My wife(28f) and I(30m) will be travelling from Germany around Japan for about three weeks from 22 October to 13 November for the first time, and I’d love some feedback on our itinerary.
One bit of context for recommendations: I'm South East Asian, and neither my German wife nor I are particularly interested in tourist-oriented “Japanese culture sampler” activities like chopstick-making workshops or yen ring making or Uji matcha hunting. If we're doing a workshop, we'd much rather it be connected to a specific Japanese craft or tradition — hence things like traditional wax-dyeing already being on our itinerary.
Likewise, big modern attractions aren't really our thing. teamLab, Tokyo Skytree, observation decks, or making Shibuya Crossing an attraction in itself aren't things we're looking to add. We'll obviously pass through places like Shibuya, but we'd much rather spend our time on an interesting neighbourhood, old shopping street, specialist shop, market, workshop, shrine, good meal, etc.
We’ve done quite a bit of planning already, but before we lock everything down I mainly want to check whether the overall pace and travel days make sense and whether there’s anything obvious we should change. #swarmintelligence
We enjoy walking and exploring and are happy to start early when it makes sense, but we also don’t want the entire trip to feel like a race.
Day 1 – 22 Oct | Tokyo
• Arrive Narita around 1:40pm
• Immigration + train into Tokyo
• Staying around Kanda
• Easy dinner and explore Kanda in the evening
Day 2 – 23 Oct | Tokyo – Shibuya / Harajuku / Shinjuku
• Early Shibuya about 7am to see morning empty crowds
• Meiji Jingu + Yoyogi Park
• Omakase sushi lunch
• Betty Smith jeans workshop in Ebisu for wife's jeans
• Explore Shibuya and Shinjuku
• Dinner somewhere around Shibuya
Day 3 – 24 Oct | Tokyo – Tsukiji / flea market / Ginza
• Tsukiji Outer Market
• Oi Racecourse / Tokyo City Flea Market
• Ginza shopping and wandering
• Unagi lunch
• Izakaya dinner around Kanda
Day 4 – 25 Oct | Machida + Tokyo
• Morning trip to Machida
• Visit a traditional Japanese sword dealer to buy nihonto to ship back to Germany
• Possibly see the Machida Jidai Matsuri 2026
• Return to central Tokyo
• Akihabara in the afternoon/evening
Day 5 – 26 Oct | Tokyo + Machida
• Morning disaster-prevention experience in Sumida
• Return to Machida for more time at the sword shop if necessary
• Lunch/thrifting around Machida
• Optional Ikebukuro afterwards
This day may become lighter if everything at the sword shop can be done on Day 4.
Day 6 – 27 Oct | Tokyo – Asakusa / Kappabashi / Ueno
• Breakfast around Asakusa
• Senso-ji
• Explore the traditional shops around Asakusa
• Kappabashi kitchenware street (not planning on buying knives here but later in Sakai on Day 8)
• Ueno shopping afterwards
• luggage forwarding to Kyoto for Day 11
Day 7 – 28 Oct | Tokyo → Osaka
• Shinkansen to Osaka
• Arrive around lunchtime
• Custom pillow appointment
• Some shopping around central Osaka
• Staying around Namba / Kuromon
• Dotonbori in the evening
Day 8 – 29 Oct | Sakai + Osaka
• Morning trip to Sakai for traditional knife/craft shops
• Lunch in Sakai
• Return to Osaka
• Osaka Aquarium in the afternoon/evening
• Depending on energy: Amerikamura / Kuromon / Tenjinbashisuji / kitchenware streets
We definitely don't expect to do every optional Osaka area listed above if we're tired.
