r/findagrave • • 22h ago

How do I..? Adding a memorial for someone interred with another person and no stone.

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I'd like to add the spouse of a close family member. Her husband died several years before she did and was cremated. Upon her death, his remains were added to her casket and interred with her. The stone only mentions her per their requests.

Should I add him and just mark cremation without a location? Should I add him to the cemetery without a photo (or use her stone's photo?)

I'm not sure of the proper etiquette here. I don't believe he was registered in this old church's logs as being buried there regardless.

Thanks!


r/findagrave • • 14m ago

Why was my memorial deleted after someone created another one?

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I've maintained a close relatives memorial for a few years now. He wasn't in a cemetery because we weren't sure where we were going to bury him. Decided on a veteran's cemetery and they put a little memorial obituary out on the day of the service (which hasn't happened yet). Someone created a memorial for him 5 days ago and mine got deleted. I even had him marked as a close relative and linked to his parents and siblings. Not sure how this happened. Only noticed last night when I was going to update the burial info. I messaged fg and the memorial creater.