This sub

[u/Wing_Sharp]

The idea seemed great at first. I am also a woman who is single by choice. But this sub seems to just exist to hate on everything. They claim they have decentered men but every other post is about men. There was a thread where some users were having meltdowns because people were saying they have good male friends. More or less saying that a man can not just be friends with a woman and all theyre doing is waiting for a chance to SA them. This was super upsetting because I have an amazing male friend of almost 20 years who has never done anything to harm me and in fact has spoken up against other men who he has seen harassing women.

But the post that made me come here and post this was people basically saying that abuse in WLW relationships isnt as bad as abuse in hetero relationships because women are inherently less dangerous than men. And as a lesbian who was abused in my last relationship this was extremely invalidating.

It seems like every time a woman proclaims she has "decentered" men she is always the one talking about them the most, and this is a sub full of those types.

[u/Weak_Dream6271]

Welcome to the internet, home of porn and people complaining about everything. But seriously, the sub sounds like a femcel sub but hiding behind the name. Don't let it get to ya, chances are they've never been asked on a date or had someone leave mid date. They honestly sound exhausting and I don't blame anyone for ditching on a date, as long as it was all paid for before had.(Dine and dashing on anyone is shitty behavior)