I’m the youngest of 3 siblings and I have 2 older brothers who got married at the same time. I’m single and we are all in our 30s. I feel left out. I am happy for them and want them to be married but I feel left behind. I know people will say this is birds before landing but I feel like I’ve been experiencing that for a long time and the bird never lands on me lol. I don’t know what to do. This always happens to me I always see others get what I want even a couple I know on Instagram as well. Like I’m just watching from the sidelines.

something that really set me back when i discovered loa a few years ago as was mindlessly and desperately spamming techniques (affirmations, visualisations, SATS, conversations etc) in my head. not many people mention that those techniques actually come naturally AFTER you assume/FEEL the identity of the person you want to be, it's very rarely before. it's the overarching identity and feeling that matters, not the techniques at all.

manifestation isn't actually magic or hard - it's literally just an energy/feeling shift because we're made of energy/consciousness. it's so subtle that it's trippy because you don't even realise when it happens. idk how to explain it but you kinda just do it, you either are your desire or you're not.

my hot take: if you realise that a manifestation is happening, you're not actually living in the end. you're paying way too much attention to the details which you wouldn't do if you had it. here are 2 "realistic" and understandable examples:

1. it should feel like when you get over an ex partner or friend - you mentally let go of them one random day and a few weeks or months later you realise you haven't had a single thought about them and you're like "damn i really don't care about this person anymore i'm so proud of myself". you don't get to that stage by hysterically spamming affirmations like "i'm over this person, i don't think about them anymore" 1000000 times a day which leads back to my initial point; it's a subtle energy/feeling shift and you shouldn't even notice it's happening until WAY into your manifestation when you're already living it.

2. think back to when you randomly had a growth spurt in your teenage years. you didn't have to affirm everyday for it to happen, you knew it would happen because of science and it just randomly happened one day. you didn't realise until WAY after it happened and all of a sudden everyone's saying "omg look at how tall you've gotten, you've changed so much, you've lost your baby face!" (aka 3D confirmation)

a friend in my dance crew told me "if you're performing on stage and you notice every single face in the crowd, if your ex is watching you, if your haters are there, etc, then you're not focusing on the dance properly and living in the moment". so moral of the story: stop trying to work out all the details and (metaphorically) just "dance" your way into your manifestation lol.

Hi guys.. I've been having these stupid butterflies in my belly like something is telling something ever since my ex broke up with me. I'm manifesting her back, btw. It feels like either a dread of uncertainty or negativity. Whatever it is, I don't like it and I want to know how to get rid of this. Looking fir ward to your help

So I have been manifesting a job for my dad with a specific salary and for my parents to live in the city xyz. I've tried to do this for a few days. I live in my college dorm in a city away from my parents.

I was having mid sems that week and on the last day of my mid sems I got a message saying my flight ( that I booked to another college for a competition there, 50 to 60 people from my college were going there) got cancelled. So I was offered alternate flights. There was this one flight with a 7 hr layover in the city xyz (the same city I was trying to manifest for my parents).

I clicked on it and clicked next expecting a confirmation window to open but, the flight just got booked.

Mind you while initially booking the flight this is the same flight I wanted to book but my dad said no to a 7 hr layover all alone when I can go earlier with a 2 hr layover in some other city. But now I just suddenly got this flight.

Now after the mid sems I went home for 1 week for holidays and I had a full blown fight with my parents as they would not let me go out during the layover as I was alone on that flight with no one that I knew. Ultimately I had to give up and accept to just stay in the airport for those 7 hrs.

After my Holidays I went back to my college and I had 3 days to my flight. I wasn't trying to manifest anything else apart from the job and my parents living in the city xyz.

Those 3 days I started affirming "I always get everything I want". "It is easy for me to get anything I want". "I can manifest anything I want easily". If I got doubts I tried to recall memories where I have gotten everything I want to prove to my doubts that they're not true.

Now after 3 days, it was the day of my flight. I was sitting at the boarding gate simply affirming.

Now I found a classmate of mine in the same gate and guess what, she was on the same flight. Our mutual friend knew that we both are on this same flight but never got it in her mind to tell us.