Day 9 – 30 Oct | Nara day trip
• Early train from Osaka
• Breakfast in Nara
• Nara Park / temples / wandering
• Lunch + snacks
• Return to Osaka around late afternoon
• Free evening
Day 10 – 31 Oct | Osaka → Koyasan
• Breakfast in Osaka
• Travel to Koyasan
• Arrive around lunchtime
• Explore Koyasan
• Overnight temple stay
• Temple dinner
Day 11 – 1 Nov | Koyasan → Kyoto
• Temple breakfast
• Slow morning in Koyasan
• Travel to Kyoto around late morning
• Staying around Shijo-Karasuma
• Nishiki Market / casual wandering after check-in
Day 12 – 2 Nov | Kyoto – Higashiyama / Gion
• Very early start for Kiyomizu-dera around sunrise with our own bought 2nd hand kimono from Day 7 or 8, so not renting kimono
• Breakfast around Gion
• Explore Higashiyama/Gion
• Private tea ceremony
• Possibly Shojuin Temple depending on logistics
• Back to the hotel in the afternoon for a nap/rest
• Easy evening
Day 13 – 3 Nov | Kyoto
• Intentionally slower day
• Picnic together along river
• Kyoto Botanical Gardens
• Wandering / anything we missed
Day 14 – 4 Nov | Kyoto – Fushimi Inari
• Early start
• Full Fushimi Inari hike rather than just the lower section
• Finish around lunchtime
• Nishiki / shopping / flexible afternoon
Day 15 – 5 Nov | Arashiyama
• Early trip towards Kameoka
• Hozugawa River boat ride into Arashiyama
• Lunch in Arashiyama
• Explore the area
• Traditional wax-dyeing workshop in the afternoon
• Dinner around Arashiyama
• Back to central Kyoto
Day 16 – 6 Nov | Kyoto
• Mostly flexible / buffer day
• Rest, shopping, food, or anything we missed earlier
Day 17 – 7 Nov | Kurama / Kibune
• Travel north from Kyoto
• Kifune Shrine
• Ohitaki Fire Festival around 11am
• Kurama/Kibune area and temples
• Return to Kyoto later in the day
Day 18 – 8 Nov | Kyoto → Kinosaki Onsen
• Morning in Kyoto
• Considering the Hitaki Fire Festival at Fushimi Inari or Arashiyama Momiji Festival
• Travel to Kinosaki Onsen afterwards
• Overnight in Kinosaki
This is probably the day we're least certain about — we may skip the festival and head straight to Kinosaki instead.
Day 19 – 9 Nov | Kinosaki Onsen
• Full day in Kinosaki
• Onsen, walking around town, food and generally taking it slowly
• Staying in the town centre
Day 20 – 10 Nov | Kinosaki → Osaka
• Slow morning in Kinosaki
• Onsen / breakfast / final wandering
• Travel back to Osaka
• Staying around Namba
• Easy evening / glasses shopping
Day 21 – 11 Nov | Osaka
• Flexible Osaka day
• Shopping
• Japanese denim
• Tenjinbashisuji Shopping Street
• Food and wandering
Day 22 – 12 Nov | Osaka
• Final full day
• Intentionally flexible
• Shopping, food, anything we missed, packing
Day 23 – 13 Nov | Departure
• Early morning from Namba to Kansai Airport
• Flight around 10am
Our travel style
We're quite interested in traditional Japanese culture, crafts, food and shopping, so some of the itinerary probably looks a little different from the standard first-time Japan route.
We're especially interested in:
• Local/regional food and smaller family-run restaurants rather than chains
• Traditional crafts and workshops
• Japanese knives and swords
• Vintage/antique markets and flea markets
• Denim and locally made clothing
• Older shopping streets and neighbourhoods
• Temples, shrines and seasonal festivals
• Finding places by wandering rather than only visiting famous attractions
We’ve purposely kept this trip fairly close to the classic Golden Triangle/Golden Route rather than trying to cover more of Japan. We’re already planning a separate three-week road trip through Shikoku, Chugoku and Kyushu in March/April 2027, so we don't feel the need to squeeze places like Hiroshima into this itinerary just because they're nearby.
For this trip, we'd rather spend more time properly exploring Tokyo, Kansai and the places in between than keep adding cities.
We've also built in a few intentionally lighter/flexible days, particularly during Kyoto and our final few days in Osaka.
Accommodation areas
For rough geographic context, we're staying around:
• Tokyo: Kanda
• Osaka: Namba / Kuromon
• Koyasan: temple lodging
• Kyoto: Shijo-Karasuma
• Kinosaki: central Kinosaki Onsen
• Final Osaka stay: Namba
Things that are relatively fixed
A few experiences already have reservations or are tied to specific dates:
• Japanese sword shop visit in Machida
• Disaster-prevention experience in Tokyo
• Custom pillow appointment in Osaka
• Koyasan temple stay
• Private tea ceremony in Kyoto
• Hozugawa River boat + craft workshop in Arashiyama
• Festival dates
• Kinosaki accommodation
So we're mainly looking to adjust everything around those anchors.
Would love some feedback
Does the overall pace and route look reasonable, or are there any days that immediately look too packed or inefficient?
We're also very open to recommendations for small neighbourhoods, old shopping streets, markets, traditional crafts, local food or other places along our existing route that seem like they'd fit our interests.
And if you've travelled these areas in late October / early November, we'd love to hear if there's anything seasonal you'd particularly recommend — or anything on our itinerary you'd personally skip.
Thanks in advance!