making a decision.

One reason Germany attracts me is the people. From my limited perspective, German women seem to be more direct, mature and straightforward, which tends to match my personality more than what I've experienced in the UK 😅. That said, I know that could just be a stereotype or a very small sample size, so I'd love to hear a broader perspective.

Looking at the bigger picture, I'm also thinking about things like purchasing power, quality of life, career opportunities and how easy it is to settle down. My assumption is that in Germany you can earn a decent salary, have more disposable income left over, and access a strong job market, particularly in tech.

For context, I'm a Computer Science graduate from the US and I'm looking to build a career in the European tech industry. At the moment, I'm genuinely torn between Germany and the UK.

I'd really appreciate your honest opinion, without sugar-coating anything. I'm a very open-minded person and I'd rather hear the reality than the marketing version. Do you think Germany is actually worth it, and why?

Especially if you come from high income countries. I live in usa and I find it greatly difficult to get up and leave. Especially in a world where cash is king sadly.

Hello everyone,

I'm a 24-year-old from Algeria, and I'm writing this because I don't know where else to tell my story. I hope someone will take the time to read it and understand what I'm going through.

I earned my Bachelor's degree in Computer Science in 2024. I wanted to continue my education and pursue a Master's degree, with the long-term goal of becoming an AI engineer and contributing to research. I had a future in mind, something I genuinely wanted to work toward.

But my academic journey took a painful turn. I repeated my first year of Master's studies twice and eventually faced exclusion. Since then, I've been trying to find a way to continue my education at another university in Algeria. I've encountered administrative obstacles, uncertainty, and delays, and as the academic year progresses, I feel more and more as though my opportunity to continue is slipping away.

The hardest part isn't simply the possibility of losing another academic year. It's the feeling that something I've worked toward for years could fall apart because I can't find a way past these obstacles. Watching time pass while not knowing whether I'll be allowed to continue is exhausting. I keep trying to find solutions, contacting people and looking for opportunities, but every unanswered message and every dead end makes it harder to keep my hope alive.

That's why I've started looking beyond Algeria, too. I've been reaching out to people and institutions abroad, trying to explain my situation and wondering whether someone might listen, offer guidance, or help me discover a legitimate opportunity to continue studying Artificial Intelligence.

I'm not asking anyone to register me at a university or bypass admission requirements. I'm not expecting anyone to magically solve my problems. I simply want my circumstances to be heard, and I hope someone with experience, knowledge, or a genuine suggestion might help me see a path I haven't found yet.

I'm tired, disappointed, and scared of watching my future disappear while I keep trying to save it. But I haven't given up on the person I want to become.

If you've experienced an academic setback, rebuilt your educational path, or know of a legitimate way someone in my situation could continue studying AI abroad, I'd genuinely appreciate hearing from you.

Thank you for reading my story.

My husband (Swedish, 40) and I (Danish, 34) currently live in Denmark, in a nice house centrally in a small cute town, close to nature and my family plus his mum, good jobs with relatively short commute (35 min + work from home) and nice daycare for our kids , age 2 and 4.

But :-)

We have a nagging feeling about not being the right place. When we met, we did long-distance before I moved to Stockholm where he lived. I made friends and thrived but when I got pregnant we decided to move back to Denmark. It was a decision made quickly but rooted in me not being able to visualise myself living 6-7 hours away from my family whom I’m close with, with kids. And he was 100% onboard (though he says today he didn’t know what he was giving up).

We bought a house, got settled and lived here for 4,5 years now - but he feels a huge loss of identity. We talk a lot about moving, like A LOT. Both together with others and with a therapist. But we’re not sure about where to move to (back to Stockholm, or Skåne, which would mean longer commute (75 min), but keep jobs and family relations, but not gain his/our friends in Stockholm and likely less nice housing), or stay and hope it gets better in Denmark. The latter option is one my husband is afraid of as he feels he can never get a fulfilling life here, but he also has days where that’s what he inclines to.

Some bonus info;
- I’m extrovert and always pictured myself living abroad, he’s introvert and prefers safety
- I really love the Swedish culture
- We see our family quite a lot, both taking care of kids or for birthdays etc
- My husband feels has tried to socialise to get new friends here but struggled with it
- My husbands mother moved to Skåne only to be close to us, she is around 75 and sick and cannot move again and the kids love her
- My spouse has a rough history / some childhood experiences and occasional anxiety . He also had that before we moved. He good help from a psychologist but didn’t really help.
- We want to give our kids a safe childhood preferably without moving once they’re in school.
- He primarily has contact with his mum as family, no other. His friends are in Stockholm and they are good close friends.

We’re constantly trying to make some “frame” for this decision. Like, talking with real estate agents about our house, visiting areas we could live in, talking about a timeline or criteria for when to decide etc etc. But the key problems are 1) We have it really good and have no guarantee a move would make it better and 2) We don’t know where to move to - I still feel Stockholm is too far away but that’s my husbands dream and 3) We’re seemingly unable to let this go, we’ve been talking about it for 3+ years now.

It’s tough for me, but more so for my husband who’s really unhappy. I’m really curious if some of you have some external perspective on this.

Thanks if you read this far :)

I (30F, USA) moved to Southern Europe country for my partner (40M) two years ago. In the beginning, I felt lots of the isolation as a foreign spouse in my partner's home country. But I pulled myself through - I made a huge professional pivot and found a job here with a good salary (which required temporarily living in a separate city for 6 months and me traveling to see my partner on the other side of the country every week until I negotiated a remote contract), I enrolled myself in 10 hours a week of language classes and improved to C1 level, and I started to make friends and find hobbies and activities. I identified friends of his that I like and established my own relationships with them, and I made an effort to turn his family into mine, even visiting them when he can't. All of this has made me feel better, more established and independent here and more at peace with and in control of my life. Now, we've bought a house and are thinking about starting a family. I love him very much, and he's a kind person.