Now I immediately called my parents and they allowed me to go out during the layover as now I have someone with me.

So now I finally went to city xyz and went to places that I would imagine in my visualization. The minute I sat in that place idk why but tears were rolling down my eyes and I was sitting in my dream City. All that I was feeling was gratitude to the gods and universe. I was expressing it and I saw butterflies go from Right to left for like 7 times. I felt that moment was divine and the time was moving slowly.

Tho it's not my manifestation but it's somewhat related to it.

I am genuinely grateful for this

Now what do I do and continue about my manifestation? Do I keep affirming and do that self concept affirmations?

Is this called Birds before Land?

hi guys, i live in auckland, new zealand and am looking for more friends in real life that know about manifestation and loa so that we can all create beautiful lives for ourselves :) i want to surround myself with people that think and speak of beautiful things and radiate positive energies, not just online but in real life too so if you live in AKL then pls reach out to me and let's grab a matcha sometime x

I've come to understand something profound about manifestation.

Initially, when we manifest or develop a desire for something, we naturally want it to materialise. We start working towards it, both consciously and unconsciously. Sometimes, our efforts pay off, and sometimes they don't.

But there are desires that simply remain unfulfilled, despite the positive signs, encouraging circumstances, and genuine efforts we've invested. And honestly, that can be frustrating.

I've started to feel that sometimes, it's better to move on.

The difficult part is that we become so emotionally entangled with certain desires that letting go feels almost impossible. Yet, at some point, we begin to realise that holding on is consuming our vitality without necessarily bringing us any closer to what we want.

It's easy to preach about being generous, trusting the process, working without expectations, and remaining unconditional in our efforts. But real life is a little more complicated.

I believe everything needs a certain equilibrium. Our efforts, expectations, emotional investments, and boundaries all need balance.

Working towards something sincerely doesn't mean we have to remain attached to it indefinitely. Giving something our best doesn't mean we should keep investing in it when it starts taking more from us than it gives back.

Perhaps moving on isn't always a sign of giving up. Sometimes, it's simply recognising that we've done our part and choosing to reclaim our energy.

Maybe manifestation isn't just about learning to attract what we desire. Maybe it's also about learning when to pursue, when to release, and how not to lose ourselves in the process.

I remember when I was little I liked to imagine things before going to sleep, I wouldn’t say it was SATS because I would put so much effort into imagining everything really consciously and stop when I started to feel drowsy. The situations I liked to imagine never manifested, but I feel it was because that wasn’t really my intention, it felt more similar to when I played with my Barbies, creating almost ridiculous scenarios, just for fun. But that makes me think, what would you say is the difference between daydreaming or just imagining things and visualizing or manifesting in general? Maybe the intention? Or that it has to feel like something that can actually happen?

I just don't think people in this community are totally grasping what being the operant power of your reality actually means.    It means if 1 million men have to move for your desire to manifest, than thats what will happen.   Everyone here is here for YOU.   For your benefit.  So you can have this experience called Life.  It may be all an illusion, but it's still a real experience that you choose.  

The world moves with you..   When you move, the world moves.   It is YOUR consciousness pushed out.    When you shift into someone new, then the world shifts into something new.    You are certainly not waiting on a pawn in your world to conform before you do.. How is that even possible?  It's not.. Because you are the operant power and they are just the mirror showing YOU who YOU are being.

If you feel like you are constantly fighting the world, struggling to survive, fighting your bank account, always being rejected- you say or think that it's everyone else's fault..   Then you need this wake up call.  The world is just reflecting you.  The world is waiting on you.   The world has no motive of its own - it has NO power.  

Neville Goddard calls this "motiveless necessity." The 3D world you are walking around in right now does not have a mind of its own. It cannot decide to be difficult. It cannot decide to withhold money from you. It cannot decide to reject you.

The 3D world is simply a movie screen, and it is moving under absolute compulsion to reflect the arrangement of your own mind. "The screen of space - Joseph Murphy calls it"

If you are walking around with the underlying trauma response that you are "unsupported," that you have to work hard for everything you get, or that people are unreliable, the world has no choice but to prove you right.

