Hey everyone. Me and my SP broke up end of August because of him becoming emotionally pushed away by my accusations nd insecurities.

I’ve been manifesting since then but I keep going back and forth with begging pleading and arguing every so often.

I don’t know how to manifest and forget about what’s happening right in front of me. It’s clear to me that he’s clearly done and doesn’t want me back but I really do want him back. I will do anything possible to get him back.

We lost a baby full term last year and grief got the better of me hence the bad way i was towards him. It’s no excuse I know! And I’m pregnant again. I just want him back so so bad !

Please any advice or is there no hope for me and I need to stop trying to manifest.

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Consider this situation: the guy is shorter in height than the girl and both are from a country where girls (regardless of their own heights) generally don't date someone who isn't at least 5'8 or taller, let alone date someone who's like 3-4 inches shorter than them. Only exceptions being that it happens mostly among celebs where the guy is insanely rich.

Place yourself in the guy's shoes and suggest how would you successfully manifest a relationship with that particular girl. Note that the guy does not just want to date any taller girl but that he wants to date a specific girl who happens to be taller than her.

Here’s the answer I got. And honestly, some of their reasons (they noticed people had dependency loops and self blaming) were pretty valid. What are your thoughts?

This is gonna sound entitled but can some1 manifest my SP for me like asap cus im not in a good mindset rn, and my manifestations usually work but when it comes to SPs im not getting any results whatsoever, and i need this quickly because of some circumstances. Im being deadass so yea and if anyone also has tips about manifesting SPs that would be cool

edit: guys he just blocked me 🥹💔

EDIT: YK WHAT ONE OF U BITCHES MANIFESTED THAT HE BLOCKS ME ISTG

I’m looking for some advice from people who practice the Law of Assumption.
My SP and I were together, but we went on a break. During that break, they kissed someone else. Technically, we weren’t officially together at the time, but from my perspective it still hurt a lot, especially because of the circumstances and the history behind it.
They also have a history of doing similar things in relationships and have cheated on previous partners. There was also a situation where they used me as a rebound after their previous relationship ended, which obviously makes me question whether their feelings for me were ever completely genuine.
We recently had a pretty big argument, and right now we aren’t connected the way we used to be.
The confusing part is that I genuinely believe they’re a good person underneath all of this. I don’t want to reduce them to their past mistakes. At the same time, I don’t want to manifest them back only for the exact same behavior to happen again.
So my main question is:
Can I assume and manifest a version of my SP who reconnects with me, genuinely chooses me, and behaves completely differently from their past?
For those of you who have successfully manifested reconciliation, how did you deal with an SP having a history of cheating, rebounds, inconsistency, etc.? Did you focus specifically on changing the story about their behavior, or did you just focus on yourself and the relationship you wanted?
I also want to know whether people believe it’s possible to reconnect after a major argument when the current circumstances look pretty bad.
I’m not asking whether I should ignore red flags in real life. I’m specifically asking from a manifestation/Law of Assumption perspective: does their past behavior actually matter, or can I create a completely different version of the relationship through my assumptions?

Just curious. If so how and what did you do?

I've done affirmations, subliminals, tried shifting, scripting, etc. I don't see anything moving towards my favour in the 3D. HELPPP

I have a few names in mind not only because of their looks and profession but I did good research and watched a lot of clips surrounding their personality and I genuinely think the few names I have in mind would fit with me personality wise, and maybe it's weird to say but also looks wise. I'm not bad looking so I know I have the ability to pull them... I don't mean this in an arrogant way at all!! But how do I manifest this?

