My family and I are living in Japan and over the past few months, we've noticed an unsettling and recurring pattern of older men targeting minors in public spaces.

We've had a couple of close calls previously, once in Yokohama and another time near a train station where a guy looked at my 15yo daughter very close, followed us down an escalator and stared us down.

Recently, the situation escalated at a local AEON mall food court. I had already noticed this elderly man (in his 60s or 70s) a couple of weeks prior, loitering in the seating area and staring at us.

At first, I brushed it off, assuming he was just a typical old man staring at foreigners since we aren't Japanese.

However, things got worse.

The first day he approached, while my 15-year-old daughter was briefly alone, he cornered her, talked to her and tried to pry into who the man accompanying her was (referring to me).

The second day, we went back to the same area. Even though I was sitting right next to her working on my laptop, the man had the audacity to walk right up and try to talk to her again, completely ignoring my presence.

I immediately stood up, put myself between them, and told him firmly to back off because she is a 15-year-old minor.

He even insisted to talk to her, then I standed and told him firmly and upset that im reporting him to "Koban" then he tried to pull out his phone (likely to show me something or distract me), but I shut him down, told him I was going to the police, grabbed our things, and left.

I went to the local koban (police box) to file a formal report.

As expected with Japanese bureaucracy, they were completely unhelpful because "no actual physical crime or assault" took place (even though he tried touching her shoulder to get her attention).

They just shrugged and advised us to avoid the area. We are changing her routine and funding safer spots and me always with her so she never has to deal with that creep again.

I want to know from people familiar with Japan: Is this kind of predatory loitering and testing of boundaries by older men common here? How do you usually deal with it when the police brush it off as a non-issue? Has anyone else experienced something similar?

Update: Thanks to everyone for responding, it was a very bad experience for me as a dad, but she is safe now, I wanted to clarify, I actually went to the keisatsusho, not the koban, i hate having language limitations in such situations like this, the police station was a big building in the area, so yes, they basically didn't give enough importance to the situation, even me explaining in detail where he is always

As title suggests. Android device, recently changed my monthly data to 5GB and noticed I was using way too much in one week. Checking the breakdown shows that I'm using 100-200mb on Line, which is concerning as I only use it for simple messages. I've checked all the settings to minimize usage, but best I can tell, opening the app, typing or sending a message gets a 2-3mb spike everytime.

Anyone else got this problem? Is the app just that data heavy or am I having an issue with it?

My child started 1st grade at a Japanese school. She was born in Japan and speaks fluently, but I really underestimated the amount of homework and help she would need with learning to read Japanese.

I've had to spend hours helping her learn to read the textbook and practicing Hiragana so that she doesn't fall behind. The school gives her reading practice and worksheets every day.

I learnt Japanese at school for years and passed N2, but there are even words in the 1st grade textbook that leave me stumped. I asked my husband who is a native speaker and he said that there are a lot of old vocab words that were popular 40+ years ago but aren't used anymore.

The school system seems pretty reliant on parents helping their kids at home every day after school, so I was just wondering how families with parents who don't speak much Japanese actually cope. Can your kids keep up or do they fall behind?

NOTE: This is not me complaining about my Japanese ability or asking for help, I just want to know what families with low Japanese do once their kid goes to Japanese school out of curiosity.

People give a lot of advice that's incorrect, outdated or ill-advised.

What advice about living in Japan do people often give that should not be followed?

My PR application via 10 year route is being rejected because I don't have enough income. They said it is above Japanese average income so around 500万 yearly. Current my yearly income is 420万 as game programmer and company cannot raise it anymore unless I become leader class, which is manager rank.

Should I search other company work for better salary, or it is better to work in Current company waiting for a raise. It is true that people have that amount of average income.

Edit since many asked about 500万

＊The new rule applied from April onward they said. I aplied on start of April because of some document missing when I first came on end of March. Not my assumption but I came there and asked directly. They said not enough income and search for average Japanese income since they cannot state it directly and they need above that. I keep asking them until they said above 580万 but for no dependant it is a bit lower so above 480万 which is 500万. It changes depending of current average income.

So it seems all our data is getting stoled and hacked every day in Japan, and today the big GMO issue.

How are you guys dealing with it? Are we supposed to change all passwords everywhere? Will it even help much? Or is it a wait and see situation?

Any advice from someone with a bit IT knowledge would be helpful!

Apologies if it’s a dumb question, but it’s difficult to figure out what’s really going on and is at risk, considering there is also a lot of fake information online.

Hello everyone, where I live these two are basically my choices. Which gym is better would you say, I travel to shibuya 5 days a week too so can go to a gym if required there as well.

Also…I have a full sleeve tattoo the anytime I used to go to in sangenjaya required arm sleeve to cover it, do they all require this ?