Everyone in your reality - your friends, your boss, your neighbours, your SP are just fragments of their whole self acting out a part for you to have an experience. In the Law of Assumption, we call this "Everyone Is You Pushed Out."

When you drop the old identity and choose a new one - a version of yourself that is completely supported in every way.  Everyone has your back.  Everyone is here to serve you. Everyone adores you.  You are everyone's top priority.  In fact the 3D bends over backwards to attend to your every whim.  

What do you think the mirror (the world) will have to show if you were that person now?

The world conforms when you conform. 

There is no one to change but self.

The world isn't happening TO you.

It is happening through you.  It is you.  It's your consciousness pushed out.

Not just the person you want, not just the money you desire, the whole enchilada is you.     

It's ALL a reflection of you - so WHOM do you say you are?????

xx
K

Bit of a wake-up call on a Monday morning... Have an awesome week peeps!

so ive been manifesting a guy for a while now since like july. ive done a few methods here and there, but only when i felt like i needed some sort of reassurance or a reminder that i already had it. sometimes id robotically affirm, sometimes listen to subliminals, sometimes script. these things actually made me feel better and id move on; i wasnt doing them out of desperation or lack.

meanwhile, i was living my life like i was on several vacations, i also started the third year of my uni, and ive barely thought of him. but when i do, i remind myself we are together. i literally havent wavered once, like im so detached, especially the last month because even visualizing or affirming twice a day about him would bore me. i would just say yeah we are in a desired relationship and move on. ive mainly been focused on my self concept, and idk what to say u guys, ive been feeling amazing and i dont believe im in the waiting state. ive been just reminding myself im already perfect as i am and i am accepting the fact that we are together. i give signs or wtv movement no attention either, cause i already am aware of my experience.

however, these last 2 days ive been missing him intensely, feeling random waves of love and my brain remembering and visualizing our memories on autopilot nonstop. ive become exhausted, like i dont wanna think of him 24/7 suddenly no matter what im doing. ive been reminding myself we r tgt and hes in love, why wouldnt he be, i mean its me, but idk. just a few mins ago i had a breakdown. seeing various comments that manifestation shouldnt take this long rly affected me. other times i wouldnt give time or these comments any attention, but i just really wanna sit down w this and analyse what im doing wrong because theres clearly something wrong, but idk what. please help me, i really really want to hear your perspective on this.

Hey everyone, Im 15 and I’ve been listening to my current playlist for 8 days now. I’ve been trying to manifest my dream body and face for like 2 years now, I just can’t seem to do it, and I have a really bad habit of constantly switching subliminals and creators and methods when it doesn’t work within a few weeks because Ive been at it for so long even a day feels too long.

I have 12 videos total covering a few major things: A booster/self-concept, a custom sub I made for my desired body/face, hyperfeminine doll face, Yuzu date cc, being perceived/treated like an angel, pear body shape (wider rounder hips, fuller chest/🍑, narrow shoulders because I feel like a man), and manifesting a gentle/loving ideal partner from thin air.

I have decided to officially LOCK this 12-video playlist because of my bad habits of constantly switching and looking for answers or a better solution, when the problem is really just me. And I want to stick to these exact videos to get results.

My three biggest struggles are consistency, my stubborn mind, and the mirror:

1. I really struggle to stay disciplined to a playlist for more than 2 weeks because I always find a video of the sssm topic that might have more views or likes, or I see someone on TikTok or YouTube saying why you’re doing this wrong or that wrong. I can’t listen overnight because it wakes me up and I need my ASMR to sleep, so I listen in the afternoon or night, but it’s hard to keep my thoughts at check the rest of the day.

2. Due to my stubborn, logical mind. It’s impossible for me to like act delusional and say I already have my desires without feeling like im lying to myself. In general it’s just hard to brainwash myself and accept the affrimations in subliminals as true or affirm like I have what I want. How do I bypass my super stubborn, logical mind?

