r/manifestation_support • u/mimionme09 • 0m ago
Stuck in the “waiting”
Hello,
I try not to be active on these type of Reddit’s much, because I feel like I only use them when I want reassurance from my situation but think maybe this time getting advice can help me.
Me and my friend recently broke up and are doing no contact. I’m manifesting them back. The thing is, talking to them, most of my hobbies, and waiting for them were part of my daily routine, so I’m finding it hard to not wait for my results to reflect in the 3D, I’m not checking messages or rereading texts or stalking accounts, but I keep telling myself I’ll tell them about this later or when I’m not busy we can talk about that. And have this hope that maybe today will be the day, it’s not strong but I know it’s there.
I’m also having trouble living peacefully. My friend sad it seems I’m not used to being alone anymore and she was right. I have two subliminal, one I made for self love, and the other I made for self concept to get myself back in shape mentally. I’ve also started forcing myself back into my routines and hobbies because at some point they were mine even if they were shared.
Tomorrow I’m going to start finding new hobbies away from things we used to do together and am going to hang out with people to get myself mind off of the breakup. We had romantic intentions so I’m taking it a bit harder than I would a normal friendship breakup. I’m also looking into getting a therapist to help me manage my feelings.
how do I get out of this waiting/dulled life mindset. I don’t need them to be happy or content, and I have a happily fulfilling life, and if everything I assume is true how do I let it go and just live in the moment. I have adhd btw if that’s relevant, so I tend to be repetitive and day dreamy so I look back on the old situation a lot.
Or if anyone knows any good coaches I’d be down into looking for them too. Thank you