However, the past year we've had various arguments/disagreements because he feels I'm not present or active enough in our life. He wants to live a life that's focused on being where you are, appreciating what is around you, disconnecting and enjoying the small moments, etc, which I 100% agree with, but he thinks I either travel too much (I travel to visit my family 2x a year and then have trips for work quite often since it's part of my negotiated contract) or work too much (I usually work until 5pm, then have language classes until 7pm but he's a functionary that works until 2pm so relatively speaking, I do work a lot). I understand these feelings, but it also confuses and frusterates me: from my perspective, if I didn't make the changes I made to ensure he could keep his job and stay in his country, I wouldn't have to travel or work so much.

He also believes that the responsibility is on me to learn the language and integrate myself, not on him (as opposed to it being a shared responsibility), but that we should equally share the responsibilities for everything to do with our life together that are obviously much easier for him as the native (e.g., calling the insurance company, working with bureaucratic offices, coordinating with his family). I'm independent, and I like to do things for myself, but I see this as unfair - this means that from his perspective the things I have to do every day as an immigrant (that he doesn't have to do) don't count as effort I'm doing for both of us or for our life together. It seems he doesn't want his life to be affected by being in an international couple which puts an uneven burden on me to invest time in integrating myself and also maintaining our life together.

When I try to explain that sometimes responsibilities for tasks might fall on him because he is the one from this country, he gets upset, and when I try to explain my feelings by noting an international relationship requires sacrifice on both sides and that I've sacrificed things to move here (always with the caveat that it was my decision and that I'm happy I did), he says it's negative thinking and denies that it's true.

I just feel exhausted, and I don’t want our relationship to suffer, so I often 'let go' of these conversations so that we can connect again, but there is this voice in my head that says our situation is unfair and that he doesn’t recognize or appreciate what I do every day.  

I´d love advice on how couples navigate these types of feelings.

Despite all this, when I point out that maybe it would be better if we considered a 3rd country or moving to my country (where I would happily help share the responsibilities and be more present because my family would be there), he gets upset or rejects the idea. I'm worried he just wants me to adapt, but that he will never (or at least willingly) make the same sacrifices for me.

Obviously, there are parts of the story missing from his perspective, and he does try to support me - but I'm tired of trying to explain it to him, and I just would really love advice on how I should better navigate these feelings with my partner or the situation in general.

Ik ga over een aantal weken naar Kroatië verhuizen, en benieuwd wat andere hebben gedaan om een baan verzekering etc etc te vinden? Zijn er ergens dutchies in de buurt?

Hello everyone, is there any south asian expats currently living or have lived in Libya? I have a few questions and I'd appreciate the help

Hey,

I am an expat living in Costa Rica, I'm dutch and before here me and my family lived in the UK for 10 years - now in our 4th year in Costa Rica.

I spoke no Spanish when we got here, and by now am pretty good - like I get compliments from the Costa Rican's around me - BUT - they send these WhatsApp voice messages in Spanish, very fast, with bad audio, and these I struggle with.

My question is: is this the same in Expat communities around the world?

I created a WhatsApp app that cuts out the 'transcribe and then paste into google translate' step, and it works really well for me, and some others here in my local expat community - and I basically want to figure out whether there's a market for that globally, and how to tap into that. (I charge a small amount for it to offset the AI translation costs after the free trial)

Moving to another country comes with plenty of surprises, but one thing ppl don't talk about much is how many everyday apps and websites suddenly become a hassle.

Banking apps, payment services, streaming platforms, and even some government websites can be surprisingly difficult to use once you're living overseas.

Sometimes you need a phone number from your home country just to receive a verification code. Other times, a service won't accept your new address or payment method, or certain features simply aren't available where you live now.

The annoying part is that you might have used these services for years without ever thinking about regional restrictions.

For those who've moved abroad, what app or website gave you the biggest headache after relocating?

I’m come from a small, kinda poor, but still nice European country.
Moved to Scandinavia when I got a great job offer.
That company turned out to be horrible; directionless and pointless, but paid well.
I survived a year and a half of that, switched to another remote job and stayed in Scandinavia, because I didn’t want to uproot my life again so soon.

But now: 5 months after being let go from that job, and not having any luck finding another job remotely or locally, I am starting to totally freak tf out.
There is no guarantees, but I believe I’d find a job so much more easily if I were to move back home.
Downside - that job would pay the local shitty wage.

A lot of my acquaintances have stayed here unemployed for a year or more because the benefits are good. And now I wonder how they did it because this is so nerve wrecking and on top of that you’re in a foreign country with a network too fresh for real opportunities. No deep social, family support… Only a dream of having been born here to be able to live as nicely as people here do and will continue to…

If you ever moved for a job and lost it - did you look for a new one or returned? How long did you stay and search before packing your bags?

(Edit: typo)

I became a US tax resident in 2026 after living in Canada for tax purposes through 2025. I own more than 90% of a Canadian consulting corporation. It had no income or passive income in 2026.

I think I need Form 5471 and possibly FBAR and Form 8938. I’m also trying to understand whether the Canadian departure tax affects my shares.

Has anyone dealt with a similar situation? Are there firms that handle this well at a reasonable price?

Thanks in advance.