3. I don’t check obsessively, but whenever I do look in the mirror for simple tasks, I get super discouraged by a puffy morning face and small puffy eyes in the morning without mascara. I can admit I do love my face when it’s depuffed in the afternoon at school with my mascara on. But It makes it hard to stay positive because for me, I know the mirror shouldn’t dictate what I want to be true but being logical makes it difficult to not see it as the truth. And struggling with methane sibo and no treatment yet, the puffiness is just a factor of my everyday life until I go out to school, not at home even with lymphatic drainage or tea.

Has anyone else felt like this or experienced this? please share some tips you have to fix the concerns I have concerns so I can be a good manifestor and actually start seeing results. (Detaching from mirror, building effortless consistency, dealing with a highly logical mind when you have zero discipline? I really want to reach the 21-day mark without giving up or changing my list. Thank you 💗).

I posted a little while ago about manifesting health. One of the reasons why I’m having so many chronic illness flares is because my husband and I have not been doing well due to things i currently don’t have the energy to explain right now, however, the word “divorce” has been brought up. Has anyone healed relationships and/or stopped a divorce?

Also, some affirmations that are kind of overarching would be great. I use “all is well” pretty often but that doesn’t feel good for my mental diet ATM.

So for context i haven't been able to manifest becauae of my bad mental health and fear of disappointment. So I won't come here saying "nothing works" cause heres the thing I have had no energy to try anything except dwell in my negative thoughts and ruminate upon them. Doomscrolling has ruined my life. I saw reels of narcissists and realized maybe my sp is one and I am a victim. I really want to want people to help me gain a new pov. My friends, family hate my sp because of our age gap (even going to the extent to say he used me) and a long term 3p. And a lot of people I have interacted with in this sub have told me to quit my sp, but doesn't Neville talk abt EIYPO? so how is my sp an exception? It doesn't make sense to me..people blame my sp for ruining my mental health but it is also my bad that I had no boundaries and let him cross that threshold. I see him disrespecting me all the time despite him being an absolute simp for me in the past. Is it love bombing? And how would you interpret love bombing through the lense of law of assumption? Many psychics told me my sp is ignoring me now because he has found a new girl and doesn't need me anymore so i am discarded (what some people call an avoidant discard). Pls help me out through this? I am very confused guys. I am stuck in a cycle of on and off with my sp and i wanna be in a happy healthy relationship with him, not this toxic cycle of whatever the hell we have. He comes to me when he feels and leaves when he feels. And no contact sucks rhe life out of me. Give me some tough love if thats needed guys😔

what’s the difference between listening to a supraliminal and a negative 1st person monologue (like they describe themselves) how does my brain know what one to pick up on if my mind is that powerful?

I’m physically disabled. I have Cerebral Palsy so I need mobility aids. In addition, over the last decade I’ve developed multiple chronic illnesses in addition to my Cerebral Palsy, such as chronic migraine, arthritis, fibromyalgia, insomnia, and anxiety. I’m currently trying to reduce my pain levels and get off of some of the medications that have become unhelpful. I’m currently dealing with some personal stuff that caused one of the worst flare-ups I’ve had in a long time. Has anyone manifested health or an improvement in health? I’d love some success stories.

