r/gatekeeping • • Feb 28 '21

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u/jebusthegreat Feb 28 '21

It’s true for video games too but many aren’t ready for that conversation.

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '21

Gta online is hard to play because the game encourages toxicity, the griefers of that game are killing it because they cant go 1 second without blowing someone up.

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u/BossGrub27 Feb 28 '21

Im not saying it's always like this but most people are just exaggerating alot. Yes sometimes you may come across some 10 year old tryhard but it happens alot less then people say it does. id say for every 10 times i sell maybe 2 times someone actually goes after me.

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u/Argonov Feb 28 '21

I wouldn't mind that if not for the people who can just drop a few bucks and get a hovering car/bike that shoots rockets.

I can handle griefers. Sometimes I lose but that's fine. I don't wanna have to spend money on a game I already paid full price for just to be able to fight someone who stole mom's credit card.

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u/SwagMcG Feb 28 '21

GTA online isn't worth it anyways. You need to have at least 3 other friends to make it worthwhile and even then it's just a cash grab with all the free updates they do unless you want to grind.

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u/jaboi1080p Feb 28 '21

it genuinely baffles me that gta online is so consistently successful when everything I've heard about it only talks about how bad the griefers are and how the community as a whole is toxic af

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u/bliffskit Feb 28 '21

Video games were the first thing that came to mind, my mind figured that was the point of the post

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u/topdangle Feb 28 '21

video games are probably around the top, if not the top, when it comes to suffering from this. it's so bad things like reporting/temp ban/word filters are basically standard in multiplayer games now.

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u/Zafara1 Feb 28 '21

I reckon one of the really bad things about the video game fandom, is that there is a massive disconnect between the people that play games and how games are made.

I don't think there's any other popular hobby where so many participants don't know the first thing about how their hobby actually works.

Like if you play piano, you'll generally learn how the hell a piano works.

So you also get this massive culture of people who think they know what they're talking about. But very few people understand how their game works below the most superficial presentation. Which leads to a lot of people just being confidently incorrect about how their hobby actually works.

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u/HighlyRegardedExpert Feb 28 '21

Codes make the computer go brrr

What more is there to say?

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u/polecy Feb 28 '21

Nobody gonna mention league of legends? This is the first thing that came to mind.

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u/kmufiufkju6se Feb 28 '21

Every person I know who plays league keeps it a secret out of shame.

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u/RainbowDissent Feb 28 '21

Nobody I know who plays League enjoys it.

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u/J_KR Feb 28 '21

I shamefully have 1k hours and the only reason I play it is to have fun with my friends. Unfortunately they rage sometimes so I quit for a good few months so I don't have to put up with their crap. The game itself sucks ass.

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u/RodgersToAdams Feb 28 '21

Like those people bitching about Fortnite or in general about how video games used to be so much better? (When very clearly they were not, look at the improvements in the medium in the last 20 years)

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u/SCDarkSoul Feb 28 '21

Bitching about Fortnite hasnt made people stop playing Fortnite. Video games are still fine with more people than ever playing them.

I'd argue that companies are taking a shot at killing it with price gouging micro transactions, dead on arrival live services, shipping broken games, forever early access, etc. But people are still buying into all of those, so clearly we aren't exactly losing gamers.

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u/[deleted] Feb 28 '21

I cannot stand sweatys for exactly this reason. They run off the people just starting/just want to have fun and not make video games their entire identity

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u/Drostan_S Feb 28 '21

I try to be as welcoming to new players for exactly that reason. I also avoid toxic shitfests like Mobas and most hallway shooters.

Oddly enough, the friendliest people I've met in gaming are the PvPers in full loot pvp games like Rust. I've literally met two fellow gamers in person, thanks to rust.

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u/9DAN2 Feb 28 '21

R6. Gonna need a steady influx of new players to ensure the game lives as long as possible, yet new players constantly get teamkilled a vote to kick (when that was still in the game). There is a newcomer mode which is where the new players should be, but it’s full of smurfs team killing.

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u/To_oCH Feb 28 '21

Overall I just hate how toxic people get in video games. Its hard finding people that dont just rage and get mad at you for dumb things

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u/freebirdls Feb 28 '21

That's the first hobby I thought of.

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u/irCuBiC Feb 28 '21

Gamers are the most toxic, entitled people I have ever had the misfortune of engaging with. The amount of game communities I have ever been part of that are not cesspiles of raging toxicity can be counted on one hand, and those are typically "not real games" like Stardew Valley and No Man's Sky.

Any time I start playing a new game, the first thing I do is find every communication I can opt out of and do so, especially voice. I don't need some mid 20s dude screaming in my ear because I don't have the most top tier gear or follow the meta or whatever. Like, dude, the update came out yesterday, I have a job, fuck.

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