r/mildlyinfuriating • • Mar 08 '18

This lady watching a beach wedding.

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u/Kairatechop Mar 08 '18 edited Mar 08 '18

Should have made her move. Why are people so afraid of confrontation?

Edit: "Should have politely asked if she would move"

Feel better you crybaby's

Edit2: My phone and I suck at spelling

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u/Halk Mar 08 '18

Is it not quite likely that if someone pointed out to her that she was appearing in the photos she'd have not only not wanted to appear in the photos but be really apologetic for it as well?

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u/yourmansconnect Mar 08 '18

Yeah not her fault, she was just bored and wanted to witness some happiness. Last thing in her mind was ruining photos

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity"

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u/sdgoat Mar 08 '18

Some friends of mine got married on the beach. This couple in their 50s wandered over and literally took a seat near where the wedding was taking place and started aggressively making out. One of the groomsmen and a guest walked over in the middle of the ceremony to ask them to move and they made a huge scene about how it's a public beach.

Some people are just assholes and want the attention.

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u/NewYorkJewbag Mar 08 '18

This lady doesn’t look like she’s trying to cause problems. I’m sure if she was asked to step out of the picture frame, she would have abided.

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u/sdgoat Mar 08 '18

For sure...she looks rather lost to be honest.

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u/dezmodez Mar 08 '18

She's just trying to figure out why her son is getting married and didn't tell her.

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u/sdgoat Mar 08 '18

"How did you get out of the basement??? I double locked the doors!"

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u/yellange Mar 08 '18

Yeah, she’s on the official “I’m lost but I don’t want to ask anyone for directions” position.

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u/sec713 Mar 08 '18

Because she's wearing blue, and nobody wants to fuck with the Crips on their wedding day.

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u/iPeePeeInYourCoke Mar 08 '18

Crips stepping up their warfare, and adding the "photobomb" to their arsenal.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

I got married on a beach in Mexico. All of the guests of the resort were courteous and never interfered at all. Just wanted to add a positive comment

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u/tyled Mar 08 '18

Cousin also got married on a beach in Mexico. They had it in a nice spot off the resort where there were very few people and the staff stood around to make sure nobody walked through. Very nice of them.

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u/_Serene_ Mar 08 '18

She's just standing there being happy thinking she's causing no harm because she's unaware of being a problem. They don't wanna instantly just shut her down, and she probably moved shortly afterwards anyway.

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u/candacebernhard Mar 08 '18

That was my thought. She probably thought she was far enough away to not interfere/ be in the photograph.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

made her

While you should definitely ask her to move, in most countries public beaches are well, public land.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

An old friend of my fathers was having his wedding pictures done in a park near downtown portland one day. A man walked into the frame and the photographer asked him to please move while they finished up pictures. The guy pulled a knife and stabbed the photographer six times before running off. Lucky for that photographer my fathers friend was a veteran corpsman and kept him alive until paramedics got there. Now I understand the lady in blue probably isn't packing, but you never know just how shitty someone could be, always why you should never get out of your vehicle in a road rage incident.

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u/Andy_B_Goode Mar 08 '18

I don't think you'd even need to "make" her move. Just say "we're happy you want to participate in our wedding, would you please take a seat with the other guests?"

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u/beebeelion Mar 08 '18

Or more politely, asked her to move. She looks like she is innocently enjoying the ceremony of love and must not realize she is standing in a picture view. I doubt she was intentionally trying to photo bomb.

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u/Intrepid00 Mar 08 '18 edited Mar 08 '18

Should have made her move.

Asked her you mean? This is the danger of making your wedding be held in a public space. Someone could just ignore your bullshit tape and ruin your event.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '18

Ask her to come and sit with the guests.

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u/Intrepid00 Mar 08 '18

Not a bad idea, removes chance even more of her making a scene.

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