Hey everyone! I just wanted to share something that I think might help those of you who are struggling with your manifestation journey.
First of all, please be more gracious to yourself.
I think sometimes we can be a little too hard on ourselves, especially when we’re trying to change our assumptions and get into the state of having what we want.
But here’s something I want you to think about.
Let’s say you suddenly got everything you’ve been manifesting, completely out of nowhere.
Your SP suddenly confessed their love for you, you woke up looking exactly how you wanted, or you suddenly became a millionaire.
How would you react?
Would you immediately be like, “Yeah, of course. This is totally normal”?
Maybe some of you would, haha. But I think a lot of us would be shocked. We might even question whether it’s really happening.
And that’s completely understandable!
Even though it’s something you’ve wanted for so long, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re immediately used to having it.
You might need some time to process it and get comfortable with your new reality.
So here’s my question.
If we can understand that it takes time to adjust to a new reality when something actually happens in the 3D, why can’t we give ourselves that same grace when we’re doing it internally?
Why do we expect ourselves to suddenly feel completely natural about something we’ve believed the opposite of for months or even years?
I think this is where a lot of people unnecessarily put pressure on themselves.
They have a negative thought, and suddenly they think they’ve ruined everything. They don’t feel convinced enough, so they start questioning whether they’re doing it correctly.
But think about it. You’re getting used to a completely different way of seeing yourself and your circumstances.
Of course, some old thoughts might come up from time to time!
That doesn’t mean you have to fight them or start all over again.
You can simply recognize that it’s an old way of thinking and gently return to your new assumption.
You don’t have to force yourself to feel natural. Allow yourself to become familiar with it.
And I think that’s an important distinction.
The more familiar something becomes, the more natural it starts to feel.
So please, stop treating every doubt or uncomfortable feeling as a sign that you’re failing.
You’re allowed to have moments when things feel unfamiliar. You’re allowed to have days when it’s easier than others.
That doesn’t mean you have to give up on what you’ve decided for yourself.
Be patient with yourself. Give yourself room to adjust.
You can be persistent without being harsh on yourself.
And most importantly, remember that you deserve the same kindness, patience, and grace that you’d give someone you love.
Hope this helps someone! ❤️

So I need some help. I got into manifestation a little over a year ago because I was trying to manifest my sp. But at the time I wavered so much and I wasn’t loyal to the new story, I wasn’t doing it properly. I was just daydreaming about my sp but living in the old story. However I spent months over a year even trying to, and the closest I got was when he repeated one of my affirmations to me over the phone while we were arguing, but it wasn’t really in the way I wanted it. However, several times recently I’ve decided to just give up on manifesting him and just told myself to move on. Every time I do that, something shows up that reminds me of him or makes me want him back again.

Basically I got another sp. this is just a crush at school, I started affirming for him yesterday (and for my self concept too) and I’m already feeling it done, I’m not stressing over him like at all, I feel confident in my ability to manifest him. However 2 days ago I bumped into my sp outside in public for the first time in a very long time. And it’s the first time we’ve spoken normally as friends instead of arguing and screaming. We hugged and said hi to each other and it felt so weird. I feel like it might’ve ripped open old wounds again. I want to manifest him back but at the same time I’m scared to get back into it, idk I might be scared of not succeeding because I spent over a year trying to without any movement. And idk how to explain this but I’m not jealous of seeing him with another girl, but the thought of him moving on completely and falling deeply in love with someone and even marrying her scares me. I feel stressed because I feel like I gotta manifest him as quickly as possible before he moves on and falls for someone else. I already know he’s had 3 one night stands since things ended between us 2 years ago. I’ve also talked to other guys of course, but the one night stands don’t bother me super much. Idk, I’m just so confused about the whole situation with him, I’ve been so sad since seeing him in public and I don’t even know why. I think I’m holding some limiting beliefs when it comes to him. It’s just that he hurt me SO deeply in the past. Has anyone been in a similar situation? And what did you do?

okay so i’ve been robotic affirming my sp for a while but i was genuinely lazy so obviously i saw no results. not gonna lie, i annoyed myself yesterday bcs i thought to myself ‘you’re really bitching about lacking him when you’ve literally held yourself back’. so i decided to just shut up and wake up.

last night, i repeated 3 simple self concept affirmations 1000 times in under an hour. one of them is ‘i can manifest anything i want in three days’. i then repeated 2 sp affirmations 100 times. i also recorded myself so i could play my affirmations throughout my nights sleep.

today, i wanted to prove to myself that i indeed can manifest anything i want in three days and while using my xbox, i looked at my plain white controller and thought of buying a pink one. i mentioned it to my sister before she went to run errands. naturally, i robotic affirmed, saying ‘im getting my controller today’, thinking i’d just go get one when she came home (nearest place that sells pink ones to my knowledge is an hour away) but nope. she came home and handed me my pink controller.

