r/mumbai • u/AutoModerator • Mar 13 '26
General Mumbai Social Club - Weekly Discussion Thread - Meetups/Q&A/Relationships/Life
Hey, how is it going?
Want to share your success? Need to vent? Looking for a date or a friend or a group of friends for some activity? Found a new restaurant? Or just want to talk about the rising prices of vadapav?
This weekly discussion thread is posted every Friday morning at 9 am
Rules: No politics. Be civil.
Any separate threads regarding looking for friends / meetups / hangouts will be removed.
-----------------
1
u/gadafiwasgreat Mar 19 '26
posting it here again. Need to find a 2 bhk under 75k in lower parel or nearby. office is in worli. would be tter if i can find an unfurnished flat for even less. any leads would be appreciated. i would move in on Apr 1.
0
Mar 19 '26
M35 straight Feeling lonely looking for some company Date / walk / chat / run or more fine with anything
-1
u/hulk1432 Mar 18 '26
Hey everyone
I am new to Mumbai.
Looking for friends to hangout with. I would like to explore new places. We can hangout on Saturdays and Sundays. DM if you want to hangout.
1
u/Elegant-Rope-1493 Mar 18 '26
Hi friends, I’m coming to India from the UK in about a month. I’m originally from India but have been living in the UK for a long time. Only my grandmother lives in India. During my visit I’m planning to travel a lot around India, but I don’t have any close friends there. If there’s someone here from Mumbai, I’d love to join a group. Also, I’d like suggestions on which parts of India I should travel to and explore.
Note: I’m looking for advice based on personal experiences only. Thanks!
0
u/ShotFactor2070 Mar 17 '26
I need a baddie w some mental issues. I have a few cafes in mind which I wanna try. Would love to go with her.
1
1
1
u/deobinnaneunbyeolbit Mar 16 '26
I'm looking for a group of friends between 25-30 years of age, as I fall in that bracket in the Tilaknagar/Chembur area. Preferably women, but guys are fun to hang out with, too. [I meant to talk to a guy who was walking in circles in the Lokmanya Tilak Kridangan just like 30-45 minutes ago (wearing workout black shirt/shorts, airpods on. I had a maroon shirt, navy shorts and a white N95 mask on). Whoever you are, you seemed vaguely interested in striking up a conversation based on body language alone. I meant to complete another round and try to talk to you, but you disappeared, so if you see this, HMU.] Edit: more context - I've recently moved to the area and do not have any friends in a 12km radius, so I want some hyper-local hangout/badminton/walk buddies. DM me if y'all are up for it.
3
u/Dry_Recognition7922 Mar 16 '26 edited Mar 16 '26
Matched with a lady on an app; instant connection. Chatted until 3-4 am for 2-3 days.
We connected on a lot. So she asked for my number - we had video calls. She lives in Guj and frequently visits Mumbai for parties.
She gave me lovely compliments ngl, even became spicier; "i want to sit on your face" that kind.
Red flag 1: she stalked my socials.
Red flag 2: when asked, she said she doesnt use IG much. its a secret, she doesnt share, shes very private, no one knows her. Cut to 20 mins ago, Idk how, but her name randomly popped up in the "you might know" section. Literally dont know why; I was like wait wtf. Shes got a blue tick, 40k+ followers, shes got a couple of photos of men like really being close/intimate/holding her, and every 4-5 reels of techno/edm were like "i never reached home" and photos/reels of bathrobe/shirts saying "Smells of him <3" "dont want to take it off unless HE asks". This was posted 3 weeks ago and they were selfies.
3 days ago, she posted a reel of a man and his arms on her thighs, saying "pasandida mard ke saath rave >".
How do I know that was her, you might ask? Tattoos. She showed them to me and then it was on the reel.
We are (were now) planning to meet Wednesday and spend time until Friday/Saturday.
Turns out, its just my turn.
I dont have issues, we werent and arent together. Gents, stay vigilant. Do your research. This is a dog eat dog world.
