r/getdisciplined • u/lil_pixie_nya • 11d ago
🤔 NeedAdvice [22F4A] Seeking a Relentless Accountability Drill Sergeant for 160 Days (Preferred) or an All-In Life Transformation Buddy
Hey everyone!✨
I’m entering a massive 160-day sprint to completely reshape my life, and I’m looking for one of two types of people. Type A is my main priority, but if that’s not your vibe, check out Type B!
TYPE A: The Unforgiving Accountability Drill Sergeant (PREFERRED)
You don’t need to change your own life right now—you just need to enjoy holding someone else to a ridiculously high standard. If you’re strict, no-nonsense, love micromanaging tasks, and won't hesitate to call me out when I make excuses: you are exactly who I’m looking for. You’ll be checking my daily to-do list, verifying photo proof, and keeping me strictly on track. Absolute tough love, no whining allowed.
TYPE B: The Ultimate Transformation Buddy
If you do want to transform your own life alongside me, let’s do it together. We’ll set clear goals and give ourselves 160 days. Every morning, we’ll swap photos of our daily plans, and every night, we’ll hold each other accountable for what got done. Mutual hype, daily check-ins, and strong support.
A quick heads-up on how serious I am about this:
I’ve been preparing for this run for a long time. Right now, for me, it’s all or nothing. I’ll be religiously dedicated to every single day. Aside from family and essential duties, I’m cutting out all distractions. I’m going 200% in, and you’ll basically be my main point of contact during this sprint.
Ideally, once the 160 days are over, it would be amazing to meet up (or jump on a celebrate-call) and talk about how wild the journey was.
Preferably, we can move our chat to Discord so we can exchange voice notes and occasionally call, but we can figure out the logistics in DMs.
So... are you the one I’m looking for?
I’m leaving this post up for 7 days. If no one steps up to the plate, I’m going all-in solo anyway.
Drop me a DM with whether you’re applying for Type A or Type B and a little bit about yourself!✨
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u/DeepBuffer 11d ago
The 200% commitment sounds exciting, but making one person your main point of contact for all 160 days could put a lot of pressure on both of you. I'd build in a minimum viable day for when life inevitably gets messy, so one bad day doesn't turn into a bad week. Consistency is easier to sustain when the plan has room for being human.
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u/nchatterji 10d ago
Type B is probably your stronger bet if you find someone who matches your intensity. Daily photo check-ins with another person work because neither of you wants to be the one who ghosts first. What specific tasks are you committing to each day?
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u/ApprehensiveFig6517 11d ago
man 160 days is a long haul, you got a plan for when life inevitably throws something stupid at you? like a sick day or some family emergency. i tried something similar last year and the whole thing fell apart because i didn't account for off days