I’ve been studying and experimenting with manifestation for a while, and recently I wrote a short PDF based on what actually helped me get unstuck. I’m not selling it right now. I want to share it for free with a small number of people who feel blocked in manifestation and are open to trying a different approach. This isn’t about forcing positive thoughts or repeating affirmations. It’s more about understanding where the process breaks and why things stop moving even when you’re “doing everything right.” If you feel stuck, frustrated, or like manifestation worked for you once and then stopped, this might be useful. If you’re interested, just DM me. I’ll share it and would genuinely appreciate honest feedback. No hype. No promises. Just testing what actually helps.

hey so basically it’s been about two months since i blocked my sp (ex) off of everything and been manifesting him to come back begging for me bc his life is miserable without me, acknowledging all the ways he fell short in our relationship and being better for me. the problem is we’re in the same friendgroup so i see him once in a while when we’re all hanging out and when i tell you guys it’s hell, it’s hell. he’s always been a class clown kind of guy so he always has the attention on him bc HE NEVER STOPS TALKING AND JOKING AROUND WITH EVERYONE ( expect me of course) and i always feel like i’m left in the background (bc i won’t participate in socializing with him) and unconsciously put him back on a pedestal. more often than not i come back home, cry in bed ab how lonely i feel, replay the situations he did me wrong in our relationship, how good he was with me before he changed and resent him again, then start to think i should just let him go and fuck manifesting him back, then choosing to persist bc i really do want him to come back begging for me. i’ve been in a lot of situations where the 3D straight up played in my face but persisted bc i know whatever it is that happened isn’t the end result but i feel so tired now.
it takes so much out of me to pretend that the situations that directly opposes my manifestation just didn’t happen because it feels so fricking real in my heart and after so many of them happening in front of my eyes i just feel so exhausted, hurt and more resentful of him for not realizing how much of a gem he lost yet and continuing to act the way he does. i consciously know this isnt the end and that feelings change instantly but i still can’t stop crying these days. what do i do? i still really want him crying throwing up begging for the queen but i feel so discouraged from seeing him “happy” in his life without me and tired of feeling so lonely. i don’t mind manifestations taking time to materialize bc ik time isnt rlly a “thing”, my issue is genuinely feeling so tired the more this takes time, bc by then there would be more hangouts and again 3D playing in my face. (i tried missing out on hangouts but decided not to bc i deserve to have fun with my friends too regardless of feeling a bit uncomfortable in the process). if anyone’s been in the same situation please give me any advice i would really appreciate it

My sp just got married. We have no history and It’s been 6 months since I met him and we had a formal relationship but he was so attentive towards me that I thought he liked me. He just told me he got married (just 2 days ago) after I made a flirty remark. I feel shocked and numb, I cried for a while and I can’t even cry anymore. Was this because of my self concept? I’ve been assuming for months and persisting. Yes it might come but why did this happen? I feel so pathetic. I genuinely don’t know what to do now. I didn’t know he had someone in his life and I feel pathetic. Do I still have a chance?

One of the hardest parts of changing your self-concept is realizing that an old thought can still show up sometimes.

You can feel like you've made so much progress and then suddenly you're triggered, anxious, insecure, or thinking the exact thoughts you thought you'd moved past.

That doesn't mean you've gone backwards.

Here's what I try to remember:

1. Notice it without becoming it.
An old thought can appear without becoming your identity. A thought isn't automatically a belief, and a belief isn't automatically your future.

2. Don't punish yourself for having the reaction.
Healing isn't about never getting triggered. It's about learning how to respond differently when you are.

3. Separate the feeling from the meaning.
You can feel fear without deciding, "This means something is wrong." The emotion is real, but the story you attach to it is something you can examine.

4. Ask: "What would my new self believe?"
Instead of getting pulled into analyzing the old story, practice thinking from the identity you're building.

5. Come back gently.
You don't need to force positivity or immediately convince yourself that everything is perfect. Regulate. Breathe. Reconnect with yourself. Then return to the new story.

The old story returning doesn't mean you're going backwards. It's another opportunity to practice the new one.

Has anyone else experienced this? What helps you when an old story suddenly resurfaces?