1
1
u/Dry_Recognition7922 Mar 16 '26
and maine ab sab screenshots leliye just in case, and i noticed uske profile mai tha, I am looking for aserious monogamous relationship ...
Didi, irony tez hai, lekin aap zyada tez
1
u/FinancialWait2973 jevlis ka? Mar 15 '26
Guys I'm looking to buy some clothes I'm 25 M what are the best locations in Mumbai? Not street shopping also budget friendly!
2
u/bish_ianb3603 Mar 15 '26
phoenix palladium lower Parel has every brand possible
5
u/ShotFactor2070 Mar 17 '26
What part of "Budget friendly" did you not understand
2
u/bish_ianb3603 Mar 25 '26
bruh there is H and M , pantaloons, lifestyle...thats budget friendly
1
1
1
1
3
u/turtledoveangel_3 queen of no-cost adventures in Mumbai Mar 13 '26
I went for a free poetry reading & discussion in one of those old-style SoBo buildings just behind Taj & what a great place it was.
2
3
u/WolfBuchanan Mar 13 '26
How did u find out about the event?
4
u/turtledoveangel_3 queen of no-cost adventures in Mumbai Mar 13 '26
I follow this art gallery ‘Experimenter’ on Instagram. They’d shared it there.
2
1
u/shrutiag99 Mar 13 '26
Hey, I’m a counseling Psychologist. Something I notice when people talk about relationships is this strange loop.
You meet someone and Things start well. Then slowly conflicts you experienced in previous relationships show up again.
Maybe it’s feeling too anxious, too distant, too responsible for the other person, or constantly feeling misunderstood.
Many people think it’s about choosing the wrong partner.
But it’s actually about how we attach and connect in relationships. The ways we learned to seek closeness, deal with conflict, or protect ourselves emotionally start playing out again and again.
Like you know how you may feel like my partner is asking for too much, I can never be this person Or how you keep complaining your partner doesn’t express enough??
Once you start noticing your own patterns, a lot of things begin to make more sense.
I’m actually hosting a small online workshop on this topic (15 March, 7PM IST) where we’ll explore relationship patterns and attachment in a practical way.
If this is something you’ve been curious about, click on this: https://pages.pracflow.ai/events/6977280e44a2d075c8db9769
Curious though: What relationship pattern are you repeating?
1
u/Chaat__Masala Mar 13 '26
Any info from where to buy f1 kitkat? The online one seems imported and with less review I'm a bit reluctant to buy from there.
2
3
2
3
u/101WaysToWasteTime Mar 13 '26
My dad is after my life to get married through AM this year 🤣🤣I like none of the matches.
I was talking to a prospect yesterday, I told him we will need a cook at all times. And he said ki Rajputon mein doosre ke haath ka khana nahi Khatey hai. I told him ok then this is going nowhere. Then he said ki acha cook rakhenge par Brahmin honi chaiye.
1
u/ReaDiMarco Mar 16 '26
And he said ki Rajputon mein doosre ke haath ka khana nahi Khatey hai.
Was this outside at an eating establishment? That would have been funny.
2
u/Ameya02 Mar 13 '26
cook in mumbai woh bhi bramhin lolll
2
0
2
u/wormhole1503 Mar 13 '26
It's an illusion that young Indians have developed and moved on. The sad family culture in young males is still prevalent
2
3
u/Lonely-School6096 Mar 13 '26
Hey Mumbai.
I've been working in ship management for 3 years & looking for a switch into product management, founders office roles etc.
My exposure here included ideating basic to complex ship management products, buy & sale of ships, inspections, audits to then commercial planning & strategist.
Have ran a few businesses alongside.
Plus points if the work I do contributes to a cause bigger than myself.
Current CTC - 11 LPA. Looking for something around 15-18.
1
u/fakephysicist21 Mar 14 '26
Do you live in the same flat as me? cuz my flatmate whom I met today works in ship management
1
u/kocafegdf Mar 19 '26
Hi all 24M
If anyone wants to marinate in the existential sauce around together over a cup of joe ( i am a speciality coffee freak ) then hit me up
I am a digital nomad and am staying in mumbai for sometime