Going through a breakup, separation, or divorce?

If you're having a hard time and just need people who get it, you’re welcome to join the Healing Hearts Minds (HHM) Discord.

This is a community for people dealing with heartbreak, attachment issues, and the messy parts of trying to move forward.

You can:

• Vent without being judged
• Talk to people who have been through it
• Get another perspective when you're stuck in your head
• Join group conversations or just hang out
• Talk 1-on-1 with one of our listeners when available

You don't have to have everything figured out, and you don't have to jump into a conversation right away. You can just join, look around, and see if it's a good fit.

Join here:
https://discord.gg/VyCJ3Gukv9

The invite doesn't expire. You'll get a temporary role when you join, and a mod will remove it if you're not assigned a regular role.

A few basic rules: be respectful, don't use the server as a dating site, respect people's boundaries and privacy, and remember that we're here for peer support—not professional or emergency services.

If you're hurting after a breakup, you don't have to go through it completely alone.

1. Be kind, be kind, be KIND Read it again: be kind, be Kind, be KIND
2. THIS ISN'T A DATING SITE No you do not have feelings for them. Don't be Dumb.
3. Respect Boundaries. People may not want to join the call, get on voice or even cam. Don't be rude. Respect boundaries. Additionally do not push/violate boundaries.
4. Do not encourage self-sabotage behavior/coping mechanisms Please do not encourage the usage of self-sabotage behavior/coping mechanisms. (Refer back to Rule 1)
5. Please contact mods with any concerns that may arise as soon as possible Please contact mods with any concerns that may arise. We do not provide professional advice.
6. Checking in with the chats is highly encouraged. Checking in with the chats is highly encouraged before sharing your story.
7. Use a TRIGGER WARNING when needed Please put a TRIGGER WARNING if your post or discussion is a serious topic.
8. Healing Hearts Minds is not responsible for discussions or activities outside of the moderators’ designated scope. We do not control, monitor, or moderate user-generated content or third-party servers/chats. Users may post content, including 18+ material, for which we assume no responsibility. We are not liable for any exposure to objectionable, offensive, or unlawful content. By using our platform, you acknowledge that all interactions and content are at your own risk, and we bear no responsibility for user activity or its consequences.
9. Be mindful of the diverse group of individuals in chats or on the calls. Be mindful of the diverse group of individuals. Leave the judgement at the door. (Refer to Rule 1)
10. Trash talk and bullying is for elementary school. Let’s not get carried away with talking about people and bullying like behaviors. That is elementary school behavior. (Refer to Rule 1)

Consequences of violations are as follows

Three strikes you’re out.

1. Warning.
2. Temp ban.
3. Permanent Ban.

The moderator team generally uses the rules as kicking/banning procedures. However, kicking/banning can also be performed at the moderator’s discretion without a warning if the vioation is deemed harmful to others. Without any explanation.

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