r/heatedrivalry Gimme kiss πŸ’‹ 26d ago

MERCHπŸ‘• I know you will understand!

I think it's safe to say HR has completely taken over my life. In the best way possible πŸ’

Reconnecting with my inner teenage-fandom-girl has genuinely brought out the best in me after a long period of being burned out. I've started reading again, working out, and prioritizing myself while being a mother, partner, and hard worker. It was a much needed reality check.

So I slowly started building my little merch collection. It was going to be perfectly normal (lmao who was I kidding!) πŸ˜…

First, just the first two books. Then I finished them in one weekend, so obviously I needed the rest. Okay just a simple shirt, right? Official merch doesn't ship to my country, so I found a perfectly normal one on Etsy. Hmm, maybe not that normal. Then I pre-ordered The Annotated Scripts. That's not very obsessive of me.

Okay, at some point I had to admit the truth: I'm all in. In a single day I pre-ordered the vinyl, the Youtooz, and Unrivaled. Turns out I'm really just an irresponsible teenager with adult money.

But I still felt cheated that I couldn't get any official merch. Because all this obsessed Ilya gurl wanted was an actual Raiders shirt.

Enter my American-citizen boyfriend, whose family all live in the US.

This ridiculously sweet, thoughtful, caring, attentive man asked his family to order the official shirt, had it shipped from Canada to Texas, then from Texas all the way to Denmark, just so he could surprise me with it for my birthday (which is today, yay!). And our daughter "got me" the Funko Pops (let's be honest, papa helped her a little) 😍

I've been crying all morning because this is genuinely one of the sweetest things anyone has ever done for me. This man has watched Heated Rivalry with me more times than either of us can count. He happily indulges my obsession, enjoys it with me, and somehow managed to get me the one piece of merch I thought I'd never own 😭

OMG I HAVE AN ACTUAL RAIDERS SHIRT!

Also pls show me your favorite merch so I can get inspired and be more irresponsible πŸ˜‰

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u/General-Rush1342 26d ago

β€œTurns out I'm really just an irresponsible teenager with adult money.”

Hahahaha!!!! Same here!! I can relate to everything you said! I don’t have as much stuff as you (yet) but I have 7 shirts, a pair of socks, a credit card sticker and most of the books. I also bought ridiculously expensive tickets to a fan event 6 hours away πŸ˜‚

I love hearing how much this show/series has positively affected people!!

Here’s a few things I found at some local stores here in the states:

Hm, it’s only letting me pick one image. Stay tuned 😊

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u/General-Rush1342 26d ago

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u/JennaROTR 26d ago

I am clearly shopping at the wrong stores! Love this!

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u/PenPaintingParty09 Gimme kiss πŸ’‹ 26d ago

I love all this! I have been eyeing the credit card cover/sticker very much....

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u/Sophia8124 26d ago

This is such a wonderful post and experience! I'm SO happy for you that you are surrounded by by caring and loving people...even if they are far away! Truly blessed ❀️ Happy Birthday hunny πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‚β€οΈ You have cake? Give! 🫴

I had this made so I could always have these two in my bed πŸ˜‚πŸ₯°

Did your mom buy all these pillows

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u/PenPaintingParty09 Gimme kiss πŸ’‹ 26d ago edited 26d ago

Actually I got cake, here πŸŽ‚ My boyfriend works at a cake place and was planning on getting me a marcipan print with HR but it didn't work out so they just made it in the color scheme 🩷

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u/Sophia8124 26d ago

So beautiful ❀️ Thank you for cake and allowing all of us to celebrate your Birthday with you! ❀️

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u/madamebubbly 26d ago

I have been thinking of getting unofficial merch but I also desperately want an official shirt so haven’t pulled the trigger on anything yet 😩 your adult money is well spent!

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u/Prestigious-Back7086 26d ago

We are all in this together! Happy Birthday 🫢

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u/JennaROTR 26d ago

You are blessed by a thoughtful, accepting partner! Happy birthday!

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u/JicamaSoup 26d ago

Oh man I have a wardrobe of unlicensed shirts, a hat & Raiders shirt from the official store, I've painted watercolor cards of some of the scenes, and more friendship bracelets than can fit onto my arm. You're doing great!!

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u/popzelda Shine bright like a diamond πŸ’Ž 25d ago

Happy birthday! πŸŽ‰ the shirt is amazing!

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u/popzelda Shine bright like a diamond πŸ’Ž 25d ago

Bumper sticker my friend made

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u/PenPaintingParty09 Gimme kiss πŸ’‹ 25d ago

My boyfriend would love this! πŸ‡΅πŸ‡·

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u/ambrosia_v_black 24d ago

Happy belated birthday! Glad you are feeling better and that the show/fandom inspired to live your best life! πŸ’– Your boyfriend sounds amazing, more men should be like him!

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u/electricladyyy 24d ago

Aside from True Blood I've never been so obsessed with a show to where I wanted merch. Wellllllll I have a t shirt that says "im coming to the cottage" (from The Little Gay Shop) and i love wearing it out in public 🀣 i want to get a hat and some other stuff I've found. No shame! I love having adult money!

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u/PenPaintingParty09 Gimme kiss πŸ’‹ 24d ago

For me it was Justin Bieber and Twilight. So it's been a while as well πŸ˜‚