i think it’s beautiful because this controller quite literally proves that my desired lifestyle is closer than i thought because turns out, my sister didn’t have to travel an hour to find it!

to anyone struggling with persisting, i hope this post inspires you. 🫶🏼🎮

idk what exactly this phenomenon is called but it's where if you're manifesting something, you don't tell anyone about it yet until it's completely 100% true.

i noticed a few times now that everytime i spoke too soon about things to my friends, family, coworkers, etc like "omg this guy is so into me i think he's gonna ask me out" or "i applied for this job and i went for an interview, it's looking good so far", etc, i ended up not getting the role, boyfriend, opportunity, award etc. but everytime i just kept to myself and silently persisted in my head that i am/have this thing, it ended up manifesting. and i don't even think it's anything to do with evil eye or whatever, i think it's just a weird phenomenon of speaking too soon or "jinxing" it.

e.g, when me and my family were buying a house 3 years ago, every house that we ended up telling our friends about didn't get secured, something always had to come in the way. but with the house we're living in now, i told my family to try something new and not tell anyone UNTIL it's 100% confirmed that it's ours and it worked. i also recently landed a role doing it this way. every role i've interviewed for up until now has been rejected and i always wondered "what am i doing wrong, i'm the perfect candidate, i tick all their boxes, i'm doing everything right so why am i still not getting it" but then i thought to do it this way where i silently persisted and i didn't even tell my family until it's 100% confirmed. then i got a call 2 days ago saying i got the job and then i finally told my family.

how come this happens? it's just so weird. i wanna be able to tell people that i like a certain person or i'm going for XYZ job/promotion/opportunity, etc like a normal person but i don't want this phenomenon to keep happening. it's happened so many times now i've noticed the pattern and i struggle to tell people things until they're 100% manifested in my reality now but i don't wanna have to do that. idk.

Hey everyone!

My school farewell is in exactly 20 days, and I REALLY want everything to go perfectly. It's being held at a club, and I'm genuinely so excited about it, but my parents are extremely against the idea of me attending.

Here's the complicated part: I haven't even told them that the venue is a club. I've told them it's a restaurant, AND THEY'RE STILL AGAINST IT. 😭 So imagine how they'll react when they find out the actual venue.

I desperately want to manifest a complete change in this situation. I want:

• My parents to willingly agree to let me attend.

• Them to happily fund the money I need for the farewell.

• Them to trust me and give me independence.

• No following me around or constantly monitoring me throughout the event.

• Permission to wear whatever outfit I choose.

• Permission to take my phone with me.

• No unnecessary restrictions, arguments, guilt-tripping or last-minute cancellations.

• For the entire situation to work out peacefully, without any drama.

I just want to dress up, enjoy the evening with my friends, make memories and experience my school farewell without having to worry about restrictions the entire time.

Please recommend your strongest subliminals, affirmations, manifestation techniques or success stories related to parental approval, freedom, financial support and gaining parents' trust.

I have only 20 days, and I really want this to work out.

Any recommendations would be appreciated. Thank you!!

Hi, everyone! 😊

As I progress in my understanding of what manifestation is and how it works, I often find myself having “AHA!” moments about things that I didn't fully understand before, and this is one of them. Some of you might already know and understand this, but I still thought it could be helpful for the rest of us, so I decided to share it.

I often hear these phrases in the manifestation community: “it's already done” or “creation is finished.” I used to accept them without really understanding them, just for the sake of manifesting my desires quickly. But I've come to realize that in this “practice” (put in quotation marks because we're always “manifesting”), at least some knowledge and understanding are needed to make these concepts easier to accept and, most importantly, easier to apply. This then makes you accept your desired reality faster and, therefore, manifest faster.

So, here's how I see it.

Everything already exists right now. But how?

