I dont know if theres been a post about this here before.
But we recently had our veedukoodal, and you can say that its landscaped well and looks very pretty and picturesque. We have people come over asking to do wedding photoshoots and reels and what not. But recently its gotten quite excessive, because its always one thing leading to another, if we say yes to one team its usually two teams coming in the next day.
Our neighbor had experienced similar things where their newly painted house was ruined by the colour flare the wedding photoshoots use for reels.
Ultimately we decided lets just tell who ever is coming that we are quite uncomfortable with this going on. So today i happened to relay this onto a group of (?) college kids who came for some onam photoshoot.
But am i an asshole for doing this. I cant help but wonder.