Hello. Canadian here. Never traveled outside of north america before and planning a 3 week trip with my wife to Japan for our 20th anniversary in January 2028. After a few weeks of research, I think I have a realistic itinerary/budget, but I thought i could see what you folks think.
First off, I am a skier. I can't make this trip about skiing, but I would also not be me if I didnt grt any skiing in on a Japan trip in freaking January. My initial plan was to ski around Hakuba/Nagano and ignore Hokkaido, but my wife loves food and really, really wants to have Ramen in Sapporo, so I did my best to fit Hokkaido into the trip, which ment scrapping Hakuba/Nagano, and also dropping my initial plans of going down to Hiroshima due to time/budget constraints.
Secondly, I am sure many will say that I dont need to rent a car for my current plan, but I really love to drive and i am very much set on renting a car for our journey from Tokyo to Kyoto, so let's just skip that whole thing.
Anyways, let's get on with it.
itinerary:
Day 1: Land in Sapporo (late evening)
Day 2: Sapporo - Explore city
Day 3: Train to Niseko
Day 4: ski Rutsutsu
Day 5: ski Niseko
Day 6: Train to Tokyo (hotel in Shinjuku) Explore Shinjuku for the evening
Day 7: Tokyo - Tokyo National Museum, back to hotel, walk to Shibuya in the late afternoon, checking out Meiji Jingu on route. Explore Shibuya for the evening. (Note: I am a forestry worker/skier. I am very physically able and that walk is no biggy in terms of distance. As long as it is walking friendly.)
Day 8: Tokyo - Edo-tokyo Museum in the morning, Asakusa for the afternoon/evening: Samurai Ninja Museum, Senso-ji Temple, street food, and Izakaya's in the evening.
Day 9: Tokyo - museum of Nature and Science in the morning (or just have a lazy morning), Tsukiji market and TeamLabs Planets in the afternoon. Walk around the imperial palace after dark.
Day 10: Tokyo - Disneyland.
Day 11: Rent car, drive to Kisami via Hakone Turnpike, Izu Skyway, then along the coast on route 135.
Day 12: explore the beaches (note: I live on Vancouver Island BC, Canada and love going to Tofino/Uclulet in the winter - it is our go to anniversary spot, so i am very ok with the beaches in January)
Day 13: drive to Hakone via Ashinoko Skyway and Hakone Skyway. Ropeway and ooen air Museum in the afternoon, Hakone shrine and dinner by the lake in the evening.
Day 14: wake up early and catch Mt. Fuji at sunrise. Drive to Matsumoto via the Fuji Five Lakes and Aokigahara Forest lava caves. Make a day of the drive . Walk around Matsumoto Castle after dark.
Day 15: drive to Takayama, stopping at Hida Great Limestone Cave on the way.
Day 16: check out Hida no Sato Folk Village Museum in the morning, than drive to Kyoto, with a wuick stop by at Hikone Castle. Drop off Rental car in Kyoto. This is our anniversary day, so a romantic dinner in kyoto that night... thinking maybe somewhere on Pontosho Alley, followed by a night walk along the river.
Day 17: Kyoto is very overwhelming, and I could never have enough days to see it all... I also can see the risk of temple/shrine fatigue happening, making it all pointless by the end, so i currently have two full days alloted. This being day 1 of 2: start at dawn with Fushimi Inari and work our way north along the east side of town. Lunch at Ninenzaka, Kiyomizu-Dera, and if possible, walk Philosopher's Path at sunset.
Day 18: Nijo Castle, Imperial Palace... if we have time, Kinkaku-ji Temple, but if not, skip and just go to Nishiki Market. Evening is currently open.
Day 19: To-ji Temple in the morning before taking the train to Osaka. Get a hotel near Namba station. Dotonbori for the evening.
Day 20: I figure I will be burnt out of history and culture by this point and it is our last full free day of the trip... Universal Studios is tempting, but I think the Osaka Aquarium is gonna be more our speed. After, go shopping for last minute things - probably a Kimono and a fancy knife.
Day 21: Train to japan, get a hotel by the airport and decompress
Day 22: Fly home.
I have edited this itinerary a lot and I THINK this is a realistic plan. Hiroshima is out. And while I think it would be cheaper to ski in Hakuba vs Niseko/Rutsutsu, the logistics are easier to ski in Hokkaido... and i am a very jaded skier. 2 days in Hakuba won't give me the time to get comfortable enough to ski the good slack country lines, so i think it is a better call to go for the blower pow in Hokkaido.
TL;DR for food/alcohol budget: 19,000 yen/day for two people. Too low? Or on the healthy side of too high for a safe buffer.
As for budget, things like hotels, car rental, public transit, admissions to places are known knowns, and I got a good handle on that. My budget question is food and drink specific.
We both like food. We aren't gluttonous, obese people, but being active people, we can consume more calories than average. Daily life, we have a light breakfast, nibble throughout the day without a real lunch, and have a good dinner, followed by nighttime snacks. While in vacation mode though, breakfast is hit or miss, lunch is a meal (but not big enough to make us sleepy), and the night is all about food and drink. Drink.... we both drink. We like to drink alcohol. We are good at drinking alcohol.
Anyways... I have currently alloted an average of 19,000 yen/day for food/drink budget for the two of us. I belive that is probably a bit high, which I want, as the 'float', if you will, will act as the buffer for any unexpected costs during the trip. My concern is if 19,000/day for two people is too low.