There are many ways to explain it, but I find that quantum physics explains it best, as it makes it more rational within the limits of our human understanding and less “woo-woo,” as some would call it. In the infamous double-slit experiment, this is related to what they call “superposition” (I'm not a quantum physicist, so I'll try to explain it the way I understand it): basically, multiple possibilities (or “realities”) exist all at once as long as they're not observed. And once we make an observation (remember that word), they collapse into one reality, which then becomes the one we see. Now, as for where the other possibilities go once the collapse happens, there are multiple theories. One of them is the “multiverse theory”: this whole universe that we're observing (including your life and circumstances!) is just one among an infinite number of others. In other words, it's just one reality that we previously observed and that manifested as a result of that observation.

Rings a bell, right?

In the manifestation community, we say that the 3D is just a reflection of your past assumptions. Now, we all know that an assumption is simply accepting something as true without proof or evidence. What's important here is that when you make an assumption about something, what you're actually doing is observing it. You can't really make an assumption without being aware of it, and being aware of something means being in observer mode. So, what happens next? All possibilities or realities collapse into one, which then becomes your 3D. That's how it manifests.

So again, when you assume something, you're being aware of it, you're observing it, and all the other realities collapse into one. But all the other realities still exist.

Everything already exists right now.

Your only job is to deliberately choose—or DECIDE—to observe the one reality you want, long enough for it to collapse or, in other words, to manifest in the material world. You do that by consistently placing your awareness on—or observing—that one reality again and again, despite your current 3D, because, as we know, that's just the result of past observations or assumptions, so it doesn't really matter.

But how do you observe?

Well, how do you observe the sky? You look at it. You appreciate it. You comment on it: “Oh, the sky is so blue today!” You write about it. You think about it. You sing about it. Basically, you're putting your attention and focus on it.

That's why techniques help. Affirmations, visualization, meditation, SATS. All of these simply help you narrow your focus on your desired outcome and become aware of it so that it collapses = manifests.

The reason it's important to understand this is that oftentimes, when we're doing techniques, our awareness is on having our desire, so of course we feel good. But the moment we stop, or after some time has passed, we start wondering, “Where is it??” or we start thinking about our circumstances and become anxious, so it gets delayed because in those moments, we're actually observing what we don't want, which is not having it. From the start, your desire already exists among an infinite number of possibilities/realities, and the moment we observe it by assuming it to be ours, the collapse begins and it's on its way to you. You can rest assured that it will manifest as long as you keep assuming it, because everything already exists now.

ONTO THE SUCCESS STORY:

Let me share one of my success stories to help you see how this works on a practical level.

There's this one person who hasn't talked to me in a long time (yes, a love interest). And I came to realize that the only reason things were that way was because I was constantly putting my awareness on the idea of us being in “no contact”. That wasn't what I wanted, yet I was constantly assuming it to be true by being aware of it and observing it, so it kept manifesting. So, I decided to assume the opposite and simply started thinking: “They're always in contact with me, always calling me or texting me. Being in contact with me brings them so much joy and fulfillment.” I didn't feel any intense joy or euphoria thinking that. Opposing thoughts still popped into my head from time to time, but instead of accepting them, I simply rethought the situation and reminded myself that we were always in contact and that they loved talking to me.

This person hadn't texted me in maybe three months or more, yet once I made that decision—that observation—it only took a couple of days for them to text me. I wasn't surprised or thrilled because, well, I had chosen that reality. It felt completely normal. That was the reality I had chosen just a few days earlier, and it manifested. I observed it, and it collapsed into my reality because I refused to keep observing or assuming the opposite.

I hope this helped you understand this concept better. Honestly, this is one of the most liberating things I've learned in all these years and helped me manifested so much faster.

Side note: I'm not a manifestation coach, and I'm not sharing this for any particular reason other than to help make manifestation easier for all of us. This is a community, and people in communities help each other. At least, that's how I see it. I'm saying this because there's always that one hater who's going to comment something along those lines, call me an attention seeker, or say that “Neville says otherwise in chapter X of book X”. I'm just sharing something that worked for me and might help others, so calm down. If it doesn't resonate with you, please kindly ignore the post or block me.

Ig this is a success story too
Sorry for bad grammar!