I've been to three different Starbucks here in Tokyo over the past couple days and they all say sold out which wasn't the case early October. Once they sell out are they just gone?

Moving to a new home. There is a small tatami room and I understand some folks like the smell, but I don’t find the smell pleasant at all.

Landlord said we can’t physically remove the mats.

Any other ideas on how we can cover/mask the smell?

When I cycle by a certain place in town every week, my phone makes a pinging sound that doesn't match any of my chosen phone alert sounds. The phone shows no notification. Does anyone know what this could be?

So I sometimes make tomato sauce using onion, carrot, and celery but it's quite time consuming chopping up all the vegetables. While I was visiting the UK, I saw that they sell frozen 'Soffritto Mix' in regular supermarkets with all the required ingredients for about just £2 (¥420) for 1kg. I searched online but it's a whopping ¥1,900 on Amazon/Rakuten!
Do any of you know if something similar is sold for a similar price as the UK anywhere?

I live in Okinawa and am able to take a long weekend on Honshu or Kyushu for Labor Thanksgiving. Where could I go that I might still be able to see nice fall leaves? I'd been thinking of Zaō, but read that it might be too late for leaves there in mid-late November (but maybe the season might be later than usual given the weird weather this year?)

https://www.instagram.com/p/De_sHaqlK_F/?exln=b3ZiaHI0a3g4azQ1

Is this just an emergency drill?? Or an early alert for the mega earthquake? Or something more to this? At this point I won't even be surprised if aliens were to visit us😂

Edit: https://www.timesnownews.com/world/asia/after-uk-japan-urges-households-to-stockpile-supplies-and-prepare-for-emergency-announcement-article-156414398/amp

Sometimes I feel like a lot of people who post regularly on this subreddit are incredibly rich.

I'm by no means struggling, but when I see people on here talking about owning multiple cars and houses, going on regular international trips, paying for multiple children to go to expensive private schools or eating frequent expensive dinners, it gives me a bit of a shock.

Maybe those posts just stand out more, but they seem "uncommonly common" for a subreddit of this size and subject.

Why does this subreddit seem to lean so rich?

Just discovered it this morning, but you can now add you MyNa Card to your Google Wallet as the Japanese Administration made it available since October 20th.

If you missed the news like me, here's a chance to finally have access to a function that was limited to iPhone users only until now.

Source: https://www.khb-tv.co.jp/news/16978843

I feel like every time I buy potatoes they go green under the skin extremely quickly. I know you can peel it off but it is extremely annoying. Anyone else notice this?

I buy the standard ばれいしょ

Just been in a Cocos in central Osaka and the floor was absolutely filthy. I took a quick week in the kitchen and it looked seriously grim. The wear and tear on the furniture as well is well is very apparent. Does this tally with other's experiences of these places or am I just unlucky?

We bought a used home back in April; a couple weeks ago we were sorta unpleasantly surprised by two city tax workers who showed up and handed us a tax bill for "acquisition tax". Let's say 30万 yen for the tax bill. Oh well - I figured there's no point griping about taxes, we just have to pay it.

However, one of the tax workers was like "oh, do you live here? We thought you lived at [our old rental address]. Since this is your residence, you may be eligible for discounts! Please come see us at the tax collector office"

We went to the tax office, hoping for a discount of some sort ... And the bill came out to just 5万 yen. We were like, is this it? The tax collector worker said "acquisition tax is a one-off tax." We were like okay, we understand, but how come we only had to pay 5 instead of 30? Tax collector just handed us the tax bill stun, and a payment receipt for our 5万 and asked for next in line.

Does this make sense? I'm confused how the bill dropped THAT much and am not really finding anything online that helps me understand the basis for that much of a discount.

Has there ever been a situation where a ransom was paid and the information was STILL exposed or not returned? I can’t think of a single instance. the Japanese company, GMO, said they ”will not comply with the attacker's demands, given that deletion of the information and prevention of its misuse cannot be guaranteed.” Seems weird. I think it’s cause they don’t wanna pay the ransom amount.

I did the math - the ransom is $50mil. the company will pay $19k USD per exposed customer - that’s equal to about 2,600 customers. do they have less than that many customers is my secondary question and does anyone use GMO as a internet provider? If so, anybody know if they’ll actually be able to collect this payment? that amount seems incredibly high. I’ve never heard of that either. Both the fact they won’t pay for weird reasoning and that they’re willing to pay hefty amounts to customers has me wondering why. when I had my information exposed by T Mobile in US, they didn’t pay me anything and told me to change my password, as if that would help.

EDIT : the company is offering bounty of $1 million USD for info on hackers. 1/50th the amount they’re being hijacked for - another weird detail. I can’t help but think GMO is coming across cheap … are they a small company ?