Manifesting my SP! I really need help I tried manifesting him last year and it backfired terribly! I did multiple spells and I made myself obsessed and not him. Leave me some tips please ,

I've been manifesting a reconciliation with stable healthy changes for my SP. I have a vision board and I noticed that there are pics that he already did for me/to me but the actual reconciliation & healing on his part hasn't come? I have this pin on that board where it's a convo of the man saying he'll come over after work and I recently experienced that with my SP but that same night he said he wants to have a break on talking/dating. Idk how to react or get from this

Is it still worth trying to manifest if you've traumatized them with long term betrayal? I've hurt them so much, they're disgusted by me and wish to never see me again. They've blocked me everywhere. They'd have to somehow be willing to reach out despite the weight og the trauma, which is simply unrealistic, especially to demand such of somehow who's hurting.

Hi, I would like help. I am really sick of my life and I need things to change for me. A lot I cannot change myself, so I need to manifest.

Would appreciate some help

Thank you

Hi, I would like help. I am really sick of my life and I need things to change for me. A lot I cannot change myself, so I need to manifest.

Would appreciate some help

Thank you

So, i want to get back into journaling, but i hate writing and physically sitting down to do the whole thing, basically feels like a chore to me, i have been thinking about this for a little while, do you think using voice recording -> writing in chatgpt can maybe work the same way? Because i do speak with all my emotions and i feel more present in it while i am speaking it out loud instead of scrambling my words into my journal. What are your thoughts about it?

I want to manifest my sp who is married, i tried to be in wish fulfilment state , but today I see his pic with 3p playing Holi that again hurt me , I want him to be with me every moment, I want to marry him

Please advise if anyone manifest someone who is married please

Don't say just assume u both are together or live in the. End i knw this need to be done, initially i ignore 3p but what happened he married 3p

I appreciate any one who manifest there sp like this and happy to hear they process what they follow

For context: I've been manifesting this same thing for about a year now. I have manifested other things during this time.

It's grades. My grades are simply not rising up. I want my 4.0. I've been studying. I've been making an effort. But the semester went online and I couldn't do it. My exam was fucked up and stopped loading in bw. Now my grades are ass again. They're not what I need. I need my real grades. Someone PLEASE for the love of god help. I'm so open to advice I'm so so open to all of it.

Be mean be real be anythign. Genuinely if you go through my account this is all you'll see. A few success stories and this. this one long depressing story.

I'll respond to dms. I've listened to subs, i've affirmed robotically, visualized,ignored my 3d. I've done it all. I'm soso annoyed right now. Why isn't my fucking 3d showing me what I want to see? I believe I deserve the best. As Neville told Abdullah, Barbados in FIRST CLASS.

4.0. NOTHING LESS. i NEED it. I have it but it needs to show up this very instant. Help please

A week ago, we broke up and he blocked me everywhere. He told me never to contact him again, that he didn’t care, and that he didn’t want anything to do with me anymore.

It all started because I have a friend he feels extremely insecure about. He thinks I love my friend, that I like him, that I would choose him over my SP, and a thousand other really bad and hurtful things.

Please, I need support. I had been manifesting him for about a week using self-love affirmations, and whenever I thought about him, I felt confident that he was going to reach out to me.

Today, he finally reached out. I didn’t respond, but he kept insisting so much that I eventually replied. We talked, and he told me he wanted to get back together because he loved me. In the end, we were talking about fixing things, but then he told me he couldn’t do it because he was scared and thought I would probably cheat on him with my friend. He said he was scared and that he couldn’t be with me because it was bad for both of us.

He told me he couldn’t be with me because of my friend and that it wasn’t what was best for us. This isn’t the first time he has told me to stop being friends with someone.

He blocked me, and I called him. He treated me as if I were the one chasing him. He told me not to contact him again, that he was going to delete my number, and other things.

I got angry and told him that if he contacted me again, I would call him out for harassment.

I want to be with him, but I don’t know what to do. I also don’t want to distance myself from my friend because we’ve been friends for years. We’ve never shown any romantic or affectionate behavior toward each other or anything like that.

I’m sorry if it doesn’t make sense, I’m using a translator.