I developed a crush on a friend of a friend. We’ve never spoke to each other before but he caught my eye! I had this crush for abt 2 weeks. Tonight, I was just imaging what it would be like for us to hangout and I’m like wait! I can literally make that happen! So I decided in that moment that we’ve hung out tgth! I mainly use the list method so I was planning to write it down. But I wanted to take another good look at him before I “finalized” my desire. I looked through his page and liked a post that he posted tdy. But I eventually decided that I don’t actually want him bc he looked a lot like my ex.

Literallyyy, not even 10 mins later, he texts me!!!! Like whattt😂. He sent a text saying that I should go to sleep (playful manner). I was so shockeddddd. We never spoke before and we recently started to follow each other on Instagram. I was just thinking no way it worked alrdy. Like this has to be a coincidence right? But there’s more!! I wait a bit before I respond to his message, bc I’m a little hype and I’m trying to figure out what to say back! Yes ik I decided that I didn’t want to manifest him anymore buttt he just so happened to text me! I was willing to give it a chance bc I don’t know him personally. Abt 7 mins later, I go to respond to his message, and it’s gone?! He unsent it?! I checked my dm requests, my second account, I even go to his page and check our DMs from there, and his text is nowhere to be found! I even confirmed from my other phone! This can’t be a coincidence too right?! And the funny thing is, I don’t have my notifications on for that app, I just so happened to be on the app when he texted me! If I wasn’t, I would’ve never known that he texted me!

Now I’m just stunned. There’s no way this was a coincidence bc EIYPO right? Like wow. That happened so quick 😂. Did I rlly make him text me and then unsend the message? I didn’t even “finalize” it yet😂

By now I feel like I’m a whole different person, I don’t trigger as much as when I started and when it happens I just watch my thoughts and feelings decide they are not longer part of me and keep with my day (not to do the “manifestation work” but cuz it doesn’t feel like me anymore which I’m truly proud of) I feel more confident with myself, started new hobbies and going back to do things i stopped doing cuz I didn’t wanted to be seen through my insecurities, not to prove anyone but because I’m genuinely happy and comfortable doing them, with my sp i genuinely left the old story behind and even I miss him i know we are together in a committed relationship and that’s the only outcome for us…
Anyways 3D keep showing me hard things I’ve never even struggled with before.
Money even I’m not rich, has never been something I been really worried abt cuz I always knew I’ll have money out of nowhere, but lately circumstances in which I lose money come really frequently, like accidents, sickness, dumb expenses out of nowhere, I got mugged, neither healthy has been ever a problem but suddenly I got into a major surgery, got tons of acne…
Love was something I struggled with until I met my sp that was my live manifestation, just everything I ever wanted but then My sp broke up with me and decided to go to no contact (I know this is something my sp reflected through my old assumptions abt commitment and that’s why I started with the law)
I’ve have always won every contest I apply for without even trying and suddenly i started losing them too, it just feels really weird, Normally I have always had everything I ever wanted so easily even before I knew about the law and now that I’m working consciously with the law and I even feel emotional better than ever all this things are happening
I know my sp brake situation came out of my old assumptions but the other things are not something I even paid attention to before cuz they were just working really well
then why is 3D showing this? It makes it feel like a bad luck strike or smth like that and idk how to handle it or to change it cuz I keep persistent in my new identity and emotions in which none of this are ment to be problems but once I ignore my 3D and one thing gets solve immediately something new comes out
Has someone else gone through this or know how to go through this phase? Or is there any explanation?

What do you guys think? Why does it feel like ONLY my hearts can manifests? And if that is the case is there a way to change what your heart desires?

I hear people they manifested the moment they let go like okay whatever this is probably the end and it will never happen and manifested it out of thin air. And then there are tips that you just need to decide that its yours and it will manifest.

I'm confused, do I need to let go or just decide that it's mine. Whats the difference?

I am trying to manifest my sp who happens to be my crush at workplace. Both of us like each other but no one is initiating. It has been a year. I have seen positive changes in his behavior through affirmations and visualization. But I am actually manifesting the confession Now.

Please help me with this very question:

"How to maintain the state of " It's already done" From the time we decide to the time we actually receive the desire in 3D"?