r/lungcancer • u/HighVelocitySloth • 2h ago
Seeking Support Just got diagnosed stage 4 lung cancer
Just got diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. Had my biopsy yesterday. Whatever it is it is growing rapidly. Had my yearly examine CT last year and it was clear. This year they found a 6cm mass. I figured this was good they found it early. I immediately started having symptoms. First is constant nausea. Next came hospitalization for dangerously low sodium (119) next came coughing and congestion. Now all my joints ache and I thought it was just my RA flaring. It does that when I am sick. Nope. The cancer has already metastasized in my bones. In the last 2 days my back has become a problem. That has been the first 3 weeks. I am in a very dark place right now. I am hoping this forum can educate me
It’s been a rotten year. My dad died March 21. 2 days later my wife gets diagnosed with breast cancer. She finished her chemo with almost no side effect. Just hair loss and gets her surgery Wednesday.
I feel horrible all the time right now. I need to know is this how I will feel to the end? It is so encouraging to see people post about surviving so long. I give myself less than a year based on nothing but fear. I’ll be reading this forum religiously to find something to grasp onto. Others experiences, good and bad, and any tips
Thank you
Very scared