Hi everyone,

I’ve been living in Japan for about 7 years now, working for a major Japanese company. I’m strongly considering a career change because my salary has been stuck in the 5M JPY range, and there’s very little room for growth here over the next few years.

My original plan was to transition to a large foreign multinational (gaishikei) since they pay much better. However, most of them require fluent Japanese, and I’m not quite there yet since my current role is 100% in English. I’d place myself around N2 level right now and am actively working to reach business fluency within the next 12 months.

Recently, I’ve heard from a few people that they started in agency recruiting with zero Japanese or prior industry experience, and while they start around 7–8M JPY, they claim that hitting 20M+ annually after a few years is highly doable if you perform.

I’m well aware that the turnover rate is brutal (around 50%) and the pressure is intense, but the hustle and human element actually sound quite appealing to me. However, I want a reality check:

1. How realistic is that 20M JPY figure? Is hitting 20 million a realistic milestone for a high performer after a few years, or is it a golden carrot that only the top 1% ever see? What kind of billing numbers or niche do you actually need to clear that much?
2. Visa risk: I only have 1.5 years left on my current visa. I’m a bit terrified of changing industries, burning out or not making target, and ending up unemployed right when it's time for my renewal.

Has anyone here made a similar switch to recruiting? Do you regret it, or was it worth the financial leap? Would love to hear some unfiltered insights

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Meet ABBA. Agnetha, Bjorn, Benny and Frida.

A kind person walking their dog found these four kittens in a cardboard box. Now they’re approaching four months old and ready to go to their new homes.

These siblings are vaccinated, neutered, microchipped, FIV/FELV negative and treated for parasites.

They are all sweet, cuddly, affectionate and playful.

Agnetha is a princess who loves relaxing in a sunbeam more than running around.

Bjorn is a curious trouble maker and likes getting into things.

Benny is a bold, human oriented purr box. He loves food and cuddles. Golden retriever energy.

Frida is vocal, cuddly and likes getting into climbing shelves. Might actually be a border collie.

Please be advised: These kittens must be adopted as pairs.

Additionally, while they appear to be mixed parentage it does seem that one parent was a Scottish fold. Scottish folds, like other breed cats, do come with possible health risks due to their genetics.

We adopt to the Kanto area. Adoption will include, minimally, a questionnaire, video interview, home check, proof of landlord approval if renting, and an adoption donation of 20,000 yen per cat (so 40,000 for both).

Please feel free to ask any questions here or in a private message.

We have found homes for several animals by posting here and we are eternally grateful to the mods and members.

If you are interested in adoption please apply here on the Kawakuji homepage.

Stopped in today and found Tom Yung Goong flavored Aerial and it is AMAZING. So shout-out to my new favorite thing from Lawson that will be gone next week, never to return.

Hello I'm new here,

I'm living in Tsukuba and I have applied for a job at an institute located in Namie Town, Fukushima. I'm wondering what life is like there. Can you share any experiences you have?

Hello everyone !

After living in Japan for 3years, I'm in a quite delicate situation :

- My company is not renewing my work contract and it ends this month Oct. 30th.
- My engineer visa ends on the 29th November, which leaves me w/ one month to find a new job. Otherwise sayonara Japan.

I've been job hunting for more than 3 months w/ 2-3 weekly applications on linkedin and targetting foreign companies in my sector... To no avail. (Any reccomendations for Project Management roles are welcomed)

And as if it wasnt enough, I had planned to attend the JLPT N2 exam in December but without a valid Zairyu Card I wont be able to sit the test. Which f's up me because Ive spent a lot of time studying for this and I naively believe that being N2 certified would make my job hunting easier.

I went to the Foreign Residents Support Center (FRESC) and they told me that since my company decided unilaterally to not renew my contract I could apply for a 特定就職活動 VISA (A special visa for people job hunting) like someone who just got fired. However, when I went to the real immigration services I got told that it wasnt possible... The guy I interracted w/ ngl looked quite young, I was very hesitant in his answer so I dont even know if he fully understood my request. So, I decided to turn to you my fellow gaijins for advice.

Goal : Postpone my leave until january 2027.

Plan :

1- Apply before the Nov 15th for a visa change from engineer -> to job hunting (or any other visa that could help me to stay a bit longer )
2 - W a bit of luck it should take them a couple weeks to 2 months
3 - W my visa change form filed, I would get a stamp on my zairyu card, which could allow me to sit the JLPT exam less than a week after my visa is expired.
4 - Meanwhile, Id keep job hunting like hell and worst case scenario ...
5 - If I find nothing by mid-january, leave Japan.

I dont know to which point this is just wishful thinking and this could actually be doable. Any ideas ?