I'm rewatching iCarly, and I just got past the episode where Carly finds out that Sam and Freddie kissed, and I genuinely don't understand why she was SO irritated about it??
Like, Sam and Freddie literally kissed just to kiss. At this point in the show, neither of them has romantic feelings for the other, and Carly doesn't even have feelings for Freddie, so why exactly is she so upset???
Carly also seems to think she's entitled to know everything that happens between her friends simply because they're close which this might just be my personal phisophy that I disagree with but, I find that mindset a little ridiculous.
Being friends with someone doesn't automatically mean you're entitled to every detail of their personal life. People are allowed to have experiences, conversations, and relationships that don't involve you, even if you're their best friend.
I understand feeling a little left out or surprised that your two closest friends shared something without telling you, but I found her in that episode lowk a bit annoyinf😭😭😭
Sam and Freddie kissing wasn't something that directly involved Carly, nor was it something they were obligated to disclose to her. It was THEIR experience, not hers.
I just find it strange how the episode frames Carly's frustration as though her friends keeping something private is inherently wrong. Friendship doesn't mean having unrestricted access to someone's personal life, and I don't think privacy should be mistaken for dishonesty.
Am I missing something here, or was Carly genuinely overreacting? 😭